He never has time for me and on weekends he attends more classes, when we're together he's sleepy and/or tired all the time, never wants to have sex or even make out. I've tried to break up but he always says he loves me a lot and he doesn't want to be without me. For some strange reason all my friends at school always tell me they think he is madly in love with me and I shouldn't treat him like I do. Some even tell me I'm a ***** for treating him like that but they don't see that he completely ignores me the very few seconds we get to spend together. He promised to change a thousand times but he doesn't and I don't want him to change, just want to go separate ways and be calm, what should i do?
2007-03-21 06:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by Mossespa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if he still feels the same as he did when you guys began dating. Then you tell you are not sure about still staying together since he does not pay attention to you. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 06:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really need a guy who will show you more attention, you should leave this guy.
However, you should know that if you're the kind of girlfriend who can't be with a guy who has ambitions that take up a lot of his time, you're not likely to ever have a happy or successful relationship. Part of being a good girlfriend is supporting your boyfriend in the things he wants to do and achieve. If he's being really ambitious with his schooling, that must be really important to him, and you should back him up 100%.
That being said, he doesn't have a right to ask you to stay if he spends no time with you whatsoever, so if that's what he's doing, you're entitled to be with someone who will at least make an effort to make you a priority in his life. You can't always be at the top of your boyfriend's list, but you should never be at the bottom of it.
2007-03-21 06:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that if school is his top priorities right now then he should just focus on that. explain to him that in the future if both of you still feel in love with each other then you guys can get back together. if you are met to be things will work out and if he really loves you and cant be without you then when you break up with him he will change and come back for you as a different person. good luck and always remain calm because it makes everything better
2007-03-21 06:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 08:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by turnbough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to realize that he is trying to get an education and learn to build confidence in yourself and maybe start a new hobby so you won't realize how much time you are alone...he is trying to make things better for the both of you and you cannot change someone and if that is what you intend or are trying to do then move on and he can find someone who appreciates him...Sorry for being harsh.
2007-03-21 06:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre being selfish. he is doing good and getting his classes out the way. he is not with another female. he loves you and only you. tell him how you feel and what you want from him. but it seems as someone is giving you the attention you want and need and that is why you dont want him to change but you want to leave.
2007-03-21 06:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on one hand you should support him and his efforts,he seems like he knows what he wants in life.He is going for it full steam.On the other hand,is this his nature,ask his mother.If this is how he has always been,then he will continue even trough work,he sounds like he has a passion for what he does.You have to examine your heart and decide where you want to be.If its just for a short while,get busy yourself.Just always remember,it is not your job to change him.
My guess is that he is very focused on himself,and you are there handy when he feels like it.Don't make yourself so available.GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-21 06:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by christine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO TELL HIM UR FEELIN IGNORED N NOT LOVED. POINT OUT DAT HES ALWAYS TIERD N SLEEPY N ITS WEIRD DAT HE DONT WANNA HAVE SEX MOST GUYS DONT CARE IF DER TIERD THEY STILL WANT SEX SO POINT DAT OUT ALSO WAT CUT HES SEX DRIVE N WEN HE TELLS U AM A CHANGE TELL HIM DAT U'VE HEARD IT BEFORE N NOTHIN HAS CHANGED AND IF HE DOSENT UR GONNA HAVE TO BREAK UP CUZ U CANT STAND IT WEN UR DER WITH HIM BUT HES NOT REALLY DER!! JUST TALK TO HIM... N TELL HIM EXACTLY HOW U FEEL
2007-03-21 06:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by mperez637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know what you really want. maybe hes doing this to better his life and yours
2007-03-21 06:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋