Things really are pretty good between us, but the momentum has sorta stalled. She is really, and I mean REALLY protective of her feelings. I have learned to tread lightly in regard to them. The trouble is, I come from a divorce background, and a pretty messy one at that, and consequently it is extremely important to me to have real feelings on the table even if they are hurtful because, in my experience, ignoring true feelings (like what I grew up around) is so much more detrimental than being open and honest even if it's not what I want. So my question is, esp. for any of you who can relate to her, could there be any positive impact or benefit from me telling her this? She knows my parents are divorced already, but I don't really know if she gets how that changed me. I long for the day that we can both revel in how much we actually care for each other.
2007-03-21
07:43:33
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