Thanks to those who answered the first part of my question. I realized I should be more clear. I am married, he loves me unconditionally, we have good sex (although boring sometimes), I never slept around, just messed around, but that was years ago. After doing anything sexual with my husband I feel angry and resentful. I've realized I mostly feel used. I do believe it has to do with past experiences where I was looking for love, but did it the wrong way. My husband does not use me. Even when it's me initiating sex I feel used after. He's very affectionate, I'm not. I'm a very sexual person, but this is conflicted with my feelings afterwards. Any advice? Yes, people have mentioned therapy, I agree, but any other advice? Anyone else experienced this?
2007-03-21
08:46:35
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