guys don't like me.
i'm not hideous.
i'm smart.
i'm nice.
i care about people.
i'm not obese.
i have good morals and values.
i don't know why guys don't like me.
i haven't had a boyfriend in over a year.
and the only guys that like me are a$$h0les.
whats wrong with me??
2007-03-30 16:39:57 · 20 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and by the way i am DEFINITELY not concieted... i am not perfect. i'm not absolutley gorgeous, i don't have the perfect body, i'm not einstein.... but its not like i'm the complete other end of the spectrum, either... so i'm sorry if i offended anyone...
2007-03-30 17:02:14 · update #1
As you stated in your about me section :"i love to sing, dance, and be in plays and musicals. i am homeschooled, and it is prolly one of the best decisions i have ever made in my whole life. i like to read, write in my journal, listen to music, hang out with my best friends liv and melissa, watch movies, go to dances, go to the movies, and meet hot guys =]
i am in love with someone. but they are away right now. they'll be back in mid-june. i just hope they miss me as much as i miss them...
i live in a shitty town. its small and full of inbred retarded hillbillies. i can't wait to get out of here. i want to go college for musical theater or opera, hopefully in europe, i just have to find the right college... "
Well, to me, you sound like a great person =] Why are you worrying? Quit worrying and enjoy life. Get out there, hang with your friends, meet some guys, dump some guys. Don't drive yourself into a rut by putting yourself down all the time. Nothing is wrong with you. Believe me, I use to do that too...I'm nice, I have good morals, values, you name it....whats wrong with me?? Think positive, don't always be so negative, girl! You in college yet? Over in Europe I'm sure you'll find some hotties. Whatever happned to that love of yours that was suppose to be back mid-june?? Either way, keep your head up and best of luck with things!
2007-03-30 17:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by KatNap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not you. Its them. Its probably your age group or the place where you are meeting guys. I used to be the same way. I never, never had a boyfriend and I used to be smart, cute, funny, into sports, etc. Some people say boys are intimidated by people who stand out. I personally think thats a load of crap, but who knows. Here is what I think the deal is. You must be meeting boys who are not ready to settle down. And to us girls, settling down usually means a serious relationship with possible marriage, kids and a mortgage;but to guys, settling down means anything monogomous. The guys that think this way are usually aged 19-28. Some guys start wanting relationships around 25, but most just want to play the field for a while. Its not you. Its them!!!! My advice is to don't fret and go with the flow. I promise you will meet someone nice to be your boyfriend. Until then, enjoy being single and being able to flirt and look at anyone you want. Just have faith, keep yourself as irresistible as possible and have FUN!!!! Trust me, I am now a mother of 3 going on 5 years with the same man ( and I used to be just like you!!!) Good luck!
2007-03-31 14:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by braves, yankees & saints fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question but i think there is nothing wrong with you it is just a matter of time so keep looking and some times it is what you do not know is actually better for you so if you reaaly need a friend e-mail me i might be able to help you out or become a friend
2007-03-30 23:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out a bit more that way you can meet people and then if you still continue to have the same problems you should consider in seeing a therapist or something?
2007-03-30 23:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to become more of an angel of fire! Maybe become a bit more hideous and burn those people who are being a$$h0les to you and walking all over you! And, just to make you feel better, I think you are attractive if that's your real picture!
2007-03-30 23:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your profile:
About me: i love to sing, dance, and be in plays and musicals. i am homeschooled, and it is prolly one of the best decisions i have ever made in my whole life. i like to read, write in my journal, listen to music, hang out with my best friends liv and melissa, watch movies, go to dances, go to the movies, and meet hot guys =]
i am in love with someone. but they are away right now. they'll be back in mid-june. i just hope they miss me as much as i miss them...
i live in a shitty town. its small and full of inbred retarded hillbillies. i can't wait to get out of here. i want to go college for musical theater or opera, hopefully in europe, i just have to find the right college...
Maybe you've just narrowed down the playing field a bit too much? Those inbred retarded hillbillies may see you the same way.
2007-03-30 23:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the guys u pick that are a holes im sure the ones u wioudnt date r not a holes go find a dork he will treat u right just dont treat him the way u have been treated
2007-03-30 23:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothign kiddo
you just gotta keep at it and stay away from those aholes because they dont do ya any good to ya confidence either
yea it takes time but you'll find him and you shouldnt even worry bout ya looks ...the guy should like you for you!!!
goodluck
2007-03-30 23:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by yanks_win2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like you and I think you look very attractive. There is nothing wrong with you, you just haven't met your Prince Charming yet.
2007-04-03 03:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing stop looking and he'll come to you.Or maybe you're looking in the wrong place.
Good luck Girl.
2007-03-30 23:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by *.:LALA:.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋