if it is a soul mate... should it matter... she is 31, never married (had long term relationships). Has kids, but never found 'that match' till now. His kids are 10 years younger then her?
2007-03-21 08:46:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
does he make you happy? are you in love? that's about sums it up. doesnt matter what people think. you deserve to be happy and have love and give love. if this man adores you,loves you and respects you then i say GO FOR IT!!
2007-03-21 12:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question starts out being about 2 guys getting married (a 31 year old man & a 55 year old man) ::cringing::
Glad to read on & find that that was not the case.
If you have a 31 year old WOMAN, & a 55 year old man, true soul mates as you put it, then the quality of the relationship should be permitted to trump the age difference. She just needs to know going in that they are not likely to grow old together. But, what time they get together might very well be priceless. I say give it a chance.
2007-03-21 15:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if they are both happy then let sleeping dogs lie. Love has no age limit what have you just realized this is the first person you know of that has had a guy 20yrs there senior get married. Older guys marrying younger women has been a norm for decades wake up?
2007-03-21 15:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't believe age matters. I have a step sister that is the same age as my mother and a step mother that is the same age as my maternal grandfather. She seems old enough to know what she wants. Hope this helps.
2007-03-21 15:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does it for unconditional love so be it but remember anything other than that kind of love will end in heartbreak and loss. This could also effect the children later on in life. Think again and only act on unconditional love...
2007-03-21 15:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 27 and in the past have been in relationships with men as old, if not older, than my father. Who cares.
2007-03-21 15:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely fine
2007-03-21 16:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love then nothing is wrong with it. Age is just a number. If it's not true love and someone has motives then BOTH parties are to blame. They are both adults. We live and learn.
2007-03-21 16:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My home grown rules of age are this
After age 21, there are no rules.
Be happy for them
2007-03-21 15:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.OldGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter, as long as they think they are in love. But they must be sure that they will face alot of social stigma.
2007-03-21 15:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋