My boyfriend wants a 3 some but I'm scared. What should I say to him? I kind of want it but not yet. Has anyone experienced this yet & what advice can you give me. thx
2007-03-21 06:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mine too!! And I told him exactly how I felt about it. He said okay, I don't think that you are ready for that yet, but truth be known, I kinda wanna try it, but then again I don't. Anyway, we plan to wait or just not do it at all. He could handle it but I couldnt, and then who would we get to be the third wheel, I asked. He said someone that doesn't run their mouth...well, where i'm from, silent people don't come easy!! So, I guess our's is out of the window. But, just be honest about it, it worked for me...hope it works for you!! Until then, be safe!!
2007-03-21 07:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who is "bi" then I can offer some practical advice on the flip side of this. Yes I've had a 3some before (once with a girl and her husband who I'm still friends with) If you're not sure about it then talk to him about what he wants out of it. Most likely he'll just say that it's just a fantasy he wants to fulfill including you. One option is to set certain ground rules about the actual act. (I.E. he can only enter into you, you only interact with him, etc.). There MUST be 100% trust between you two or it can cause immediate or "snowballing" problems for your relationship. If you do go ahead with it, don't feel obligated to go any farther than your own boundaries.
2007-03-21 14:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by angeliz378 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm - all guys want 3somes. If you're not ready for it - tell him. If he's pressuring you into it, then dump him. It's that easy. Yeah, the idea sounds good - sexy, hot...whatever...but if you're still slightly uncomfortable with it, then problems will arise. If you think it sounds good, then go for it, but not until you're completely ready. Be careful about jealousy issues that may come up.
2007-03-21 13:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls are not cool with that. How do you feel in sharing your men to some other girl? If your scared don't do it. If he is not happy with just you then I say move on.
2007-03-21 13:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a threesome before make sure you and your boyfriend are solid BEFORE you do this as it can ruin a relationship with the after effects. If you only kinda want it, it means you also don't want it. Make sure it's something you both want, don't do it to please him.
2007-03-21 14:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by sesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. If you don't want it, then don't do it. If he gives you any crap about it, he's a jerk. Plain and simple.
2007-03-21 13:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋