Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Or should I let her get to know me better before I meet her Kid?

2007-03-21 08:11:01 · 15 answers · asked by Coyote81 3 in Singles & Dating

And well i still have feelings for him we just broked up two days ago can it still work out?

2007-03-21 08:10:51 · 2 answers · asked by MoNa 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a guy I thought he was cute. Whenever he sees me he just looks but never says anything. He can find me in a room full of people and make direct I contact. Is he not interested?

2007-03-21 08:10:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy that I did not know how to call. he would show up now and then during the summer and we had sex. Then he had to leave for about 10 months. He did not call until he got back 10 months later. He says he was shy and did not know how I felt. In conversation I found out he had been in town Thanksgiving and Christmas but did not get in touch with me. The guy was 24 years old. But he tells me know that he loved me and should have been more agressive. Is this bull? I think I was dumped to be used again later.

2007-03-21 08:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay.Me and my boyfriend Mikel, have been together for 8 moths and 21 days.He is everything that i could ever possably want or need.But latelly he has be going off and on with me.Like we would start fighting and then he would say i think that you dont need to be with me anymore.I always reply,"THATS NOT TRUE!I LOVE YOU MIKEL AND YOUR THE ONLY PERSON THAT GETS ME THROUGH THE DAY!WHY ARE YOU SO WILLING TO GIVE UP ON ALL THE HARD WORK IT TOOK TO GET HERE!?!" He always says,"Dont yell at me." But then after an hour of that we are like nothing ever happend.And see at first he didnt like me talking to my guy friends that i had way before i had moved here, but then again i guess it is okay for him to "LIKE" other girls.So far he has liked this chick named Haylee, and this one chick named Jamie.I dont know what to do.And he just gets mad at me for doing the stupidist stuff.He tells me he loves me and that he dont mean to hurt me but he just continually keeps on doing it.I just need HELP!!!

2007-03-21 08:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥Natalie♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

baby please
try to understand
you may not be perfect
but you'll always be my man
you don't need to try
you've already impressed me
baby, you're my future
you're the only one i see
you give me that kiss
that makes my fear go away
you deep in my heart
and you'll always stay
don't fear love
don't fear pain
i'm not going anywhere
we have so much to gain
you treat me like a goddess
but i'm as real as you
i love everything
even the little things you do
i don't need jewelry
flowers, or clothes
i'm overwelmed with that little kiss
you give me on my nose
baby, don't worry
i'm not gonna run
now sit back, enjoy love
and let's have a little fun

2007-03-21 08:09:33 · 25 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

live without thanks 4 showing ur concern .bt i dnt 2 live anymore .v had been 2gether 4 seven years .nad now wen itz my time 2 marry him he says he wud sacrifice his love 4 his career wat else cud i do i jst had the poison and after few hours i ll end up myself .wat is my mistake i loved him iz that my mistake

2007-03-21 08:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by fancy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I just got selected for a low income apartment in the Bronx NY. I currently live in Brooklyn NY with my fiance and son in a 2 bedroom apartment paying 1400. I applied for a low income apartment in the Bronx and was selected for it. It's a 2 bedroom for 871 a month.
Just today I went to go see the apartment and the neighboorhood is nice and the building is beautiful. The apartment is very small though. The living room was the size of a dining room and the bedrooms were small.
The question is we want to save money for our wedding next year and also to purchase a home in 2009. Do I just pick up and move 20 miles away and find a new babysitter for my son and just say what the hell or should I stay in Brooklyn.
BTW, my fiancee didn't see the apartment yet and he's going to see it tomorrow but I think he's going to say it's too small but it's nice.
If anybody know about getting selected thru a lottery know that its a gamble and fortunate I was selected for one.What do I do?

2007-03-21 08:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by svictor24 6 in Family

well my gf broke up with me last march after we had been together for about 2 years. . . she started hanging out with this guy i knew from hs the next day and she knew i hated him and she proceeded to mess around with him like a week after we broke up which was really inconsiderate to me. The reason for the breakup was that she wanted to date around and she said she knew we would get back together sometime. Well it has been almost a year now and they have been together ever since(even though only officially for about 6-7 months) but anyways . . i tried to get her back for the first 2 months and it wasnt going anywhere so I went nc in june and i have been ever since. for the first 6 months she would try calling, texting,emailing . .anything to try to get me to talk to her. . even emailed me on our anniversary that said "today was 2 years" . . she would try to contact me on average every 1-3 weeks for 6 months. she even tried to get me to hang out with her . . continued below

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she even tried to gee me to come to her bday party when he was going to be there . .knowing that it would cause a fight . . .then there was a break from december till just a week ago when she sent me another email saying "just wondering if ur done hating me yet". .. i just dont get it . .. she seems happy from what I can tell . . she going on sb with her bf and everything . . why is she trying to contact me after 9 months of me not contacting her back? . . what does she want? What do u think is going on in her head?

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i can understand like the first couple months because maybe she wasnt sure about her new bf . . but it has been a year and she is still trying to contact me . . .wouldnt she get the hint when i havent responded in 9 months? If she was that happy then why would she still be doing this?

2007-03-21 08:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understanding cheating...but if a guy is going to cheat on their wife or girlfriend...why won't they at least cheat with

1. someone that has a great personality instead of a flake
2. someone that is gorgeous, better looking instead of a very unattractive person
3. someone that is intelligent enough to hold a conversation instead of someone that in so out there that anything makes sense in thier little world.

Are men that intimidated by attractive, intelligent women with outgoing personalities?

2007-03-21 08:08:28 · 17 answers · asked by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 in Singles & Dating

Even when almost all women said that character is the most important issue, is that really true?

2007-03-21 08:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BF isn't the best at standing up to his ex - he works an outside job and is behind on child support. She uses this to her advantage by taking away his court ordered visitation during the week and makes plans for them on the weekends we have them. Our living together has never come up with her, but I know if he took her to court, the childsupport and "paramour" would only hurt him. It is starting to stress our relationship. I need help

2007-03-21 08:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by roodee38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 08:07:43 · 2 answers · asked by Red 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 19 years old i am a girl i am loving a guy whose is my close friend but he do not care for anything he is very jovial he does not like love but he is too friendly. he told me "even my close friend goes away from me also i will not worry" this was said by my friend(my lover) but i can not forget him i am loving him for two years what shall i do. will he accept my love or not but i can not live without him.what shall i do please say me a suggestion i am heavy hearted for two years. please

2007-03-21 08:07:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:07:17 · 17 answers · asked by contessa g 1 in Singles & Dating

All of my friends tell me that I can have any guy that I want cause I'm such a great girl but I can't ever find any good guys. I'm pretty close to giving up on ever finding the guy of my dreams. I know that I'm not going to find him in a bar but it seems like there isn't anywhere else to go. If anybody has any advice on what I should do I would really appreciate it. Thanks in advance!

2007-03-21 08:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Lyndee J 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who has once again gone totally off the rails. We've been friends for the last 20 years but she keeps dumping on me all the time. The latest one is definately the worst though. She recently split with her husband who was a heavy drinker and used to hit her. But since they split she's turned into a complete slapper. She's sleeping with anyone and everyone,(including my next door neighbours husband who's old enough to be her grandad!!!!!!!) she's drunk all the time and i've recently found out she's taking drugs. She has a very young daughter who she dumps on any1 she can so she can go out. She has also slept with another of my friends blokes which caused them to split up and I got in trouble for not telling her about it. Now my other friend won't talk to me.

She also constantly puts me down saying a life at home with two kids is no life at all and says i'm boring. She's causing so much trouble what should i do?

2007-03-21 08:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in general, i think asians and hispanic girls are cuter than white, but that doesnt mean i dont think any white girls are cute. im 18 and a guy. live near detroit. i dont want a distance relationship.

2007-03-21 08:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by Other Man 1 in Singles & Dating

When someone you were involved with and no longer are that they make you feel you will never be good enough for them.

And in a way you yourself feel they are much better than you; emotionally and intelectually.

When you admire them but they do not admire you.

When no matter how hurful they can be the next day they smile and talk to you like nothing; they say they forgive and forget but you know thuthfully that is not so true in some ways; nobody is that way anyway; we all remember things.

They make you feel like that but still wish to talk to you; be "friends"; of course when they want to only.

2007-03-21 08:03:36 · 4 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Friends

Do you prefer the chest on a women to be big or small?

2007-03-21 08:03:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you tell someone you care/love them and then turn you're back and cheat and lie...I don't get it?

2007-03-21 08:02:23 · 25 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf won't talk to me a lot!!! Is something the matter?

2007-03-21 08:02:04 · 31 answers · asked by ♥miss liss♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

HI every one,
I had a fight ot of arguemnets with my wife last night and she is madly angry with me ..I am trying to find a way to approach her to soothe down her anger plz guys help
thanks

2007-03-21 08:01:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Take a relationship to the next level?

like from just "seeing" eachother to being bf/gf ect...

2007-03-21 08:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by I know best 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok ive made out with this guy and it was awsome but i want the sceneto repeat him kiss me again how do i do it?

2007-03-21 08:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Graveyard Queen™ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by kimch888 1 in Singles & Dating

And now I want to ask her to be my girlfriend because she is
really sweet. There should definitely be no probllem with her saying yes right??

2007-03-21 08:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by Barron 1 in Singles & Dating

ive heard that so many times. but what DO they say?

2007-03-21 08:00:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex thinks it's no big deal to drive drunk with our daughter. When I can I stop it but am I to the point of not letting him see her? Just last night he came to get her and he was smashed...of course I did not let her go. This has to be hard on her too because she loves him. She sees him about once a week. Just wondering how others deal with this. My daughter is 13. Any sincere thoughts are appreciated.

2007-03-21 07:59:55 · 22 answers · asked by caraanne2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy we were about to date when, his best friend confessed her love for him and then he had to choose between me and her. Well he chose her but we stayed friends. About 2 weeks after they started dating he kissed me, and we've been hooking up ever since. he keeps telling me that they won’t last forever, but he won’t dump her for me. He does like me, and his mom even likes me better…should I drop him now or wait for him?

2007-03-21 07:59:23 · 24 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating