Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Ok here it is try to stay with me.. Me and my wife have BOTH did hurtful things to each other and recently I have devoted my life to God I know im not perfect and never have claimed to been. Jesus has saved me from my sins. I have told her I was sorry for all the things I have done to her and I have begged for her forgiveness, I have already forgave her for yes mentally abusing me because what kind of person would I be if god has forgiving me and I cant forgive all the things she has done still hurts but I truly have forgave her in my heart. I still love her and want to wok things out but she has such anger inside, to the point that she says she doesn’t love me any more and wants a divorce, I know for some people forgiveness comes in time but she is not even willing to work on it. I never hit her but have done some bad things and said some bad things out of anger to but god is taking over my life and changing me with or without her, I have giving up drinking and started to go to

2007-03-21 06:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by 1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't sean most of that side of the family for 12 plus years, mostly cousins etc. Thought about making up some buisness card size with all my info on it, so if I should get asked.

2007-03-21 06:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Blazin 5 in Weddings

and did NOTHING WRONG! She moved from the Northeast to the South and feels that maybe she made a wrong decision in moving. She has been unlawfully terminated from her jobs!! She has never been fired from a job before EVER! One job fired her because they didn't like her personality..the other one fired her because she got another job, etc...What can I do to help her...she wants to move because it is not working out!!

2007-03-21 06:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by Montana 2 in Friends

should I my friend said it hurts and my other friend said it feels great and they say i'm old enough i'm 18 should?

2007-03-21 06:35:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner really want to get married but weddings are sooo expensive. Our parents won't pay anything - have you got any ideas of a cheap wedding?

2007-03-21 06:35:23 · 24 answers · asked by LauraMarie 5 in Weddings

DD's husband was unfaithful to her, she found out one year ago.
He wants to make his marriage with my DD work, but still sees the OW.
My DD is so fed up, but he claims he still loves her, yet he yaps at her weight problem. *( DD is about 40 lbs. overweight, but I must add, she still is very strinckinly beautiful, with long dark hair)
they have 3 young girls, that are badly affected throught this siutation.l
NOTE: He is not living with them, she won't have him at home as long as he continuises to see the OW.
He claims he wouldn't seee her if she took him back, well, she tried that, and no, he still seen her.
In oreder to get the divorece, DD would have to choke up $5,000.00, which she does'nt have. ( because they own serveral houses....)

2007-03-21 06:35:03 · 9 answers · asked by Mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

NEED HELP..........

2007-03-21 06:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by Kay Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

With my ex boyfriend... when he would ejaculate inside of me there was no irritation, but now whith my current boyfriend, when he ejaculates inside of me i get terrible itching and burrning.... does anyone know what is going on with that? Please i'd like adult answers.

2007-03-21 06:34:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi! Over the past 3 years (we have only been married 4) my husband and I have only had sex about 4 or 5 times and I have initiated all of those encounters. Despite having two kids in the last two years, I am an attractive, smart, and independent person. My husband tells me on a daily basis how unhappy he is and how miserable he is...I am in counseling but he refuses to go. He says everything is my fault...including the sex. For the first two years, he said he had a problem and was going to fix it. However, in the last year, he says that he is sexually attracted to other women--just not me. I asked him if he wants a divorce and he says no. He constantly criticizes me and puts me down but then wants to know why I am in such a bad mood. Just the other night, he laughed at me when I was crying and telling him how I felt and told me I was "crazy>" This has been going on for years and he says it is ALL me. I am seriously considering divorce. What should I do?

2007-03-21 06:34:35 · 38 answers · asked by Wendy G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He never has time for me and on weekends he attends more classes, when we're together he's sleepy and/or tired all the time, never wants to have sex or even make out. I've tried to break up but he always says he loves me a lot and he doesn't want to be without me. For some strange reason all my friends at school always tell me they think he is madly in love with me and I shouldn't treat him like I do. Some even tell me I'm a ***** for treating him like that but they don't see that he completely ignores me the very few seconds we get to spend together. He promised to change a thousand times but he doesn't and I don't want him to change, just want to go separate ways and be calm, what should i do?

2007-03-21 06:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by Mossespa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 06:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

We want to start a filmmaking group but we got two guys who are dominant personalities. I may be shy and quiet but I think I have good ideas. They seem to be in control because they hog up all the time talking and when I try to speak they just talk some more. I can't just yell to be heard so how do I assert myself?

2007-03-21 06:33:10 · 1 answers · asked by Worlds Greatest Armchair Warrior 2 in Friends

My boyfriend wants a 3 some but I'm scared. What should I say to him? I kind of want it but not yet. Has anyone experienced this yet & what advice can you give me. thx

2007-03-21 06:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together 4 years, and it has been mostly great. I think about marriage a lot. But I am someone that needs to move around and be in a place where the outdoors is at my fingertips. She's moved with me twice already. The place I want to move next, I am super excited for, but she has decided she hates it. Neither of us has ever been there; I've based my decision to move there on job market, recreation, and housing cost research. Basically, it's a ski town that hasn't blown up yet, yet also has some urban character and is in the state I want to be in. She says, "let's move anywhere but there." I'm not sure how to respond to her--I've set my mind to going there; I've idealized it to the point where it would cause me great regret to not at least give it a shot. I know I would regret losing her over this, but it's coming close to now or never for us. Neither of us know specifically what we want to do for work--our careers aren't tying us to any particular place. What to do?

2007-03-21 06:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by Drew 1 in Weddings

I know that it is superficial to be turned off by crooked teeth - I'm not perfect either - and I wouldn't stop dating him b/c of it since he has other amazing qualities, but I wanted advice on how I could tactfully broach the subject without hurting his feelings, or if I even can? I know he has always been self-conscious about this, he never smiles in pictures, getting them fixed would improve his self-confidence, and he has the money to do it. I just don't know if I can even say anything since the subject is so sensitive. I know most of you will say he deserves someone better than me for even asking this question, but please try to be kind in your answers.

2007-03-21 06:32:42 · 25 answers · asked by pixiestk 1 in Singles & Dating

me and him broke up 2 weeks ago...we dated 4 1 year..then he wants to break up...so we do...then we end up hooking up 3 times since tha break up...wth? i need to let go of him!!! and i try sooo ahrd. but i love him...and he says he loves me 2 he just dosnt want a serious relationship rite now...what do i do? he's scared of commitment!! i want to let go. this hurts soooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!! p.s.....he still says he loves me and cares about me.... wtf guys plz help....does he love me,and should i move on?

2007-03-21 06:32:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and him would jus play around and watch movies together but when his boys came around everthing was different but listen ever time i got mad at him he would say why you gotta be like that towards me you act like i don't care about you and if he were to say something messed up he would say i'm jus kidden with you and kiss me .........

2007-03-21 06:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by star 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that your significant other did for you?

2007-03-21 06:32:13 · 15 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is what has happened my fiance and me has kept the 4 year old from his mother because she was never there and he didn't look healthy and was always sick when we would pick him up. My question is how does it work if she goes about getting visitation rights. There is no custody between both parents so by law in nc the father had every right to take him without getting in trouble. Now she is trying to get her rights. I am not sure how this is going to work out because she will have all right to take him back and start sueing for child support again which was suspended. The child has been living with us for 10 months now and has not seen his biological mother because of the fact of her taking him. I know we may have to hire a lawyer but I am trying to get the best advise before hiring one. Please help!!!

2007-03-21 06:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jaby 2 in Family

my best friend who was like a brother Richard Edward Taylor od-ed saturaday night and we had to bury him yesterday and even though i helped bury him i can't get over the fact that he is gone so how do you deal with that please any advice would be greatly appreciated

2007-03-21 06:31:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you forgive the guy If he broke your heart to be with another girl yes or no I really wanna know.please give some advice thank you.

2007-03-21 06:30:57 · 43 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Singles & Dating

I am appreciative for the life growing inside me I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or mistakes they have learnt from as far as how a baby changes a marriage. we are newlyweds and we planned to start a family in about 2 years, but our baby girl is 3 months away! we have been married for only 6 months. is there any advice you can give me that will help us keep our marriage fresh and new at least for a year? I know there must be some little tips and things we could do for each other.
thank you for any advice.

2007-03-21 06:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Beluga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is so hard to shop for. He has everything and I am trying to think of everything he likes but all I come up with is sports and video games. I guess i could go that route but I want to make my gift more sentimental but not too sappy. Any ideas of what kinds of gifts guys like receiving? Thanks all!

2007-03-21 06:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Sheryl030 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 06:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by chica 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a month now. We have been friends since Nov. of last year and finally came to the conclusion we would make a better couple than just friends. Anyways, yesterday I was informed that he slept with a close friend like a month "before" we were together. When I asked him was there anything to tell me about this situation he said there was nothing to tell. should I be mad about it, forget it all together since we were not together when this happened, or should i just confront him for not wanting to tell me?

2007-03-21 06:29:53 · 13 answers · asked by Sugpie05 2 in Singles & Dating

This happened to me this guy was going out with me and i gave him what he wanted because i loved him and the day after he broke up with me.

2007-03-21 06:29:44 · 41 answers · asked by *play_girl* 1 in Singles & Dating

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, but i backed out..then she said she was naive 2 think friends would work

2007-03-21 06:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help- My daugher always talks back and tells me to shut up and how i am so annoying and she doesnt want to hear me talk... How do I really punish her so that she wont do it again? shes 16, almost 17... shes constantly on IM and is not talking to the best of kids i know... how do i prevent it? i need SERIOUS mother help! how do i make our relationship stronger/better/un-fightable! Thanks so much! I really appreciate it. =) I would choose a best answer ASAP! =)

2007-03-21 06:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by louierockyjim 2 in Family

2007-03-21 06:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by DeAntre J 1 in Singles & Dating

is it true that girls wear tight clothes and do lot of make up and hairstyle to attract the nonplatonic attention of boys

2007-03-21 06:28:16 · 30 answers · asked by Questions 2 in Singles & Dating