i need to know why peoples are mean one second then nice the other
2007-03-21 08:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your mother that in about two weeks and she'll tell you the answer!!
2007-03-21 09:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by chris j 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, a lot of people are mean. It is a fact of life, something we must learn to deal with. I tend to believe that a lot of "meanness" on other people's parts stem from selfishness and insecurity. All too often someone will have a best friend, and then their best friend gets a chance to hang with those deemed as "cooler" and will turn around and dump their real friend, all for 5 minutes in the spotlight. As people are constantly striving for perfection, to be better, more attractive, more popular- many times such desires manifest themselves to the point where they triumph over the person's actual conscience and sense of morality. I don't know exactly what happened to you, but trust me, things will turn out okay. You need to take a step back and look at the big picture- what factors could have caused this person to lash out at another- (are they under a lot of stress lately? faced a traumatic event? have a tendency to be shallow and self-centered?) There is always a reason, and whether you know the reason or not, it is important to not react with anger, but to feel sorry for the person, because clearly they are either going through a tough time, or are excessively insecure, and you are a better person for being more mature and having compassion for others. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-21 15:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they have dual personalities (i.e. schizophrenia) or are just plain hypocrites with a hidden agenda or something.
Or it could be that they are mentally unstable.
Or that they don't know what they want & how to behave in social situations.
Whatever it is, they act like losers of society because that's exactly what they are, if you want my honest opinion.
Unsolicited word of advice: steer well clear of them because they will never miss a single chance to backstab you at the earliest opportunity!!!
Those kinds of people are bad news, trust me!
Take it easy!
2007-03-21 15:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might have a lot on there minds. i know when i am stressed, i try not to be mean but at times i get really mad from one minute to the next and say and do thing that are "mean", that i normally wouldnt say
2007-03-21 15:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by blueboy42887 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel that they did a bad thing... just give ppl the benefit of doubt willya?
2007-03-21 15:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there called moodswings i expirenience them my self maybe something happened to them and they just begin to be sad or mad hope this helps....
2007-03-21 15:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by mikey boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋