Would you forgive the guy If he broke your heart to be with another girl yes or no I really wanna know.please give some advice thank you.
2007-03-21 06:30:57 · 43 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea and no. its what you think you should do. you should forgive the person but sometimes its really hard and you cant. i have bee nthrough this so many times. sometimes you just have to let go on what happened. yes he broke your heart, but there are so many other guys who can fix that. maybe he wasnt the one. if you really care for him and still want to be friends then yes forgive him. things happen and you cant change that. well good luck on deciding if your going to forgive him or not. its all on you not what the rest of us say. for its your heart
2007-03-29 04:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me too, however time does heal old wounds. Keep yourself really busy. And, whatever you do, don't call this person when they treated you so horribly. There is nothing worse than having your feelings stomped on, but, don't let that person know how much they hurt you. In time,
you will meet the right person deserving of your love. Join a group, take a class, go dancing, meet up with friends and family. Don't jump into a relationship because trust me it won't work out. Focus on you because you're worth it.
All the best.
2007-03-21 06:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt forgive him. I had my heart broken by a man who promised to marry me, and ended up getting married with someone else. I think you should move on, and forget whomever broke your heart, and also get a cure for that broken heart. The only thing you can do, is forget about him, forget that you ever knew him, and try to find someone who really loves you, because that guy, i am not sure he did love you.
2007-03-21 06:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Maria Isabel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is your heart so fragile to be broken by a guy ? I understand your sentiment, but if he does not really love you, it is always better to break the relationship. Human bondage only becomes permanent when love and respect are genuine, mutual and deep. What is more common is a relationship grown out of pseudo-love. I assume you are very young to distinguish and recognise a true love.
Yes, you should not only forgive him, but forget him as well. The sooner the better. Not for him, but for your sake.
2007-03-21 06:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by saudipta c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just forgive and forget theres no sense in holding a grudge it might hurt at first but move on and wish him the best. If it didnt work out out between you guys then it probably wasnt meant to be, dont worry youll find someone who will stick around to love and cherish you
2007-03-21 06:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by shorty_by_nature 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forgive. Just don't forget how you felt when your heart broke. When he breaks up with her and tries to get back with you, are you going to remember that feeling?
2007-03-28 11:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to forgive, do it for yourself. But by no means does this person deserve your friendship. They didn't care about you and you should just move on and cut them from your life. And by forgiving them, it just means you come to a mentality that you are no longer going to dwell on them and you accept the situatuon, it doesn't mean approach them and say "I forgive you." But it could take a while to get to that place, goodluck.
2007-03-21 06:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, It's not going to be easy, but, "Yes," forgive him and think about what he brought into your life and be thankful for that and move on. If you don't, it will just eat you up. Don't mope around, get out there and have fun, do something special for yourself and keep an eye out for that one and only who's looking for you. Best wishes.
2007-03-21 06:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hate lies....
if the heart of a guy is away from you...that means that he has already go....
so you must be happy that your friend tells you the truth and don t lie to you....
the bad think is to be with a player....
so forgive him cause it s difficult continue your life with hate in your heart....
it s realy difficult but if you met another nice person that can makes you happy you can be gratefull of the one that let you!
think positive!
2007-03-21 06:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, because if he really loved you he would have never done it in the first place or he would have come back feeling lyke total S**t on his hands and knees. I know it hurts cause i was in the same predicament but I wouldn't worry about it too much lyfe goes on
2007-03-21 06:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Love Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋