I have a guy for a roommate. Monday I had to work he didnt. I had to run home unexpectedly in the middle of the day. I walked into the living room and caught my roommate naked and pleasuring himself just as he was "finishing". I froze for a few moments out of shock and stood there wide eyed staring. He was past the point of no return and I witnessed him "finishing".
Is this how you would react? If not how would you react?
I couldn't help staring, is this normal?
What to do now?
2007-03-22 08:48:50 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
holy crap!!!! haha um i dont think i would stare id probably turn away quicker. haha but yeah i guess it is. you and ur roomy are prob. tight buds. so think of it this way. you can just hold it against him as a joke forever!!! hahahahahahah youll laugh about it together in a few weeks. say: "haha, so i guess you had an enjoyable time while i was out" he'll laugh and it'll be fine. good luck
2007-03-22 08:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Susanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That was probably embarrassing for both of you. I don't know that I would have reacted differently. Next time you run home unexpectedly make a lot of noise coming in the door. I learned that the hard way once too!
What to do now? Well, you have to bring it up--there is no way you can go on "normally" and chit chat here and there with nothing being said.
Just say something like "Hey, I will try and call if I need to run home in the middle of the day and you are here. I want to respect your privacy too." something along those lines...
But you do have to bring it up--just try and be the least embarrassed about doing it.
2007-03-22 08:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! supply him a hand!!! i'm sorry. i could no longer help myself... I walked in on a gay roommate doing the comparable concern as quickly as.. Ewww. ok. next time you're comming homestead unpredicted, supply a hoop? probable no longer something desires to be stated. If he's a superb guy, he's embarrassed as hell. He could say sorry, or he could fake like no longer something got here approximately. If he's not a astonishing guy, properly. i do no longer understand. And, what's typical? unlike you come back homestead on a daily basis to discover a guy jerking off on the settee... No, you have been bowled over and unlike you stood there for 4 minutes... BTW, what became he looking at? Animal encounters? Did you could duck? LOL. Oh God i'm so undesirable. i'm sorry, it is purely too humorous to no longer make exciting of. A~
2016-12-15 06:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While not a lady I might be able to help. You should talk to him about it. If you pretend it did not happen you will end up being uncomfortable around him. You should also tell him that you would appreciate it if he would do things like that in his room. As for the staring, that is a natural reaction. It sometimes takes time for the brain to catch up to what is going on.
2007-03-22 09:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by dakyris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally normal. Of course as his roommate you have a responsibility to make sure he does not have to pleasure his self again. That's your job.
At a minimum you should have offered to clean up the mess.
Maybe even a nice sponge (tongue?) bath.
2007-03-22 08:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a big deal that you saw. If he doesn't bring it up, I'm sure it will all be okay. I would just be a little skeeved that it was in the living room and not his bedroom. If you don't care, don't bring it up. However, if you think it's a little dirty, show him his bedroom, and if you like him, you can help to pleasure him there.
2007-03-22 08:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after reading your other questions sounds like you have a roommate that gets off on being caught or by having other people see him. If I were you I would just get a new roommate. Don't let him fulfill his sexual fantasy with you!!!
2007-03-22 08:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is he good looking? Are you both unattached? I would have asked if him he needed an extra hand....or mouth.....
Did he see you? Maybe he really enjoyed you watching him. At the end of the day there is nothing wrong with a bit of voyerism.
Seriously tho' he is probably as embarrased as you are just laugh it of but tell him he would be better doing that in his room from now on
2007-03-22 08:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You witnessed something normal. (Although I don't know why he was in the living room.)
Ask HIM if it made HIM uncomfortable, and if he's ok. Then tell him if you're uncomfortable, and if you'd rather he didn't do that in the living room. Then tell him you're sorry you embarrassed him, crack open two beers and get on with being roommates.
It's important to laugh about this. : )
2007-03-22 08:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, from previous posts you mention the guy is an artist who does nudes. He also occasionally walks in front of you nude. I think he wants to be nude and masturbate in his own place.
If you're interested in going around the loft nude as well (at this point, it might be more comfortable for you as well), you might offer to pose for him. From that point on neither of you would feel any need to cover up in the loft.
2007-03-26 07:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋