Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

So I've been doing the online dating thing for about a year now. Met some amazing guys, but have also had some bad experiences, mainly involving men who are just out for sex.

2 of those nasty guys continue to stalk me online months later. They've both given up on texting me, and have so far not shown up at my place. But everytime I join a new site or open a new account on a site, within a week or so, they have "found me" and start sending me rude messages.

I've tried blocking them, but then they often just open a new account under a different name. I've tried ignoring them. I've tried sending them the 'wow you're pathetic' reply. But what do you think I should do?

2007-03-21 07:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by who-wants-to-know 6 in Singles & Dating

My friend took out a restrainingg order on her brother who has mental illness, for coming over to her house in the middle of the night and had a weapon. Was it wrong to seek protection? She feels guilty all the time about it.

2007-03-21 07:40:10 · 4 answers · asked by kiatu 1 in Family

He is punishing me for kissing another man. I no longer speak to this man or have even thought about him(the stranger I kissed).
I was wrong for what I did(drinking is no excuse bit I was), but true love cannot possible punish me like this we were together and engaged.
Our wedding is cancelled and I have to pick up my gown. I am heatbroken. This man means so much to me. This happened in Sept. 06. He said he is still feeling betrayed. How do I just give up on him? Is it his evil Gemini punishing me.

We have seen a couselor (no help)

2007-03-21 07:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by KCSH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so I'm working with a very small space. Not a traditional church, but a big square room. I really want to find a picture that would be ideal for me to copy, down to the very last detail. Budget is pretty flexible! I wanted to have the entire room lit up by candlelight.

2007-03-21 07:39:33 · 10 answers · asked by Seth M 2 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 9mths. About 3 weeks ago he started to act very weird so i asked him if he need a break. (Oh yeah and I brought up the marriage word) He said that yes he wants to take a break. So naturally I was devistated. I assumed that we would't talk again but he still calls me every other day and still wants to see me, kiss me, hug me. But when I ask him if we were back together he says he's not sure and still needs time/space. So I asked him to stop calling me so I could move on but he still calls and says he misses me. I even asked him if he wants to see other people and he said NO. And to top it off he went to Florida (single) this week for a Boys trip (But he said he would call me while he was there). I feel like maybe I'm pressuring him and he just needs space to figure things out. Is he possibly leading me on? I don't want to give up on him cause I love him but I don't want to hold on if he really doesn't care. Is it poss that he will want me back?

2007-03-21 07:39:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I just got selected for a low income apartment in the Bronx NY. I currently live in Brooklyn NY with my fiance and son in a 2 bedroom apartment paying 1400. I applied for a low income apartment in the Bronx and was selected for it. It's a 2 bedroom for 871 a month.
Just today I went to go see the apartment and the neighboorhood is nice and the building is beautiful. The apartment is very small though. The living room was the size of a dining room and the bedrooms were small.
The question is we want to save money for our wedding next year and also to purchase a home in 2009. Do I just pick up and move 20 miles away and find a new babysitter for my son and just say what the hell or should I stay in Brooklyn.
BTW, my fiancee didn't see the apartment yet and he's going to see it tomorrow but I think he's going to say it's too small but it's nice.
If anybody know about getting selected thru a lottery know that its a gamble and fortunate I was selected for one.What do I do

2007-03-21 07:39:31 · 2 answers · asked by svictor24 6 in Family

My dads ex wife keeps calling me and asking me if she could have a threesome with my boy friend and I.... what should I do? I am bi-curious....

2007-03-21 07:39:05 · 17 answers · asked by Cuddles 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i posted a question the other day and got a lot of good answers. So i decided not to sleep with him becuase he made me feel bad but now he has told me sorry and whats to make it up to me by takin me out on a Special Surprise date. he wont tell me where we are going. so im not sure what to wear but hears my question i havent slept with him in 6 days since he is showing me that our relationship is more than bout SEX should i sleep with him after tonight if the date is perfect or should i say no until i think he is foreal about everything. i mean i know he knows its more then the sex since we are engaged so what do you think??

2007-03-21 07:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 and a woman I tried it all can someone help

2007-03-21 07:37:29 · 20 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm willing to bet that it's more than a joint here and there.i know i have to "be the parent" so does anyone have any advice as to how to go about broaching the subject of drug testing? he's 18,legal age, but still lives in my house. my house,my rules.i know he'll flip out no matter what i say so any good advice will be appreciated. anyone been here before? thanks in advance.

2007-03-21 07:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by racer 51 7 in Family

I heard there's a large discount bridal shop in mahattan with different 4 floors of wedding dresses, bridesmaid dresses, and accessories. Does anyone know what the name of it is? Thank you!

2007-03-21 07:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

To all of you. What do you wanna know about hell?

2007-03-21 07:36:08 · 24 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you guys and girl still remember the first guy you did it with more or the first guy you fell in love with?

2007-03-21 07:36:07 · 30 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 daughters. One is a freshman in college and one is planning to graduate high school this year. My daughter in high school has a learning disability and has always struggled in math her whole life. This year has been especially challenging for her. She has a teacher who cannot teach worth a lick. My daughter comes home VERY upset. She said that the teacher just "does" the problems without really explaining them. My daughter has never failed a class and is usually a c student in math. This year she has already failed the mid-term exam and is in danger of failing this marking period. My daughter has done two extra credit projects in which the teacher told her that they looked like they had been done in 10 minutes. I thought the projects were very well done that my daughter did.

(more to come)

2007-03-21 07:35:55 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie Knows Best 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy at my school i really like and when i saw him i ran off *im very shy* and my friend stayed and he said to my friend "oh she fancies me dont she?" and my friend told hm how i do *i dont mind if she tells him* and he just walked away smiling so does he like me ?

2007-03-21 07:35:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 5'5 1/2'' and about 148 lbs. According to the body mass index scale I am healthy, but not my ideal weight. My ideal weight is somewhere between 120-138lbs. I would like to weigh 125lbs in 4-5 months. Is it healthy to lose that much weight so quickly? What should I being doing? How many calories should I be eating daily? How much exercise daily should I be getting? How many days a week should I be exercising?

2007-03-21 07:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cn anybody tell me wat iz the effect of eating 5napthalene balls in mixed in milk i jst ate them .bcoz i wnt die .also tell me will mentos and coke 2gether wud work be fast dear friends

2007-03-21 07:34:51 · 6 answers · asked by fancy 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine (Jake) had a crush on me for several years, but I wasn't interested and I was honest about this. I later became interested in a friend of his (Paul) and we dated for about 5 months. Paul and I broke up (painfully, but not maliciously) and, in the aftermath, I ended up in the arms of Jake, having realized how much he means to me. We have a great relationship that has been built upon years of trust, etc. Even though he's known me longer, Jake feels a little guilty -- like he's stabbed Paul in the back. How should we tell Paul that we're together in the least-awkward way possible?

2007-03-21 07:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by ay ya 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 6 yrs. For a while he has been having trouble wile in bed. Its seems like most of the time he can't go more then 3 min without having an orgasime. I don't think it's me I'm a pretty attractive women I 5ft 8in 120 pounds. I don't know what I can do to help him' and I don't won't to say anything and hurt his feelings or pride. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 07:34:31 · 13 answers · asked by luckeybug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I've decided not to stop the wedding of the man I love, even when I know he feels something for me after 5 years I left the country to study and of having ended our engament, but after that we are still being very good friends, so that's why he invited me to his wedding... now, if he gets married I will not attend to the wedding 'cause in reality the brides deserves all his atention, but that same day I'll leave for good and I'll my country, leave him alone, not even talk to him anymore and focus on my career.... should I?

2007-03-21 07:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by _Miss Sunshine_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 07:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Wow everyone at school likes me and im well reli well known, But why douse it feel like im being watched by everyone .. I want everyone to stop paying so much attention to me and pay more attetion to them selfs.. why do people find it easy to pay attention to somone else and not there self?

2007-03-21 07:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Singles & Dating

He's like my best friend... I feel lost without him. Any sugestions? And i do keep myself busy.

2007-03-21 07:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by Jackie C 2 in Singles & Dating

he's a typical boy. likes games, music...the weird kind...he has a girlfriend...but he's my borther so wat do I get him? he's not one for fashion...so do u have any ideas?

2007-03-21 07:31:54 · 6 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Family

2007-03-21 07:31:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Fill in the blanks and make it fun and exciting too.

2007-03-21 07:31:27 · 6 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not very funny (i.e. I am not witty or good at cracking jokes), but I do know how to laugh and can see the humor in life. I don't have many things to talk about because I have kind of a boring job and I'm a busy college student. I just feel like I need to be more exciting. My gf says that she loves me, but I have trouble believing that she can love someone like me. I'm strong, but I don't act macho. I don't act chauvanistic. I never had a father figure, so it's hard to act like a man's man. If that makes any sense at all....does anyone have advice as to how I can expand my horizons, be funner, enjoy life more, and be more masculine. I am not like a little girly girl, but I truly think I need to learn to act a little more chauvanistic (not a pig), but just more of a smart ***, etc. I do good things for my girl. I take her to the movies, plays, treat her like a gentleman, etc, but I feel like something is missing on my part.

2007-03-21 07:31:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to ask this 32 year old girl out by calling her asking if she would like to go with me to a museam and perhaps some lunch on Sat. Any tips? IS this a good way of saying lets go on a day out and get to know each other without the prospect of the word date? I am going to text her to ask how her placement was this week and if she is doing anything nice this weekend, IF she textes back shes just working on Sun then i will ask her out for sat. not too full on is it?

2007-03-21 07:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lightroller 1 in Singles & Dating

she was there 4 months, she had a 55 gal. fish tank that I put in my house and set up while she was there and she told me then that I could go ahead and have it b/c she would get a new one with her taxes... she moved and its 8 months later and I have the fish tank still.. and she left a email saying she wanted me to bring her fish tank over to her new place what do I reply to that.. she gave me it and plus I have bought a new filter,heater, rocks and fish for it I don't want to lose money on it for sure

2007-03-21 07:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by crystal s 2 in Friends

i always wanted to know da answer to dis question. wtf would happen if durin yo physical when the girl doctor is touchin ur D, what would happen if ya got a bonner. Did this ever happen to anyone? I wanna try it one time and see if da girl doctor would dome me up maybe

2007-03-21 07:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by blunt 1 in Singles & Dating