I am a Black man and I have a question that has been on my mind for awhile. I have different white girls come up to me and ask me how can I date a black girl with their sassy ways, but what is wrong with being attracted to someone in my own race, I love my women and I think they are so beautiful, with their curves, big pretty lips, that I do love to kiss and I think no woman can take their place. My black friend has a white girlfriend and he allow her to talk about black women and I think that is so wrong because he forget that at the end of the day he is still black. I'm not saying it's anything wrong with interracial dating because I dated a white woman before and I promised myself I would never go there again because she thought that it was alright for her to talk about black women and I told her she couldn't and she got mad becasue I left her for a black woman, but my question is if you have a black boyfriend do you think it is alright for you to talk about black women?
2007-03-22 08:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by TJSexyman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I don't think its alright to bad talk anyone. It also makes a person appear stupid in my eyes when he/she chooses to stereotype a race of people.
I certainly wouldn't date anyone who spoke like that. I also won't listen to it if others talk trash around me. Either they stop, or I leave, but I don't sit there and take it.
With every race you will find some nice people and some not so nice people etc. At the heart of the matter we are all 'humans' and as such should show more respect for others, no matter what their skin colour.
Date who you want because you like who they are, and are attracted to them and most importantly because they make you feel good about who you are and value you as a person, not because their skin happens to be a certain shade.
Hope that helps.
:)
2007-03-22 09:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Reiki Chick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are saying you "have different white girls come up to me and ask me how can I date a black girl with their sassy ways." I have to wonder why. Are you a very white-washed black guy? I find it unlikely that any white person would feel comfortable saying that, it is racist. How could you date a sassy woman is really what you should ask yourself, and what people should ask you. And I personally think no, sassy woman usually doesn't treat her man right, should date non-sassy.
2007-03-22 16:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by kevbeer2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm white, I don't really care what skin color a guy has. And why would anyone talk bad about a black woman!? My goodness there are some pretty ones out there... and making some of them mad would scare me. I mean that nicely!! They are strong and independent.
Don't sum up all white women to talk badly about the black ladies... alright??
2007-03-22 16:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a white woman who loves a black man I would have to say no, it isn't okay. But its never okay to lump all people of one race or gender into a category just because of experiences you have had with a certain person. If I have something negative to say about a black woman, it isn't because she is black, it would be because I have a problem with her as a person. Same thing for white women, white men, black men, Asians, Hispanics, etc. I don't judge people based on color, but on who they are as a person.
2007-03-22 15:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by mandymay 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Educate yourself young man. You really have a very narrow few of the world. Please do this before it is too late.
2007-03-22 16:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋