Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

2007-03-21 06:59:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going out tonight with someone I've been out with a few times before, and I'm pretty sure things will head toward the bedroom. I really want that to happen, but I'm on my period. I don't want to avoid fooling around because I don't want to make him think I don't want him (because I do), but nor do I want him to be freaked out by my having my period.

I use the cup, which sits entirely inside me so it's not externally visible like a tampon is. The only way he'd be able to tell it's there is from the inside.

So do I owe him a warning? Or should I not say anything and smoothly avoid sex? Or should I not let things get hot at all and avoid the subject entirely? If I say anything, do you think he'll get freaked out? Please help!!!

2007-03-21 06:59:35 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex-husband asked that I move out of the house with our three year old. About a month later I found out I was pregnant, about three months with our child. By this time he was already seeing other people in one instance traveling out of town to be with another woman. He has tried to convince me that he wants to work things out but I have proof that he is still seeing other women. I feel like if he was sincere he would be focused on me and the kids and not seeing other people. He is playing this out like I just chose to leave when he actually gave me two weeks to move out. His dad is trying really hard to get us to work things out but my thought is why go back hes been seeing this one person since last summer. I have paid the attorney and moved my three year old to a new preschool where she is very happy. We are now living in a very stable loving environment. My new place is already set up for my three year old and the new baby.

2007-03-21 06:59:18 · 15 answers · asked by jlaurentaylor2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my boyfriend of a few months and we've been apart for 1 week this last monday. He has walked my friend to class and been paying alot of attention to her for the past few days. I don't understand why my "friend'' (girl not boyfriend) would do that. I don't want him back or anything, but it bothers me that she would be all over him like she is. Is there some kind of mutual respect that she is lacking? Is she trying to make me mad or hurt my feelings? And why would he do that? Is he trying to make me jealous? I am so confused!

2007-03-21 06:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

When me and my husband met, we both had friends, a social life,etc. However as time went on, all of his friends tried to talk to me on the side, I let him know and eventually this ended their relationship. Myself found out I had to let go of some bad friends that I had for various reasons. Now I find my life boring with no one to talk to except my husband and family. My husband doesn't like to go out, and I am social but just haven't found any friends. Me and my hubby just can't find people that relate to us. Any advice?

2007-03-21 06:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by sesa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what can i say so I won't get into trouble?...can i just say.."you know I would appreciate it if you would STOP picking on people.."...or "please stop!"...tell me HOW I COULD SAY IT WITHOUT GETTING INTO TROUBLE..SOMETIMES i am afraid to speak up!!

2007-03-21 06:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

we love eachother very much but had gotten into an argument over the weekend, we called eachother names and it hurt both of our feelings (i think it might've hurt me more since i'm a sensitive girl)... we haven't really spoken to eachother since. we've argued before but never did an argument make me so upset with him.

we live together so we still make small talk but i feel so awkward now. i spent 7yrs with this guy so i don't want to throw something away over some b*llshit.

what can i do? i feel like it's not going to work anymore.

2007-03-21 06:57:59 · 9 answers · asked by MIN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well im 17, im not really into the clubbing scene, im very mature for my age and i have a 24 y/o bf.. now heres my problem i love him with all my heart but there are times were i just want to be single .. there are times when i want to be out and no one ask me where im at.. now when i go to his house there are times when we have an awsome time! and there are other times which are just boring.. and those are the time where i question mtself do i really wanna be in a relationship .. im so confused now i really dont know what to do .!!!

2007-03-21 06:57:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf loves having sex with me... atleast once a day. i'm not complaining cuz she's one hot chick but sometimes i'm just tired from work or stressing. i want to please her but sometimes i have to say no, like last night, we were laying there and she's like "can i molest you" and i was like "babe i'm tired, going to sleep, love you, night" she took it well and laid in her spot and fell right asleep.

i guess my question is guys do you have a girl that wants to have sex more than you???

2007-03-21 06:57:25 · 4 answers · asked by True_Blue 1 in Singles & Dating

The ultimate sin is being boring. Why? Because the instant
you bore the girl, he or she is onto something else, and you've
lost her.

Keep in mind women love adventure and excitement; intrigue creates attraction. Open any romance novel and you'll find nothing but exciting (to women) event after exciting event.

One reason why many relationships go bad is that the guy who was exciting in the beginning now becomes boring because he stopped doing the things she found exciting. Remember, women view relationships as the ongoing process of attraction, men view them as an end in themselves. If you want to keep the attraction alive, you must keep doing the things she finds exciting.

This is not particularly difficult to do, and really, "variety" is
a better word than "exciting." Constantly changing up the places you go and the things you do is more than enough to keep her from getting bored with you.

2007-03-21 06:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We agreed to meet again for sex and then she said
'So I am your girlfriend now right' I went ahead and
said yes because I wanted her. Now I want to say
that I didn't mean that. How can I do that and maintain our sexual relationship. There are a lot
of things I like about her.

2007-03-21 06:56:21 · 20 answers · asked by Paul P 1 in Singles & Dating

Before I slept with a certain guy he chased me like crazy, and then after we slept together many many times ( its was freakin awesome), I am basically the one chasing him now.....Should I not call him for a week or so, and just wait for him to call?

2007-03-21 06:54:59 · 13 answers · asked by fabulous_girl83 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to study in the British council.One of the teachers called brett jansen used to look at me all the time.One day after the class he said 'i wanna talk to you'.I said why not.He said was looking for the one just like you.would you be the one.That time i was only 16 and he was 40.He was also married and his wife was pregnant.I said i am too young to be loved by a man older than me.After saying that he kissed me and i slapped over his face.Was it right? i think i was,but what do you think?

2007-03-21 06:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes gets pissed off and angry about nothing at all and will start yelling at me for no reason what so ever. I don't like to argue with her because it is stupid to argue. She gets mad when i get mad about her going out with her friends all night or with her guy friends but if i go for a walk or even go to work or something she gets mad and says that i can't be trusted. Do you think that she is pushing me away or that she is a little over protective or what please give me your opinions o.k. I love her very much and she says she still loves me alot.

2007-03-21 06:54:26 · 1 answers · asked by William P 1 in Singles & Dating

What are good pet names for my boyfriend? I keep using Sweetie and Sweetheart. What are some other good ones?

2007-03-21 06:54:18 · 29 answers · asked by REA 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a great guy a couple of years ago. He was just not a marrying type. So when i met my now-husband, we broke up with him peacefully, without any fights. Thus my husband NEVER had any problems with my ex-boyfriend. We kept in touch until I got married. Talked on the phone , got together for lunch several times,emailed each other when he moved to a different country. He is a very smart and educated person, so we became really good friends. I love my husband dearly. But a few days ago he demanded that I stop talking to my ex and said that he doubts his intentions, and that he even questions my judgement.Now my question is - is it really so wrong to keep in touch with your ex? Is it wrong to become friends? My husband occasionally contacts his ex-wife, saying that "its totally different". I was wrong with my judgements before... Am I wrong again?

2007-03-21 06:53:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i jus found out that i am pregnant. my bf of three years jus left for iraq for 18 months. He doesnt know that i'm pregnant....how do i tell him???

2007-03-21 06:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by ~*~In <3~*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf is in army and recently, a guy asked for my no. and i gave it to him. am i wrong in making friends with him? i'm afraid my bf will think of the wrong things.

2007-03-21 06:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

I know tradition says the groom cannot see the bride on the wedding day before they marry, but what about talking to her before? My fiance wants to know the answer so he can call me that day.

2007-03-21 06:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

2007-03-21 06:52:45 · 18 answers · asked by Derrick 1 in Singles & Dating

We are already using "Another One Bites the Dust" for the Garter Toss"

2007-03-21 06:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by atkinajean 2 in Weddings

2007-03-21 06:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cassie M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 06:52:23 · 3 answers · asked by conkerman 1 in Singles & Dating

So are cowboys really as sweet and caring as they seem to be in thier music?;)

2007-03-21 06:51:31 · 2 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 06:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 06:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by hollyb20 4 in Singles & Dating

We used to work 2gether,but i changed departments.So i dnt see him that often,ive noticed him since i always looking at me &his friend..It went on like that 4mnths,i saw him on mnday but he just walked pass me and i looked away when he came closer,but he was on his cell,i stil like him alot but im unsure if he feels the same,move on or let go?Coz its startin to get to me :'(

2007-03-21 06:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

well my gf broke up with me last march after we had been together for about 2 years. . . she started hanging out with this guy i knew from hs the next day and she knew i hated him and she proceeded to mess around with him like a week after we broke up which was really inconsiderate to me. The reason for the breakup was that she wanted to date around and she said she knew we would get back together sometime. Well it has been almost a year now and they have been together ever since(even though only officially for about 6-7 months) but anyways . . i tried to get her back for the first 2 months and it wasnt going anywhere so I went nc in june and i have been ever since. for the first 6 months she would try calling, texting,emailing . .anything to try to get me to talk to her. . even emailed me on our anniversary that said "today was 2 years" . . she would try to contact me on average every 1-3 weeks for 6 months. she even tried to get me to hang out with her . . continued below

2007-03-21 06:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for just over a month. I do not date several men at one time, I have just never had it in me to do that.
I like him, he is funny, smart, educated, good dad and responsible. He has had a hard life. He has lost his faith in many things inlcuding love and marriage. He also has many female friends. (which bugs me sometimes just becuz I feel like he pays more attention to them than me). He does simple, sweet things like pulling the covers over me when I am cold. He used to text message me several times a day, now I dont usually get one a day. It has been a month. He says that he is not looking to date anyone else, but we have no real commitment. I just dont want to get played. I dont want to waste time and emotions if he isnt into us. Do u think it is pretty early for us to be losing steam, or is it just the fact that the excitment doesnt last forever? should i just move on if he isnt willing to make that commitment, or am i asking him too early?

2007-03-21 06:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by daisy31 3 in Singles & Dating

If there is a guy who is very attractive and then goes bald young (27/28) and shaves his head would girls/women still find him very sexy/attractive?

2007-03-21 06:49:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating