Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

oh my gosh the guy i like got me a birthday present! its a necklace with a gold chain and a small rock at the end. its beautiful. i want him to know i love it! should i wear it tommarow? we have a dress down day and i want him to know i care SO much about him. And he was walking by and i was holding it so do you think he saw it? i want to date him so badly!

2007-03-21 08:36:06 · 4 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl at my school who is very cute and i really like her, so how do i get her to notice me?

2007-03-21 08:35:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:35:11 · 13 answers · asked by midnitekitten13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having a destination wedding, and to keep costs low I am having 1 bridesmaid, thus she is my Maid of Honor. The only guests at the wedding will by my parents, and my MOH, so this is an important position. 2 months before the wedding she informs me she is engaged to a guy that she doesn't know (lives in different state, only talk on the phone) & she is busy planning the wedding. I understand she's busy, but honestly the fact that she is marrying this guy sickens me. It is hard to watch my best friend make such a big mistake, & she won't listen to my advice. I do not want to call her to talk about the wedding, b/c she always talks about him. I cannot imagine spending a week with her on her all-expense-paid vacation that I'm giving her. I get the impression that she's going to try to make me pay for him to go, and guilt me if I don't. She hasn't planned a shower, or helped out at all thus far. Do I fire her? Is is appropriate for me to ask someone else with just 2 months notice?

2007-03-21 08:35:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-21 08:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by Clarkie 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes a relationship last forever?

2007-03-21 08:33:23 · 21 answers · asked by kimch888 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem with myself. i dont know what it is exactly. well, i get really depressed alot. and then i am happy. and it keeps fluctuating. i dont think im bi-polar. it's different than that. for example...this weekend i was at home and i was really depressed, the worse i have ever been, and i kept thinkin of suicide. well i got 3 bottles of pills and i was about to take them. i wasnt planning on killing myself, i was going to call the ambulance so they could save me. it was a way for ppl to realize there's something wrong and i need help. but i decided i didnt want to die, so i wrote a 3 page poem of how i feel. then cried for 3 hours and all of a sudden, like someone switching a light, i was happy. now im back to fluctuating. i keep thinking of hurtin myself. im really depressed, and i dont know what to do. how do i get help? who would i go to for this? like what kind of doctor? and does anyone have any idea of what's the matter with me? i really need help........

2007-03-21 08:33:22 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

some guys i know when its the right moment guys talk about girls in front of me sometimes and their ex's and then they ask me what i look for in a guy,i usualy tell them but then they ask how far would you go with a really hot guy you knew those questions.but i then ask them are you trying to figure me out and they say kinda or just admit it.i really get the vibe that when some of these guys talk and ask me about my perspectives on relationships i get the vibe that they are interested or like me,but then i get the vibe that they are just trying to figure me out by testing me if im easy or not.which one are they doing or is it both,why??

2007-03-21 08:32:40 · 1 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1 in Singles & Dating

i was very young when my parents divorced & it was a traditional African marrige, i was four years & my younger brother was 11 months, my mom took us with her to her family,when i turn 15 i gave him a second chance, yes he called me to stay with him and mom sat me free to him, besides things were not good in her family the breadwinner lost her job, that's my granny. i stayed with him for 6 months & came back home, because of him & his step wife whom they had 1 daughter. I was also disturbed from my studies because i went back home to stay & mom went out for work. life begun to be so unfair to me, infact us.It came a point where i passed my matrick in 2006 & i managed to registerer at the university of Lipompo somewhere in SA, BUT unfortunately my queen(mom) died. WHAT TO DO, DO I GO TO HIM?

2007-03-21 08:32:39 · 14 answers · asked by LOST-BAD-BOY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately, I have been thinking about the theory that people are responsible for their own feelings. I agree with this for the most part. But it does seem in many cases that this is not always true. How we treat others matters how they feel about you. If I were to kick someone and make them feel bad, wouldn't it be my responsibilty? If I lied to someone and they were hurt by this, wouldn't I have played some part in the role of hurting their feelings? I am unable to sort through this... any thoughts?

Someone I know has been abusing this theory by doing as they please without regard to anyone else. Later claiming that they have no responsibilty for how it makes anyone feel. I guess this is how I got stuck on the topic...

2007-03-21 08:32:36 · 16 answers · asked by Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 08:32:35 · 20 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know why peoples are mean one second then nice the other

2007-03-21 08:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is leaving for her gap year this summer for 9 months atleast, whereas I am already at uni, first year.
we've only been together for 2 months, but by the time she leaves for travelling we would have been together for quite a few months.

she says she does not want to break up, but Im not sure what to do.

Do you think it's possible to keep a relationship going without seeing each other for that long....

what should I do?
i must point out that she will not have access to the phone very frequently and no email, as she is planning to volunteer in an african country,

2007-03-21 08:32:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

lets just say you met this guy once like almost two years ago but he was a bad boy with potential....instant sparks.....but you were already involved with someone you have been with most of your life and have a pretty good life with....but you were like a second class citizen in youre old relationship....you stay with the old boyfriend but constantly think of the other guy everyday is it stupid to have stayed and let that kind of feeling pass or dive in head first into something that is not sure unknown and scary but there was a mutual attraction and definate chemistry that was unlike anything you have ever expierienced.is it better to leave well enough alone to just wonder about what might have been for the sake of my current family situation kids and what not sorry it was so long

2007-03-21 08:32:06 · 13 answers · asked by angelina_mcardle 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by kimch888 1 in Singles & Dating

And to give them a room i had to take my infants stuff away to another room shift the cot etc.. do yu think it was sane or no to expect a call of thanks.. or anything ??
didnt get any calls..!! just curious what do you think?

2007-03-21 08:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family

...up, what colours would you choose for me?

I am petite, medium brown with black hair and black eyes. I think, I have yellow undertones. My hair tend to curl, too. I have Asian features (without the slit eyes though!) and I'm almost 23. I am partial to the feminine look.

What can I do to enhance my appearance?

Thanks!

2007-03-21 08:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by Crusty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 08:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by mark 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. so i broke up with my bf for this new kid. n now me n the new kid have been dating for a month n a couple of days.. but i still like my ex like alot. n hes like mes still too.. n i want him back really bad n he wants me back. but i like the guy im with now too but like i think i like my ex more then the guy right now..
im so confused idk what to do. :\

what should i do :\
im so confused.

2007-03-21 08:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by babi_blonde_101 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like some help on getting a guy plzz. I suck at trying to get someone.

2007-03-21 08:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have been with this man for 8 years at christmas we talked about having another baby. that did not happen and last friday we split up he said he was depressed,sun night he text me asking if i had moved on i said no and he said their would b now way he wouldgo with some one till i was with some one because he did not want to hurt me.last night he text to say good night . all of this his doing i just answered his questions

today i seen him up the street with a women he was all over her.she had no idea that we had just spilt she just smiled at me and my son while he gave my wee boy afiver then walked away

2007-03-21 08:30:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is greedy with money. He is selfish, immature and does not admit that he has a problem. He has been married before and left her because she did not give him enough sex, she did not have anything to do with him for six months. I am now with him and since we have been together for the past 3 years it has been a tough relationship . He has kicked me an my kids out and we got our own place and now we are back again living with him again six months later. He is very hard to satisfy and I feel sick all the time and depressed because he makes me feel like I have to behave or I feel like he doesn't love me for who I am. I feel scared because I don't have a job right now, I was just in the hospital for three days for falling, I feel like he has complete control of my life and I want to find the right man who will not boss me around and make feel like I am lesser than him.

2007-03-21 08:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The marriage has become extremely abusive. I have 2 kids but only my daughter is still with me. I work a full time job and earn close to $40,000 a year. How do women manage after a divorce?

2007-03-21 08:30:44 · 20 answers · asked by Nancy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having a delimma only because I'm trying not to do anything out of spite. I don't really know my father. When my mother got pregnant, he left the state and didn't come back until I was born. He signed his rights to me away when I was about 6. I didn't meet him until I was 13 and he didn't make any effort to get to know me. All of a sudden, at 22, he decides he wants a daughter. By then, I was through. I don't hate him, I just don't know him and don't have any desire to now. The problem is that I have very good relationships with everyone else on his side of the family. So, now I'm married and 14 weeks pregnant. Everyone on that side knows but him. They all think I should tell him. My mother says it's my decision, but she doesn't think I should feel pressed to inform him. I have no plans for this child to have a relationship with him. Should I tell him anyway, just so he'll know he's gonna be a grandfather? BTW, my husband doesn't think I should, but said you decide.

2007-03-21 08:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by sassy2midnite 3 in Family

Why this way? Does it really work? Do you really "emotionally" just disconnect from you're past love with new "sexual" intimacy?

2007-03-21 08:30:32 · 2 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

Why do girls compare their exs with their current boyfriend?
then girls start missing their exs ( whom love them some much) when these girls were the ones that broke their hearts?

2007-03-21 08:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am 14 and i honestly think i found true love for now i guess.
and so anyways i have been with this amazing guy for almost a year and we are just great togetha(we have our up n downs) but anyways he runs track so he calls me at like 7;00 everyday and today he didn't have track so he called me at like 7:30.(wondering wat hes doing all that other time) and so now he gave this girl his # to make sure she was safe bcuz this is her 1st time runing on track or wateva. so its bad enough we dnt attend the same school, i mean we spend time go out to the movies(the first guy i went on a date! wit!!!!!) and so now this is where it hurts he got off the phone with me for that girl. oh my god that reallly hurted my feeling, you just dnt know! or could it be karma because i talk on the phone to other guys and


plzz tell me wat to do so i want go the whole night mad i can't call him back because he has to get off at 9:00! im so upset but i guess most of

2007-03-21 08:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i might be pregnant... testing this weekend to be for sure... well, if i am my bf and are getting married... his family is agains birth out of wedlock and noone has done it in his family for generations. he doesn't want to let his dad down so we plan on going to the court house asap and getting married. we both know we'll end up married down the line so is it ok to get married now to keep his family from disowning him if i'm pregnant???

i'm 20 and he's 23 btw

2007-03-21 08:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

i am from india...alrit im not from a flashy city like mumbai or delhi...the other day i happened to chat with an american guy from ny...he was nice...he had something to say about sex every third sentance he typed in...i told him i have a best friend who is a guy whom i like very much...the next thing he aske me if we have kissed...when i answered in negative he was like over there,friends always do that and more and thats only normal...i just told him that down here friends are not supposed to kiss..i told him i dream about doing little sweet things for my guy....he was expecting something sexual but i genuinely meant innocently sweet things like cooking his favourite food...talking to him has given me an existential shock...its my belief that friends are not supposed to lust over each other...am i the only person harping this thought??..is there anyone around my age that shares my belief(im 21)....also what comes to ure mind predominatly when u think about love?..cus there r many other things flooding my brains when i think about love...am i hopelessly wierd??

2007-03-21 08:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating