ive known this girl on the internet and we both really love each other
she is engaged, but told me its not problem for us
when we first met we were totally in love but i feel tht nowadays she is ignoring me and if we do talk she will say the same thing again and again
how can i get her to open up to me? without actually telling her so
really appreciate the advice
I sometimes feel asthough she is not that happy with her fiancee
2007-03-21 08:42:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
back off people its my mate lol tell her how you feel init lol o my god your in love my babies all grown up it seemed like yesterday when we had a pretend marriage o it was yesterday lol go and tell her my lil gay mwah bye sexy
p.s you said alisha was gay tut lol
p.s.s since were such good mates and stuff chose my answers as the best lol i love you (as a mate)
2007-03-22 07:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually met her live? One can't tell from the posting (it sounds like internet only). If it's internet only, run away...it was a fantasy.
If it's live now and you interact with her, just let her work her stuff out with her fiance and be there for her if she needs to talk about her issues (if it's not to painful for you).
Someone schooled in the ways of the sith would counsel you to manipulate her into leaving her fiancee, but I would not do that (heh).
Then POUNCE once she gets free.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 08:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i m in ur situation before. Let me advice u this, She's engaged rite. She is a grow up. She can make her own choice. For u i think u jus had a crush on her. Not love. If she likes u she will open up to u automatically. Maybe she herself dont know what she want. Leave her and find a proper girl before u got hurt. But if u think that u can make her fall in love wif u, then go for it but in slowly pace. Make her feel comfortable when she is wif u. Then she will open up. Follow ur heart its the most important things.
2007-03-21 08:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice is not what you need....what you need is a life....with real live people in it. Go find a person who will communicate with you without having to type.....also, she is engaged so now you are a total silly loser....yes, you were so totally in love that she's engaged to someone else.....listen to yourself and realize you have no idea what the heck love is....grow up.
2007-03-21 08:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ENGAGED walk away!!! What is wrong with you (and her)?! Put yourself in her man's shoes and think how U would feel! Move on to a healthier relationship (and quit falling in love with people over the 'net - sheesh!).
2007-03-21 08:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll have to figure thing out on her one. Let her be and go out looking for a girl that's not engaged.
2007-03-21 08:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels awkward talking to you since she is engaged to another guy.
2007-03-21 08:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by ad121ana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't leave her alone dude. maybe you will be lucky and you go out with her even if she is engaged. at the end: what matters if she is engaged??? just you and she would be happy
2007-03-21 08:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Flint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cold just be busy. just give her pleanty of opertunity to get a hold of you. maybe she is not happy with the fiancee and is chossing between him and you? just be supportive and open, with any luck she will folow suit
2007-03-21 08:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by xanthostaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her u love er.
2007-03-21 08:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋