Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

My ex girlfriend wants to get back together. She is a terrible girlfriend but a cool friend. Every time we talk on the phone she tells me of how she messed up and how she much she wants to be with me. But I only want to be her friend. What should i do?

2007-03-21 07:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids a 4 year old daughter,7 year old son and 11 year son and I also have a 5 year old nephew whom I would like to be in the wedding. My finacee has a 3 year old daughter. Any suggestions on how to have all the kids be in the wedding??? I thought the 2 girls be flower girls... the 11 year old be junior groomsmen, the 5 year old be ring barrier and the 7 year old escort the flower girls.. How does that sound. I have no junior bridesmaid. Would that look wierd.??. I am open to suggestions if anybody has one..

2007-03-21 07:20:17 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

When your man breaks up with you and asks if you still want to be friends, isn't that like your mom asking if you want to keep your dead dog after he's been run over? Wouldn't it hurt worse?

2007-03-21 07:19:28 · 27 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 07:19:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i 've always wanted to try this thing but i dont know how to find a place in chicago..any help ?

2007-03-21 07:18:27 · 2 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well theres this guy in my class that is really starting to annoy me now with his comments at me, But thats all he seems to say to me! Theres some other really annoying stuff that he does to eg. Kicking my chair from behind, whenever i say something he HAS to comment on it & we are always swearing at each other! But sometimes we get stuck in really weird situations like, he had to sit next to me once and we were really shy together, like, we cant have a simple conversation, it is always argueing! Is he just being a ordinary annoying lad, or are we flirting secretly?

2007-03-21 07:18:18 · 2 answers · asked by Charlie K 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years, and when we were togther for about 3 months a rumor went around that he made out with this very nasty girl. i aksed her about it and she said they didnt. well then next day he told me she made a move and he pushed her away and i belived him...two years later we broke up becuase i caught him kissing another girl...then all of a sudden the nasty girl comes out and tells me they made out.when she said they didnt...ok well now my and the boy are trying to work things out and i cant stop thinking about that rumor. he made out with this girl so what makes me think he didnt with the nasty chick, well i asked him to 3 way and confront her and i wanted to here what she said to him, but he flipped and wouldnt and freaked out on me and hung up. that makes me more suspicous. so who do i belive? should i just let it go since it was over 2 years ago? i love him and want things to work, but if this is the second time he kissed someone theres going to be a3rd

2007-03-21 07:16:50 · 15 answers · asked by Lovley 2 in Singles & Dating

If this happens in the dating phase early in the relationship will it continue once there has been committments like engagement or marriage? Can people change? Do they value the relationship more in different stages? Curious.

2007-03-21 07:16:39 · 25 answers · asked by foodart2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in bristol at uni, i have split up with my gf and still have 2 see her everyday and we all have a house arranged for next year and are going to live together. i dont really like things at uni at the moment and spend alot of time back home missing lectures, i am hoping next year that i will have a job and be part of some clubs so i can spend as little time in the house as possible and see the housemates as little as possible too but im a bit worried that it wont be that simple. im worried i will feel the same in september but i dont want to lose out on the house in case im fine with everything by then. what should i do? i only live 45 mins drive from uni but im not sure i want to commute either because part of being at uni is being independant.
oh, i also feel like the friends we had are kinda going to her side of things so i have no friends as such any more and need to start from scratch, like my 1st year again

2007-03-21 07:16:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Insanely Attracted to another man? I have been with my husband for 2 years and its been miserable to say the least. He puts me down, Judges my body. I met a man who makes me feel like im the most beautiful girl in the world and I am so so so so attracted to him. Should i stay with my husband? or should I see what else life has to offer?

2007-03-21 07:15:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've kinda asked this question already but got a bunch of answers as if i was just clueless on dating all together. That was a wrong assumption to make. I'm just looking for really different ideas you wouldn't normally think bout, like indoor sky diving. If your going to tell me movies, pinics, horse back riding, or anyhting thats just easy to do anytime then please dont bother! Tell me your wildest best date maybe it'll give me idea or if you just know of something really cool to do, tell me! Any suggestions now?

2007-03-21 07:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 07:15:17 · 18 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubby is trying all this weird sex positions, he's getting from other girls he sleepping with, and trying them on me, i'm not as flexible as them, also he is trying to have anal sex with me but he is to big for me, he does it with other girls and wants me to do it as well, cause i do thing to him that i learn of other men, should i just say no, what can i do to make it fit,tryed ky full tube no good, i o have anal sex but with men with small penises

2007-03-21 07:15:13 · 17 answers · asked by bandit k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

THERE IS A GRIL AND WE HAD AN ARGUMENT WE BOTH HAD THE WRONG FACTS AND WE THOUGHT WE BROK UP NOW WE TALK AND WE CALL EACH PET NAMES. BUT SHE DOSE NOT CALL ME A LOT I DO SO IT MAKES ME FELL DESPRATE . WELL SHOULD WE STAY TOGETHER OR BREAK UP.

2007-03-21 07:14:40 · 13 answers · asked by drude528 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife had a two-month affair with a black guy from her work.
When i found out about it - she immediatly quit the job - and we went to counseling.
We are still verry much in love...and almost strronger as a couple now.
I know they had sex in our bedroom often on their lunch hour, I know he spend 1 night overnight here with her when i was out of town- I know he was "big"...i realize now these are questions i should have never asked.
Anyhow - when I am intimate with my wife - I cant stop thinking about "him". I wonder if he was better - how much better - if she thinks about him still when she is with me- all these thoughts are in my mind when we are close.
Our counseler is great - he keeps saying it will take time but -

I guess I want to ask how other guys got over an affair.

Do you think about her "lover" when you are with your wife/girlfriend??.

Did you want to know/need to know the "details"?

Thanks

2007-03-21 07:14:04 · 23 answers · asked by sporty_402001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex girl wants me to stay away from my 2 year old son but i don't wanna and i need to see him when i get out and her parents think the same way. any one know how to talk someone into letting that happen?

2007-03-21 07:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family

Winter weddings can be just as good right? How do i start planning? I dont even know what colors i want yet. HELP

2007-03-21 07:12:55 · 18 answers · asked by jntt19 1 in Weddings

2007-03-21 07:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by Wouldn't you like to know? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to have my son for the first time since nov17 bec my x is a ***** is there neway to get him to rebember me and will i have a horrible problem with him? We are in a nasty divorce and my son is 16 months

2007-03-21 07:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by dirbe22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated this guy for 3 years. I love him but I am having trouble deciding what i should do. You see he always accuses me of cheating on him. I cant go any where or do anything but he can. I have to always have my phone with me and I even have to go sit at his job all day. I cant talk to the people he works with because I end up having sex with them too. I have never cheated on him and i dont go out if he is not with me. I have told him about the guys I have had sex with. I was a single parent when I met him. He knew I had kids before we went out what is his deal? I have broken up with him so many times but he makes me feel guilty and I always end up back here. I am at a loss Some one please help.

2007-03-21 07:12:04 · 18 answers · asked by countrygirl03 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 07:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like skater boys or not??

2007-03-21 07:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by david j 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him and we've been together for 7 years. I just don't know if I want to get married, in general. I don't want to plan the wedding. It just seems like so much work. If we do it, I just want that run away to an island and get married on the beach. Is that wrong? Did anyone else feel this way?

2007-03-21 07:11:15 · 29 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Weddings

sometime its hard for a girl to talk to someone she like

2007-03-21 07:11:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jenycia C 1 in Singles & Dating

I go to school with this chick.... I don't know how to ask her out, because she is so skinny, and i am on the bigger side.... But, we talk all the time, almost every day after school, but i don't have the courage to ask her out... Do you suggest anything?? Do you suggest how i start the conversation to ask her out??

2007-03-21 07:10:27 · 8 answers · asked by fiddlerontheroof1436 1 in Singles & Dating

My future sister in law guilted us into having her son be in our wedding when we told her we picked a friend's 5 year old boy as the ringbearer. We said we would have our jr groomsman and bridesmaid pull a wagon down with the younger boy. My mom went to a wedding where they did this and everyone that is was adorable. The problem is all this child does is cry! Even if his parents are in the room, he is crying. We are getting married outdoors and our aisle is very,very long. Probably almost half of a block. I think that the baby should not be in the wedding because he is going to cry and it will look silly! My future nephew obviously doesn't care if he is in the wedding and really doesn't have a purpose other than just to have him there. We already have our ringbearer. My fiance said if he crys, then his dad can come get him. Once again I think this will look very silly. I know its my wedding but I don't want to come across as a bridezilla. What do you think I should do?

2007-03-21 07:10:24 · 22 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Weddings

2007-03-21 07:09:09 · 34 answers · asked by Lucy J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my Wonderful husband is getting back from Training this Friday.hes been gone for a month(USMC).When he gets back he goes on Deployment leave for 1 week.Then he leaves to Iraq for 8 monthes.I know how sad,my poor baby.Anyways..What are some Good things to do while hes home.Were kinda old fashioned even though were only 21.We have a 2 yr old son.What are some Fun activities we can do as a family.We never have the chance to do anything Nice,or Romantic.hes always too busy working,ang gettting ready to Deploy.I would like to do something very meaningful before he leaves,but i dont know what.Hes more into staying home spend Alot of time with us,and watch Movies on the Coutch,But i wan something More Fun.I want us to go horse back riding,And i think we are.What else can Can we do?.Any ideas are really apreciated.THANX ;)

2007-03-21 07:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out that my ex-girlfriend saves all my emails to her in a separate folder.. what it mean?

all of my emails including conversations..
why cant she just delete her instead?
does it mean anything??

2007-03-21 07:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, getting married mid august, thinking of the carribean for our honey moon, know its rainy season in aug. Which island would be best for temp/least rainfall in this month? Was thinking of aruba? Dont really know much about it compared to say bahamas, cuba etc. Want sun,white beaches the norm i guess! thanks

2007-03-21 07:08:09 · 11 answers · asked by Mark L 1 in Weddings