2007-03-21 08:41:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you love him, so no matter how many times he may "mess with your mind" it won't matter. What you need to look at, is how many times he dose that compared to how many good times/good things he does with you and for you. Then you can decide on if he is worth it. Good luck, and dont be afraid to get out of it, because there may be something better out there waiting for you!!!
2007-03-21 08:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by girlygirl83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in this relationship & if he is messing with your mind trust me you have to leave. You are probably feeling really insecure right about now & that is the main resaon you cant leave. But you have to take care of you & if you relationship is unhealthy then that cannot be done properly! As we all find out as we go through life the only person that we can truly depend on is our self. I was in a similar situation years ago it took time to leave but it was the best thing that I ever done for myself or ever will no one needs to put up with being unhappy as I feel you are . Life is too short enjoy it now!
2007-03-21 08:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a sucker....a glutton for punishment. Maybe you don't think you deserve to be treated with compassion, consideration and the like.
Maybe you are afraid of change. If your mother or best friend was in a relationship and was being treated the same way...would you urge her to leave so that she would not be treated poorly? If the answer is yes, why don't you demand the samee for yourself????
Don't be afraid of change....it can be a very good thing!!
2007-03-21 08:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sucker for punishment. You stay so you can get irritated, and you no you should leave. You can't because you are addicted to this creep. Is the sex that good? Is it really worth all the bullsh## that goes with it? It is you call. Only you can make the decision to leave and be happier eventually, or stay and become a bitter old bag....
2007-03-21 08:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because deep down you like the attention that he gives you - even if the attention is messing with your mind.
The best thing for you to do is to take a stand for yourself and leave. This is not a healthy relationship for you. I will only make you miserable, and depressed.
He is like a cancer, you have to get it out of your life or it may kill you.
2007-03-21 08:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by fun4kev_snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's luv hunny
and i know it spounds hrd but u need to tell him and if he rejects you just gotta let him go!
there's this thing called luv camp which helps you get over it the easy way...
go and stay in a random hotel far away from where you live and have a great time...
and if you still don't want you bak then dump the looser u r better than that--ask yourself why you are dating him now when you have doubts?
your relationship won't develop unless you clear this up
hope this helps and good luck whatever you deciede to do.
x
2007-03-21 08:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Carmel Loveitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he messes with you now he will more than likely keep doing it, even if you ask him to stop. Don't feel you have to stay. no one should put up with mind games. Believe me, you don't want that. Do you feel you have to have someone? You don't. I think you should leave him You can do better.
2007-03-22 16:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~{Å?Å¦ÇºÑ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't want to leave him. You want to believe that he loves you. But if he is messing with your mind he does not love you. I'm sorry. Good luck.
2007-03-21 08:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by hereecomesxthesun :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of the law of attraction. We like things that are mysterious and unknown. Best to let him go, there are people out there who will not play mind games...they are hard to find but they are there.
2007-03-21 08:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question. He messes with your mind . If we allow another in our minds and don't seperate reality with fiction then we have created our own portal of no hope which to leads to drama
2007-03-21 08:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by secretlovechic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋