Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

Okay so I was friends with this girl and she randomly got mad at me one day and never told me why. Now she's been talking behind my back and telling people lies about me and calling me a fat @$$. She even convinced one of my friends to go on "her side". But then today the girl she corrupted apologized to me and I forgave her and says that my xfriend was planning on apologizing too but she got sick and I didnt see her today. I dont know if I should forgive her for everything she's done. She made school miserable for me. Should I just put the past in the past?

2007-03-22 08:56:18 · 7 answers · asked by Midget 2 in Friends

My husband and I simply cannot agree on names for our future kids! Which names do you disagree about and why?

2007-03-22 08:56:14 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have great talent of dance and i am a movie actress now she is all behind me she has a talent of art & craft but she does not uses it all now what can i do......... i am afraid that she will cross my lvl and be better than me!

2007-03-22 08:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is so horrible, and I don't know what to do. Well, actually I do know what I SHOULD do but I just want some other opinions. I met this guy and when I did I never told him my age, and he assumed me to be 18. I just didn't bother to correct him because I figured that we would maybe talk once or twice but never again. Wouldn't you know it, he is absolutely fantastic. Just a wonderful, sweet, intelligent, enlightened, mature, caring, thoughtful, funny guy. He is 22. We talk almost every night and have pulled several all-nighters, talking on the phone until the sun comes up. He lives in a big city and has been wanting to take me out. I thought it would be weird since he was older, but we mesh well. He is actually embarrassed about my "real" age and told his friends that I was older. I am actually not even legal, only 17. I've never outright lied to him, I just let him assume. Now I'm in so deep I don't know what to do... my birthday isn't for like 3 months! AH!

2007-03-22 08:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My problem is that I am VERY hands on - I want to plan every detail of my wedding! The minister, the flowers, the music, the food...everything! Everything that I have found so far comes in a package! I know this is to make it easier, but I don't want it to be easy! lol I want an outdoor wedding with an indoor reception at the same place (ceremony outside, move inside for the reception) and no packages. Is this possible? Also, I live in Las Vegas - if you know of any place that can help me PLEASE tell me!!!! Thank you so much!!!

2007-03-22 08:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My guy broke up with me in January (we still live together) because I betrayed him (not physically) and he feels he can no longer trust me. But then we started "acting" like we were together...I thought we were. Then we got into an arguement one night and he said he can't do this anymore and we are done. But then he is back to being affectionate and we are spending time together again. 2 weeks ago he made this big deal that we have to disassociate ourselves from each other and no more sex ect...but the next day we were back to haveing sex and were inseperable that week, he was being cuddly and affectionate again. Then last weekend he told me that he no longr wants to be in a relationship. That he still loves me and cares about me. He spent the next few nights going out (just to my work) But then Tuesday he was bummed because I wasn't home and he wanted to hang out with me. I have been giving him space, but he keeps coming to me. what does he really want?

2007-03-22 08:55:05 · 21 answers · asked by Ammikins 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went out on a blind date last night. We had dinner, the conversation was great, it was alot of fun. We had alot of laughs. We even kissed at the end. It seemed as though things were going well. He even said he'd like to see me again. I saw him online, and he hasn't replied. Is he avoiding me?

2007-03-22 08:54:53 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Singles & Dating

Girl from another school im going to her prom with and I was wondering If i should pay both our tickets. I think we are going to be going out too I just havent asked yet.

2007-03-22 08:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me are getting ingaged in april and then after that we are going to get married on June 6 of 08. Do you think that is to soon?

2007-03-22 08:53:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would you suggest singles to marry someone?why?what did you think about your mate before and after marriage?

2007-03-22 08:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are trying to keep our wedding as low budget as possible while still having it classy. My fiance`s aunt used to be a caterer for years until she decided to quit b/c of her Lyme disease. I know that she isn't a caterer anymore, but would it be acceptable to ask her to cater our wedding of 60-70 people? If she agrees should we pay her or just pay for the food?

2007-03-22 08:53:49 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy 2 B 3 in Weddings

My last boyfriend just turned 20 and my husband feels like he is getting a little old. I can't go under 18. (I watch To Catch a Predator. lol) But the younger guys are just not the same anymore. I don't want a "text" or "cyber" relationship. What do I do?

2007-03-22 08:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kelli 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 08:52:39 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

your boyfriend had the following qualities:
kind, loving, generous with time and money, remembers b'days, valentines days, calls to check on you, takes you out to places and always foots the bill, spends holidays like xmas with you, even the new year, a good communicator, hardworking and even talks about having children, starting a business with you/without him taking any money from you.... but.... is hesistant to take you to his home because he's not ready for you to visit! he's not homeless as he owns more than 20 apartment buildings.... and can't possibly be married cuz i see him from friday to sunday every week and some weekdays, i can call his cell at anytime and he spends holidays with me... wants me to accompany him to florida for him to have a look for possible vacation homes....so what could be the problem??

2007-03-22 08:52:32 · 20 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married and I'm confused on the details and roles of the wedding party. I need a list of the party and their roles, PLEASE!

2007-03-22 08:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ive always had a hard time telling my mom about my boyfriends, well i just started see this guy and i dont know how to tell her. how should i start and what should i say?

2007-03-22 08:50:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly...this is an ugly person's chance to finally be pretty.
i know everyone can't be supermodel wonderfully fantastically beautiful like me
soooooo ugly ppl why make ugly avatars

2007-03-22 08:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I clicked with a coworker doing a business trip and we became close friends.He told me he had a girlfriend and that they just bought a house together but he wasnt happy and wanted out of their relationship.
Then he told me that he broke up with her but because of the financial situation, they were still living in the house (in seperate bedrooms) until they could sell the house.
We hooked up soon after and started a serious relationship. We were together for about 4 months and it was very special but alot of stress was involved because of his living situation.Basically alot of drama was involved and we ended up ending it and he said that as soon as he moved out he wanted to be with me.
Now I found out very recently that he's with his girlfriend again and I can't help but to feel betrayed.Now I don't even know if he was lying to me during our entire relationship and I don't want to know.
His girlfriend knows nothing about me. Since he lied and screwed me over, should I tell her????

2007-03-22 08:49:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m going out on a date this weekend with someone I’ve never met in person. We’ve talked over the phone for the past month, but I’m having first-date anxiety. What can I do to go into this feeling more confident? I’m also afraid that we won’t have anything to talk about (we covered a lot of the “getting to know you” questions on the phone). I’m afraid of awkward silences ... and (even worse) turning into a babbling idiot! Any advice... soothing words... etc? What are excellent topics to discuss? thank you...

2007-03-22 08:49:38 · 6 answers · asked by lola 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy for a roommate. Monday I had to work he didnt. I had to run home unexpectedly in the middle of the day. I walked into the living room and caught my roommate naked and pleasuring himself just as he was "finishing". I froze for a few moments out of shock and stood there wide eyed staring. He was past the point of no return and I witnessed him "finishing".

Is this how you would react? If not how would you react?
I couldn't help staring, is this normal?
What to do now?

2007-03-22 08:48:50 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friends boyfriend slapped her across the face for no reason!!!!! I am a female and I kicked his a$$ but now my friend is mad at me because she said she was fine and I just made him mad at her!!! Do you think she needs the Jacka$$?? I mean he doesn't deserve her!!! Or at least I don't think he does! He said that I was a B I T C H and needed to mind my own busness. I am a cowgirl and I was raised a man didn't lay a hand on a woman!!! what do you think??? would you have done what I did??? If not what would you do diffrently??? Was I right in what I did or was I wrong???

2007-03-22 08:48:16 · 2 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a Black man and I have a question that has been on my mind for awhile. I have different white girls come up to me and ask me how can I date a black girl with their sassy ways, but what is wrong with being attracted to someone in my own race, I love my women and I think they are so beautiful, with their curves, big pretty lips, that I do love to kiss and I think no woman can take their place. My black friend has a white girlfriend and he allow her to talk about black women and I think that is so wrong because he forget that at the end of the day he is still black. I'm not saying it's anything wrong with interracial dating because I dated a white woman before and I promised myself I would never go there again because she thought that it was alright for her to talk about black women and I told her she couldn't and she got mad becasue I left her for a black woman, but my question is if you have a black boyfriend do you think it is alright for you to talk about black women?

2007-03-22 08:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by TJSexyman 2 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I met right out of college, started dating, and 4 months later she was transferred to a large city. I quit my job and we moved in together in this new environment. We were madly in love, talked about marriage, and all was good, but it may not have been the right thing to do. 3 years later, I still love her and it hurts my heart to think of being without her, but he sparkle has faded. She wants to be married and I don't know if I see a life together. My parents don't care for her much, her two younger sisters are both engaged, and most of her good friends are married. She asks me about getting married and I have no answers. I feel like I am being pulled in 2 different directions! I think I may want to be single and test the waters... How do you break up with someone you live with? I read a lot about just telling her the truth - even though it will hurt. Living together further complicates matters, too. What do I do???

2007-03-22 08:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my BFF called another one of my freinds a nam that is seriously bad and she doesnt know we and this girl are good freinds and my other freinds will get mad at me if i hang out with her and my BFF will get mad if i hang out with them and they both hate eachother so they wont talk to eachotherabout it so i am outos solutions.

2007-03-22 08:47:15 · 10 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1 in Friends

The colors of the wedding are pink and it is a spring wedding. I am a bridesmaid and I know the bride has some ideas but I am looking for fairly inexpensive and easy to take down (we have to be out of the hall that night). Any suggestions would be great.

2007-03-22 08:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by LISA H 1 in Weddings

someone to love or a dog to live with?

2007-03-22 08:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have encountered a situation where myself and a lady that works at my job, have been exchanging glances with one another and she has, let me know that she is interested, but she is married, and I dont want that kind of complication in my life, however I would like to become a close friend to her, because she is really sheltered and she is 200% committed to here family, and she has no outside interest and it is consuming her whole life, where she can not grow and there is things that she need to learn, and I would like to teach her or at least help her find her way, but I dont know how to approach the situation, with out taking her out of her comfort zone, or scarring her off, this is the last thing I want to do, because she is a very nice person who deserves a chance to get to know, and spread her wings, she is drowning in other peoples problems, and their needs so if you have an answer I would like to hear it or some form of advice. Thank you

2007-03-22 08:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy and im pretty sure that he likes me but im not sure. well he called me the other night and i amswered and he says hello. after i said wats up he just didn't say anything. then i heard laughter in the background and he hangs up after like five seconds. what was the deal with that and should i text him or something. i texted his sister and she didn't know anything. but he won't answer my texts and it is really annoying. i might see him this weekend but im not sure. what shoud i tell him if i see him. should i call him and ask him what that was all about of just wait for him to call again. because im not sure if i really like him yet

2007-03-22 08:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Liv 3 in Singles & Dating

my friends mom has been doing mean stuff to her like yelling and like hitting her and she took all of her cloths and hide them what should she do!!!

2007-03-22 08:46:28 · 18 answers · asked by buddabelly369 1 in Friends

I live with my boyfriend and another guy roommate (he's never around). I am the only one that cleans and I have to force my bf to help me. How do you all do it? Hand out a treat/reward if they help?

2007-03-22 08:46:25 · 12 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships