See a year ago he met my family. My mom even hugged him the first time. but that was a almost 2 years ago. there was this one time my mom got mad at my boyfriend and i and ever since then he hasnt come over. he came over one time for a movie night at my house but my parents werent home. he said he would come over to my house for my birthday in april. but hes coming over because my friends will be there too. i dont want him to come over every birthday and just my birthday. id like him to come over more over the summer and at least talk to my mom. but if hes not going to do that then i dont no what im going to do. i really do love him. he makes me sooo happy. but my parents are so unhappy about it and they keep bothering me about it. help?
2007-03-21 08:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bingo, ITs sounds like from my roommate. She had same thing you had. If your boyfriend doesnt want to visit your house where your parents are, means he is not worth to you. he doesnt love you, he just want to use you. Wake up. Its same thing with my roommate, she realized about that, wow . she even blamed herself. Now she got a new boyfriend and he loves to visit her house where her family is, means he the keeper. You need to see from your house, from your family to see if your boyfriend is worth. ALSO! Why don't you think about your future, what if you want to keep your current boyfriend and he still refuse to visit and even who knows you guys will live together and he will take you to his family for holidays, you wont see your families as often you could. you dont want that, right? So start to think about it, good luck.
2007-03-21 08:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has shanks, Its now not a snaffle. The mouth piece could be, however the bit itself is now not a snaffle. Do you have a image? upload: That bit does not have any snaffle features to it. It seems extra like a tom thumb than something. it ought to have a nutcracker result. Its probable between the worst bits to ever have a horse in. purely because of the fact slightly has a snaffle mouthpeice, does not make it a snaffle and it does not or not often have any snaffle features to it. A snaffle is a superb, gentle bit. yet that bit suitable there is something yet remarkable. i might quite see a low port decrease bit in a horses mouth than that ingredient. Why not in basic terms use a snaffle for once you come out to holiday? Like a korsteel finished cheek, loose ring, french link and so on. and then once you instruct you should use a low port decrease. A snaffle isn't a snaffle with shanks, that is going to become a leverage bit, and makes use of a nut cracker action. it fairly is amazingly severe. attempt a low port decrease bit, and then use a snaffle once you're at abode.
2016-10-19 06:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this several times. They're probably seeing some things in him that they don't like. Sit down and ask them what those things might be. Since you're in the inside looking out; you can't see what others see. Then from there, you can decide if the relationship is still worth it to you or not depending on what's been said. When more than one person points out a flaw or same flaw as the other person, then I begin to see it too and start wondering if I really want to stick around. 10 xs out of 10 I don't =) Best Wishes!
2007-03-21 08:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a recent teenager and now a new parent i can relate to both you and your parents. Your mom and dad HAVE been there, done that, and have you to prove it. I know you may love this guy, but if there is anthing you wish to change about him before you get married or something like that then he is not the guy for you because guys DO NOT change. As hard as you may try to get them to. Mom and dad just want what's best for you and if they don't think that he's good enough for their beautiful little baby (not saying you are, but that is how they will always see you even when you are grown and have kids of your own) then he isn't good enough for you. Have some fun, but be careful and don't get serious with anyone until mom and dad think that it's the right one. Trust me they can tell.
2007-03-21 08:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by missi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the two of you did to make your mother unhappy, your boyfriend is still uncomfortable about the punishment you two received.
Here's what you need to do -- have short times for them to be all together. Meet at the mall for dinner, before you two go for a movie alone and your parents head home. Start with things like your birthday party, when there are a few other people around. It will take time for him to get comfortable around them again.
And perhaps for them to accept him again. He can't avoid your family forever, if the relationship is going to last!
2007-03-21 08:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he loves you he needs to get over it and come hang out with you at your house! If your mom does not like him then you just need for him to show her that you are the one that he loves and grow up!
2007-03-21 08:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look luv is luv. who cares what anyone thinks. tell ur parents 2 back off. he probably doesnt weant 2 go cause he feels hell b on the defensive. who cares if ur parents r not happy, r u like 13 or something?
2007-03-21 08:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by shadowpaws2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents how much you care about him and if they still don't like him tell your parents that u don't care what they say u love him and i am going out with him so get over it.hey it might u in trouble but at least they know how u feel about him.
2007-03-21 08:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by soccerstar101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to marry this man?
If he is afraid to mix with your family you have questions to think about
Your parents love you too
you aren't married right now and they are family
they just want to make sure everything is allright
they love you
2007-03-21 08:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by michigan_lady2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your parents need to learn to allow you to live your
life...believe it is a difficult lesson for a parent to learn..I know..
2007-03-21 08:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋