Question for the Ladies ????

Question

I am a 29 year old, college educated, white male. I am 6'4" 225, blonde hair. Not intending to sound conceeded; I have been told I am handsome. I practice sports medicine, own a home and 2 cars. My intrests include playing guitar, backpacking, and piloting aircraft. I have a great sense of humor, but can carry on an intellegent conversation on almost any topic. MY QUESTION: I feel that somewhere between relationships I have fallen "between the cracks" and haven't been able to find the girl of my dreams (to complete my life). I admit that over the past decade I have invested A LOT of time in myself and haven't had too much time for relationships...is it too late? My profession does keep me busy, but for the right woman I would find time to spoil her. Any responses or emails are welcome.

Answer 1

Alright, I'll try to be your Simon Cowell lol.

Emotional disconnect. You are in marketing mode.

You are right to be perplexed, because you ARE the perfect catch in so many respects, and sharing life promises to be exciting and fulfilling for you and the right woman.

And it is NEVER too late. But oddly enough, you need to invest a bit MORE time into yourself and your personal development.

Let me pick at some of your phrases.

--- I don't think you "fell between the cracks" BETWEEN relationships. It makes more sense that you got that feeling DURING the relationships.

--- "Girl of your dreams... to complete your life." Neat and logical, but marketing mode. A little offputting to a woman who promises and expects to be more than your "completion".

--- "For the right woman, I would find time to spoil her" . Are you sure??? Besides, I think you've got the wrong model. First of all, you are not at the pet store qualifying and disqualifying puppies. More importantly, are you really willing to settle for a woman who is willing to settle for being "spoiled" ??? --- more puppy talk there!! And MOST essentially, you need to start putting your time NOW, before the "right woman" arrives in your life.

What to do? Well, first of all, you need to analyze whether or not anything I have said rings true to you. Your sense of logic will need to be satisfied in advance, lol, that it is prudent and timely to develop and value emotion and to tolerate vulnerability. I am not gonna say find your inner woman or get in touch with your feminine side, because those phrases make me gag. But they DO suggest the direction in which you are aiming for personal growth.

I am not sure what is the practical answer. Are there any couples in your life that you admire for their mutually successful couplehood? There is plenty -- too much, actually, to making choosing easy -- of literature out there that can help the relationship-impaired navigate the waters better.

I'm sorry. I have gone on FAR too long. I hope I have helped more than I have hurt. Good luck!

Answer 2

Sounds like you are a good catch......responsible, humble, etc. Sometimes we don't realize that we are going out but not really putting ourselves 'out there'. Do you work in a hospital? Because I would think there are lots of opportunities to meet women there. Also, I know you said you have been told you were handsome but what have you been told about your personality, if anything? Do you have any female friends? If so, talk to them honestly and maybe you can get some good feedback from someone who knows you. Good luck :-)

Answer 3

Its never to late to find the right girl. Just focus more one finding a relationship than looking in the mirror. Girls are attracted to hot guys naturally, but there always is that something else that makes them want a relationship with them. Dont seem too despreate, and keep it cool, the right one will come around eventually, sometimes when you least expect it.

Good luck !!
:)- breana

Answer 4

I Think you should get yourself out there and find experiment with different people and find out what you truly want you just can't expect someone to come and find you. If you want this so much you should be out trying to fulfill your wish(es). I'm sure you are a great guy - Keep Looking - Something may happen when you least expect it !!!
Good Luck !

Answer 5

they're many times basically lonely or no longer lonely,worrying people who love animals and don't have the middle to coach away strays.there could be some who're loopy,yet,whats up, all of us might nicely be loopy.And diverse people have diverse critiques on what loopy is.working example,some people might think of you're loopy.LOL and by utilising the way,i'm the dictionary woman

Answer 6

well you sound perfect to me beside the fact that you're too old for me to date.... but I think you still have plenty of time. You're still young. Don't fall into the farse that you start getting old when you're nearing 30 (as my friend says). You'll find the right woman for you and she'll appreciate you despite your success. I wish you luck finding her.

Answer 7

Go on dating sites there are lots of women on there that will suit you.
www.Plentyofish.com is a free site with 1000's of women seeking a relationship all over the world. It's never to late.
There is someone special out there for you x

Answer 8

you seem like a sincere good guy...i know this sounds cliche...but don't worry, there are a ton of good women out there and one day you will find her. There are sincere women that - who knows? could be in your situation...probably college educated, good looking, fun but classy...you're not the only one - you'll find her! Good luck!

Answer 9

No the right one will come a long...Been in your shoes I am still looking...Dont worry enjoy your career, friends, and family love will come when you least expect it...Dont push it or rush it...

Answer 10

You're 29!!! It's not too late!