Insanely Attracted to another man? I have been with my husband for 2 years and its been miserable to say the least. He puts me down, Judges my body. I met a man who makes me feel like im the most beautiful girl in the world and I am so so so so attracted to him. Should i stay with my husband? or should I see what else life has to offer?
2007-03-21 07:15:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I Told my husband im sexually attracted to this man as well.
2007-03-21 07:18:18 · update #1
Yes...
2007-03-21 07:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What if the other man turns out to be like your husband, would you go back to your current husband? I guess you now konow that marriage is not all about the attraction, there is much more to that coz if the attraction goes then what?? Consider everything possible and if you can't make this marriage work, what makes you so sure that a different one will be a success?You might even cosider professional advice and not make decisions based on what everyone has told you here.
2007-03-21 07:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Addicted2GRACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your attracted to another man get a divorce before creating self inflicted problems. Sure they all tell us we're the most beautiful woman in the world go to bed with dude and see how long he sticks around. If he was a man of class he wouldn't be talking to a married woman in the first place. If hes such a loser and you married him you must be a big loser to show some maturity and quit being selfish the world doesn't revolve u
2007-03-21 07:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say file for a divorce. If things have been miserable to say the least, then it's not an attraction to someone else that might break up your marriage... it's already broken. I (personally) would get the divorce over with before I fooled around with anyone else... but that's me.
2007-03-21 07:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by TmB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth of the matter is that if you are unhappy with your husband that you are also contributing to your misery. Hopefully, you do not have any children with this guy - so your split will be final (never have to see him again).
After you told your husband about your attraction to this other guy, I'm shocked he didn't leave you then.
Anyway, file for divorce and find happiness because life is too short!
2007-03-21 07:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you to see what's out there and what life has to offer you. I mean how can you possibly stay with a man who doesn't accept who you already are inside and out. You know when he decided to marry you he should know that loving someone means loving everything about them including the good and bad. Go find happiness. Don't hold yourself back from doing what's best for you. Have confident! It never to late to make a change in your life. Speak now or forever hold your peace. Remember you still have a long way to go in life and i think you would want to share it with someone very special. I wish you the best of luck! You got my support.
2007-03-21 07:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? You made a vow when you chose to get married and now you want to "explore" something else. I'm sure this other guy is nice. He sees a married woman to "Play" with; with no strings attached. All single guys want this. Talk to a marriage counselor. Communicate with your husband and discuss the problems you're feeling. Or join the thousand of other Divorcees who are miserable they gave up on their marriges, instead of fighting for it. Don't be stupid by messing around while your married. If you want to go play....get divorced first. But, you'll be sorry in the long run......
2007-03-21 07:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by riverrat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this husband of yours is really bad then you can leave.
Frankly he might be scared and insecure and there is no harm in working things out. Do you remember how you met and loved your husband? Nothing could talk you out of love and marriage. Find that bliss and try working it out. I am sure you can try at the least. Maybe this man who is taking you along may not be so serious about you. What if he leaves you later on? Is it worth for the sex? Men lie for a lot of things. Why leave security in marriage for someone else? just try making things work.
As long as a man does not cheat and beat then its worth a try. Please try is my request to you, all the way from an indian girl in India
2007-03-21 07:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow, two years isnt really a long time to be married, but if you are attracted to this other guy and think something is going to happen you might want to consider you and your husband also shared this attraction at one point. you will never know hoe a guy is going to be until affter time. first you need to make sure you ND YOUR husband arnt willing to work it out, if not then file for divorce and once it is finalized then you can see the other guy.
2007-03-21 07:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say do what you feel is best, If you think life would be better for you with this man that your so so so attracted too, but just make sure that your sure about it, because im sure you were so so attracted to your husband before you married him too. So maybe you leave him for this guy and whos to say things wont end up the same? Love is not magic it takes work, love is a choice, maybe you can try and save your marriage before you get involved with another someone.
2007-03-21 07:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The other man is only telling you how good you look so he can sleep with you. Once he gets that he will leave you flat for some blond secretary in the typing pool. Stop making things complicated in your relationship and go home to your husband and give him great head. Then maybe he will show how much he appreciates you.
2007-03-21 07:24:51 · answer #11 · answered by Devdude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋