my best friend tooksoemthing that i said and turned it around, she told her BF that i cheated on his brother whom i am engadged to...anyway, my fiance knows that truth so i havent talked to any of my friends because my best friend turned all my friends agaisnt me, i have no trust and i feel left out, they talk about me when they come over cuz they live with my fiance and i- it sux, i hate her, and yet only my fiance believes me and no one else, what should i do when i know that i didnt cheat and my friends cheat all the time, they suck and i hate them, they are not friends now that i see that but how can you be nice to a bithc and her *****-ess....?
2007-03-21 08:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mamma in the making 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In the end, the truth is all that matters; everything else is a waste of time!
You know you didn't do anything wrong; why bother with what everybody else thinks? Your fiance believes you; it can't get any better than that! Your relationship seems to be solid as it is based on love and trust - congratulations!
It's unfortunate that you have to see your "distractors" on a regular basis - it sucks, I know. Just be civil to them and let it be. No need for counter-action; that will just prolong the issue. Sooner or later, they'll get tired coz you are not playing their petty games.
Hang in there, sweetie - you are way above these "chitty-chatters". SMILE!
2007-03-21 08:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Just want to start with ( That sucks!! )
Well They truly aren't your friends if they turn on you that fast. They're most likely jealous of your engagement. But that gives them no excuse...so what I would do it catch on of them in the cheating act film it and show that damn girl who told the lie, Tell her that is what cheating looks like *****! Then go show the boyfriend of the cheater. they're not your friends... your fiance is. Congratulations on your engagement!
2007-03-21 08:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by derverger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying telling that you should love your enemy when your best friend turns out to be a bastard...I understand you and I think you shouldn t take her into serious because you and your boyfriend are fine right now and this conflict could only complicate the situation.good luck!
2007-03-21 08:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tymeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are only enamies...trust me when i say that there is only 2 opts 4 u #1 is kill em wit kindness #2 is dont waste your time with em they just aint worth the trouble and stress they give u ...good luck
2007-03-21 08:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by in desperate need of help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be civil to her, you don't have to be overly nice just be polite enough to get through living with her and nothing more.
Why hasn't your fiance spoken to these so-called friends? If he believes you, then he should be defending you against them.
2007-03-21 08:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them as a close friend.
2007-03-21 08:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by john y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Keep your friends close and your enemies closer."
2007-03-21 08:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋