I broke up with my boyfriend of a few months and we've been apart for 1 week this last monday. He has walked my friend to class and been paying alot of attention to her for the past few days. I don't understand why my "friend'' (girl not boyfriend) would do that. I don't want him back or anything, but it bothers me that she would be all over him like she is. Is there some kind of mutual respect that she is lacking? Is she trying to make me mad or hurt my feelings? And why would he do that? Is he trying to make me jealous? I am so confused!
2007-03-21 06:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's shitty for her to do that! There is a mutual respect that friends don't do that to each other. And, it sounds like he's doing his best to make you jealous, and it's working!
2007-03-21 07:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by ParisLynn16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you break up a few months ago but be apart for only 1 week. That doesn't make much sense. Anyway, some people (your friend for instance) lacks common sense. She should see that hanging around your ex is making you uncomfortable. Unfortunately those same people tend to be very selfish and think of their own agenda. She may be trying to make you jealous. did both of you have a fight or something?
2007-03-21 14:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your b/f of hardly a few months broke up a week back. I believe, it was you who broke up as your question sounds like that.
Why do you worry, maybe your g/f liked him but didn't express her feelings because he was attached to you. Now, that he is free maybe they both have hooked up. You should be happy that your friend is happy.
If you broke up because of some reason that you feel would harm your friend also, then go right ahead and inform her and leave the decision on her.
As far as your ex is concerned, if you are certain in your mind that he is not the one for you, move ahead in life and don't see and get emotional by his conduct.
2007-03-21 14:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not trying to any of those things, she just wants him and doesn't care if it hurts you.
Guys have an unwritten rule about dating your friends ex, if it's broken they are no longer friends and risk the friendship of the other guys in the group too. Girls don't have that type of rule, they have no problem dating their friends ex.
Get over it and move on, find a new and better friend would help too.
2007-03-21 14:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact the you say she is trying to hurt your feelings might no be so true . It might have to do with the way you talked about him for example if you would always say he would treat you really nice or did special things for you would maybe the cause of her atraction towrds him. and if you truly dont care about the situation just let it be but if not you should talk to ur friend and let her know how u feel good luck
2007-03-21 14:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by rookieonetothenext 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch. hes trying to make you jealous and your friend wants some attention. She is either blind to "girl code" or starving for attention, or shes not really your friend. Your ex is a jerk for puting you in this position and your friend should see that. I would confront your friend and see whats up. You never know, maybe hes asking her how to get back with you. Dont say anything to him...forget that loser.
2007-03-21 14:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by fabulous13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make you jealous and she's obviously dumb enough to fall for it. Your ex probably isn't really interested in her; he just wants to make you green with envy. The problem is your girlfriend THINKS he's really interested in her. I don't think she was secretly hoping you'd break up so she could date him because they'd be a serious item right now if that was the case. Unfortunately, you can't tell your girlfriend that she's being used. She'll have to find out for herself. So do your best to blow them off when they're together and don't talk about your ex around her. She'll find out soon enough...
2007-03-21 14:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were they friends before this happened and maybe he is talking to her about you and his feelings. Maybe since he knows that the 2 of you were friends he could talk to her. Are they kissing huging? if not try not to let it bother you. If so then just confront each one individually and tell them how you feel. your Gf either way should not be talking to him if she knows that the 2 of you just broke up unless they are just friends.
2007-03-21 14:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah.. well.. this one is easy.
While you were dating Mr. Ex.. your friend was coveting him. She wanted him but you had him. Now you don't. She isn't trying to hurt you, but she isn't caring if she does either. She is going after what she wants.
Why would he do that? Well, you broke up with him, he's getting even. Simple as that.
2007-03-21 14:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a good friend AT ALL! He sounds like he is either really liking her or he is a player. Either way be glad he is out of your life! Find a new girlfriend and boyfriend too! (I hate girls like that!)
2007-03-21 14:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋