Ok so i am 14 and i honestly think i found true love for now i guess.
and so anyways i have been with this amazing guy for almost a year and we are just great togetha(we have our up n downs) but anyways he runs track so he calls me at like 7;00 everyday and today he didn't have track so he called me at like 7:30.(wondering wat hes doing all that other time) and so now he gave this girl his # to make sure she was safe bcuz this is her 1st time runing on track or wateva. so its bad enough we dnt attend the same school, i mean we spend time go out to the movies(the first guy i went on a date! wit!!!!!) and so now this is where it hurts he got off the phone with me for that girl. oh my god that reallly hurted my feeling, you just dnt know! or could it be karma because i talk on the phone to other guys and
plzz tell me wat to do so i want go the whole night mad i can't call him back because he has to get off at 9:00! im so upset but i guess most of
2007-03-21 08:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
***ALSO he knows i talk to other guys but not once has he eva heard me or say ima call u back i'm finna talk to another guy....
thanks 4 the advice im so upset :( and sad to
2007-03-21 08:30:18 · update #1
It could be that he is just comfortable with you. Let me explain, if I am on the phone with my wife and the office calls. I will say I gotta go, the office is calling. Neither one of us thinks about it. If this is the case then just let him know cutting you off for another girl bothers you. I mean, he is a guy, he is probably completely unaware that he has done anything wrong. Especially if he is 14 also. At 14 you may not realize this yet, but us guys need training. And so it starts for you.
2007-03-21 08:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by ragbagz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur really over reacting!
1) u haven't found true love! i'm 14 and i thought i was in love too until i broke up with my bf and now i basically hate him!
2) so what if he's calling other girls. as long as he's not cheating it doesn't matter- especially if u talk to other guys! that's a lil hypocritical don't u think!
3) if it bothers u so bad that he called a girl then tell him how u feel! if he doesn't like what u say and he disrespects u then he's not worth it anyways!
4) it seems to me like ur a little bit immature! calling someone is NOT a big deal! he could have done something alot worse! What if he went out and had sex with the new track girl! that's when u would have a reason to post a question on yahoo!
srry for my harshness, but it's true! good luck girl- it will all be just fine! talk it out with him
oh and gurlie, don't listen to cheezer at the top! he has no clue what he's talking about!
2007-03-21 08:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel giddy (a good funny feeling!) all over reading your love story.
I really don't know what "advice" to give you....coz, honey, you don't need any...you don't have a problem. You're just going thru a normal boy-girl thing so very typical of your young age.
You and your amazing guy will always have your special moments but at the same time, it's healthy too to be with other friends. You're much too young to be "exclusively dating" yet.
"Y it is k 4 u 2 call boys n not k 4 him 2 call girls? be kewl,k?
Hugs!
2007-03-21 08:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. don't get hysterical, you will have many loves in your life. Play the smart move on this one. If the boy that you like got off of the telephone to talk with another girl, something about his character as a boyfriend should be analyzed by you.
Before you jump to conclusion, talk with him about him hanging up the phone to talk with another girl. If it turns out that he was making sure she got home safely, then fine but if it turns out to be something deeper, leave him alone
2007-03-21 08:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 there has to be more in life than that.
2007-03-21 08:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by KingKong718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyyy babeeee =]
you don't know me! but i am 14 aswell!! tell me about lads, they are sooo much hassle and heart ache !! :( i am proper upset at the mo cuz i am going through lad problems... with one of the HOTEEST lads ever!! lol :( but that is a diffferent story... hehe! sooo, basically, i think you should make sure he still likes you... hwwhat exactl y you upset about though... that he is chatting to another girl... incase he like starts liking her? WHICH HE WONT!!!!!!!! remember... he is with you because he LIKES you... and if he wanted to be with her he would... simple as!! pleasee whatever though don't worry - boil yourself a cup of hot choccy hehe... and... get some biscuits and just eat lol - food and choccy and all that crap makes me feel soo much better :) hehe... write back to me if you want... and i will try and help you some more... i ent sreally said much to you help wise, because i don't really get the problem... buttt i am more than happy to try and help you!! :D
write back....
lovee yaa!!!
ashali xxx
2007-03-21 08:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 years old sweetheart you can't think this guy is THE ONE??? Guard your heart and give it to NO ONE who isn't worthy. His loss........move on. If you "accept" things you know you shouldn't he do it again and next time the pain will be worse. Trust the woman who has has her heart broken a million times.
2007-03-21 08:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, calm down, I doubt he'd be cheating on you. You seem like a nice, caring girl! Trust him, and if it just doesn't feel right, ask him about it! If he gets angry, dump his a$$, he cheating on you, but if he says no and is sincere about it, he tellin tha truth gurl! Just, don't get so worked up about it!
2007-03-21 08:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You basically got what you deserve. If you talk to other guys, why couldn't he talk to other girls? Being a guy, I wouldn't have it either. There are plenty of other guys out there for you, you're only 14! Don't grow up too fast.
2007-03-21 08:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your not going together, engaged, or married, don't worry about it believe me there are other fishes in the sea. Play the field, make him jealous, do whatever-just get over it. It's just a phone call.
2007-03-21 08:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by God Bless America 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋