I have been dating this guy for just over a month. I do not date several men at one time, I have just never had it in me to do that.
I like him, he is funny, smart, educated, good dad and responsible. He has had a hard life. He has lost his faith in many things inlcuding love and marriage. He also has many female friends. (which bugs me sometimes just becuz I feel like he pays more attention to them than me). He does simple, sweet things like pulling the covers over me when I am cold. He used to text message me several times a day, now I dont usually get one a day. It has been a month. He says that he is not looking to date anyone else, but we have no real commitment. I just dont want to get played. I dont want to waste time and emotions if he isnt into us. Do u think it is pretty early for us to be losing steam, or is it just the fact that the excitment doesnt last forever? should i just move on if he isnt willing to make that commitment, or am i asking him too early?
2007-03-21 06:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by daisy31 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we each have a child, so I know that we need to be careful for their sakes too. Thanks!
2007-03-21 06:50:34 · update #1
It doesn't sound as if he has much invested in this relationship at all. If you are looking to make it stronger or clarify the situation you need to have a heart to heart with him. Ask him out to lunch (and no kids!, no cell phones, etc). Explain that you have a good time with him and are interested in creating a stronger relationship with him but you need to know if he feels there is a stronger future there for you both and if he would be willing to commit to something along those lines. It is better to know now rather than later if he is just looking for someone to have a good time with when no one else is around. You can base your decisions on what he says, especially since, as you said, you both have kids to think of. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-21 06:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, yes. it sounds like it's losing steam. asking for a commitment would be too early in my opion. give him some time if he worth the wait. just ignore him for couple of days.
2007-03-21 07:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time is very precious. what i can do today, i do it because tomorrow might be too late. pour your love and emotion to your child. he needs that. you have to pay attention to you AND your child more. you can overcome every hurt if you
dont give up on life.
2007-03-21 06:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask him whats up... if he doesnt give a good answer, move on.
2007-03-21 06:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well baby you need to move on and do me
2007-03-21 06:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by cunchmasterflex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋