I went out on a blind date last night. We had dinner, the conversation was great, it was alot of fun. We had alot of laughs. We even kissed at the end. It seemed as though things were going well. He even said he'd like to see me again. I saw him online, and he hasn't replied. Is he avoiding me?
2007-03-22 08:54:53 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geeze, talk about clingy! Give him some space. You'd probibly think he was a weirdo if he started IMing you like crazy right away. If he wants to hook up, he'll call.
2007-03-22 08:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy or you will scare him away. Don't worry, he will call especially if you two had a good time. Let the date sink in and don't rush it. I remember when I went out with this guy and had the best time of my life but I quickly freaked out when he didn't call me for days. I didn't press the issue but I was upset. Well, he did call soon enough and we have been married for 4 years now, just chill and relax. Stuff like this always take time. Good luck and sound like you two really enjoyed each others company.
2007-03-22 16:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just busy. I'm not really into the "dating game," but I have some friends who are. They would advise you not to seem desperate and give him time to get back to you. I'm more of a "go-getter" so I would probably keep bugging him. I can see how that might be interpreted as desperate or insecure, but it's me. It all depends on what kind of person you are, I guess.
2007-03-22 15:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, give the guy a chance to breathe....leave him alone, it is up to him to make the next move. You want to end up with someone who thinks you are irresistable, don't you? Go buy the book "The Rules" and follow them.
2007-03-22 15:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump to conculsions... he could have left the computer on while he went to do something else and didn't see you online. I'm sure he isn't avoiding you - well the kiss says it all really!
^_^
2007-03-22 15:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by dbx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not.
Don't stress out about one date. Just savor your date and patiently wait for the next one.
2007-03-22 15:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. If he hasn't called you in a week, I'd say he probably isn't interested.
2007-03-22 15:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes these things take time you are only talking a few hours.
2007-03-22 15:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so or he's just playing hard to get. Stupid game and if he want to be playing kid stuff then just move on.
2007-03-22 15:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Renya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time. Relationships should not be rushed. Be patient!
2007-03-22 16:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by j j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋