Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

I have been going out with this former co worker for a couple of months now. We don't go out every weekend but maybe once or twice a month.
He told me a couple of months ago that he was interested in starting a relationship with me but I told him no. I told him that I wasn't interested in being in a relationship because I like him only as a friend.
After telling him this he still continues to take me out. When I go out with him I have more fun with him then anyone I have ever dated. He is about 13 years older than me and spares no expense when going out. He always takes me to fun and exciting places and I never have to come out of the pocket.
Should I continue to go out with him? He really is a good friend but I am not intested in him because he really is not my type. His drinking, smoking and values go against everything that I believe in. Should I stop seeing him or just continue to hang out with him as a friend??

2007-03-21 08:19:27 · 14 answers · asked by joyce 5 in Singles & Dating

I've went with a dude for 2 1/2 years and i broke up with him a month ago because i found out that he was going behind my back and trying to talk to another girl.(i now i should just forget about him because of that but i really can't) Everytime we passs each other all we do is stare at each other and i really still do like him alot.

2007-03-21 08:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by *+Sarah+* 1 in Singles & Dating

to support herself and her child while in school full time, no high school diploma, and needing her own place and a car...would only be doing it till she graduates college.....

2007-03-21 08:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by nativemucklucks 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause theres a lot of guys who talk to me, and asking me all types of questions and i don't know how to answer them.

2007-03-21 08:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by terreshia w 1 in Singles & Dating

Im so confused... plz i need 2 know?
ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh my cherelle.

2007-03-21 08:18:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Labrador Retriever

Black, Chocolate, Yellow

Is one more loving?

2007-03-21 08:18:14 · 12 answers · asked by H M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause theres a lot of guys who talk to me, and asking me all types of questions and i don't know how to answer them.

2007-03-21 08:17:49 · 8 answers · asked by terreshia w 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently hooked up with an ex boyfriend of mine. We have so much in common we both like the same music, same food and we have a lot of the same classes together. He is an all around nice guy it doesnt help that he is the most hottest guy I have ever seen. I like him alot but the trouble is that I hope he isnt into me jsut because I hook up with him. I like him a lot he is so good to me. My best friend Victoria told me that we make a cute couple. He walks me to a lot of my classes also. My question for you guys is how do I make him my boyfriend. Thanks in advance for your help.

2007-03-21 08:16:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why

2007-03-21 08:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am making my husban a birthday party (His Brithday is today by the way) Just me and him in a Hotel on Friday. What can I do to make his late birthday party a night he won't forget?

2007-03-21 08:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Irma R 1 in Family

Here's the low-down: I go to malvern college, every monday, tuesday and thursday we have chaple. I am not religous so I spend my time looking at the girls opposite me. :) There is one who has realy got my attention. she is not overly attractive but, having seen her around campus, I have found her personality very interesting. I have spoken with her but we dont know each others names, well, I dont know hers. Any ideas to help me get together with her?

2007-03-21 08:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by alexandre 1 in Singles & Dating

i was very young when my parents divorced & it was a traditional African marrige, i was four years & my younger brother was 11 months, my mom took us with her to her family,when i turn 15 i gave him a second chance, yes he called me to stay with him and mom sat me free to him, besides things were not good in her family the breadwinner lost her job, that's my granny. i stayed with him for 6 months & came back home, because of him & his step wife whom they had 1 daughter. I was also disturbed from my studies because i went back home to stay & mom went out for work. life begun to be so unfair to me, infact us.It came a point where i passed my matrick in 2006 & i managed to registerer at the university of Lipompo somewhere in SA, BUT unfortunately my queen(mom) died. WHAT TO DO, DO I GO TO HIM?

2007-03-21 08:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by LOST-BAD-BOY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ever since we have been married he complains i give him too much sex. he always makes excuses to not have sex with me. all he wants is sleep and sleep more. if it was for him we would only do it once a month! what the hell is that i cant do that. at least three times a week. is that too much to ask.

2007-03-21 08:15:56 · 47 answers · asked by ladopey909 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was just thinking that acohol is just sugar right so there must be a relationship with sweets. so i asked my dad about one of his friends who is an acoholic and he said that he does like a lot of sweets. can you please write intelligent answers.

2007-03-21 08:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by Nocurfew313 3 in Friends

My boyfriend is grumpy and stressed unless he smokes cannabis.We have a baby and i just want our relationship to work. This started before he started smoking it. He used to be so kind and caring when we first met but he has changed completely.
I end up buying it for him because i cant handle the rows. I love him but whenever we get into big rows he says he doesn't love me and is only with me for the baby. Then we get back together and he says he didn't mean it as he was just angry.
I don't know what to do please help.

2007-03-21 08:15:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 08:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, What are the TOP qualities that make a Perfect (Well I'll settle for Decent) Galfriend...DO NOT include APPEARNCE and SEX

2007-03-21 08:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by ask n ye shall recieve 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by gaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Ya I know, kinda risky question to ask on here, but what kind of things to say on the phone to my boyfriend to pleasure both of us?

2007-03-21 08:13:56 · 4 answers · asked by s..... 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years now (I am almost 21) and we have decided we are going to move in together January 2008. The problem is I grew up in a very very conservative religious environment and they are still that way. Now I still believe in God and have my morals, but I know my parents will disapprove and be angry with me and accuse of sinning and how wrong I am. They are sort of close minded and who knows how they will react. I love my boyfriend, and eventually we will be getting married after we finish college. My question is, what does everyone think about this, and do you have suggestions on how to handle the situation? I'm nervous about telling them. I don't want their to be hate between me and my family. It's not a question of should I move in with him, because I am and I'm happy with that. Just curious what everyone thinks!

2007-03-21 08:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by pink86 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we only see each other in art class (every 3 days) and im th e type of guy that is a good lover when its just me and her. i realy love her and i cant show her beacuse i dont feel right when i am around ppl and i am like that.

2007-03-21 08:13:34 · 30 answers · asked by masta yoda 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently got engaged to a wonderful man, Brandon. He is 17. We have been together for almost a year and we have been friends for longer. We don't plan on actually getting married till a long time. In about 3 - 5 years. We also plan on attending college together. I really do love him. He treats me as though I'm his Queen and I treat him as though he is my King. I am truly happy when I am around him. Even when I cry, I'm just so glad he is around. I find myself that at night if he is not at my house I can't sleep, since I'm so used to him staying the weekend with me.

So I guess my question is, do you think that we are stupid for getting engaged so young? I just want someone else's opinion, even if it comes from a bunch of strangers.

2007-03-21 08:13:29 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee and I are probably going to go to pre-marital counseling. It is with an older couple who are both psychologists and should know what they are doing. I am curious about other peoples experiences with pre-marital counseling. What should I expect? Did it work for you or help/hinder your marriage in any way?

2007-03-21 08:12:59 · 7 answers · asked by fancyfree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 29 year old, college educated, white male. I am 6'4" 225, blonde hair. Not intending to sound conceeded; I have been told I am handsome. I practice sports medicine, own a home and 2 cars. My intrests include playing guitar, backpacking, and piloting aircraft. I have a great sense of humor, but can carry on an intellegent conversation on almost any topic. MY QUESTION: I feel that somewhere between relationships I have fallen "between the cracks" and haven't been able to find the girl of my dreams (to complete my life). I admit that over the past decade I have invested A LOT of time in myself and haven't had too much time for relationships...is it too late? My profession does keep me busy, but for the right woman I would find time to spoil her. Any responses or emails are welcome.

2007-03-21 08:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by sportsmedpilot 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend tooksoemthing that i said and turned it around, she told her BF that i cheated on his brother whom i am engadged to...anyway, my fiance knows that truth so i havent talked to any of my friends because my best friend turned all my friends agaisnt me, i have no trust and i feel left out, they talk about me when they come over cuz they live with my fiance and i- it sux, i hate her, and yet only my fiance believes me and no one else, what should i do when i know that i didnt cheat and my friends cheat all the time, they suck and i hate them, they are not friends now that i see that but how can you be nice to a bithc and her *****-ess....?

2007-03-21 08:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mamma in the making 1 in Friends

I been with this guy for a while now. My mom doesn't him because she thinks that he is a bum because he's not in school. He works part time but doesn't have a car. I have a car but I got tired of going to see him all the time. Now i only visit him once a week. Now he wants to take me out this weekend. I want to ask my mom but I know she is going have something smart to say.

2007-03-21 08:12:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am generally a serious looking person. At the same time i feel very much to like to creat a happy and cheerful atmosphere among my frinends and my girlfriend. How can i learn to do that?

2007-03-21 08:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by mark 1 in Singles & Dating

See a year ago he met my family. My mom even hugged him the first time. but that was a almost 2 years ago. there was this one time my mom got mad at my boyfriend and i and ever since then he hasnt come over. he came over one time for a movie night at my house but my parents werent home. he said he would come over to my house for my birthday in april. but hes coming over because my friends will be there too. i dont want him to come over every birthday and just my birthday. id like him to come over more over the summer and at least talk to my mom. but if hes not going to do that then i dont no what im going to do. i really do love him. he makes me sooo happy. but my parents are so unhappy about it and they keep bothering me about it. help?

2007-03-21 08:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my parents grounded me for a month because i dident come home in time
IS that stuped or was it a good punish ment

2007-03-21 08:11:18 · 22 answers · asked by jugillet chick 1 in Family

im 15 she is 14 i saw her a few times at church for her grandparents 50 anversary i met her on the computer on one of my friends myspace and she has been staying at the beach since saturday and staying till this saturday im going to see her friday and we are going out to eat and plan on doing some stuff on the beach but she likes her ex still alot to so i dont no what to do if i should ask her out or not we have been talking for a while and she keeps telling me that she likes me alot but im confused

2007-03-21 08:11:01 · 2 answers · asked by yes me 1 in Singles & Dating