Before I slept with a certain guy he chased me like crazy, and then after we slept together many many times ( its was freakin awesome), I am basically the one chasing him now.....Should I not call him for a week or so, and just wait for him to call?
2007-03-21 06:54:59 · 13 answers · asked by fabulous_girl83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him chase you a little until you catch him. Don't wait too long.
Good luck!
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2007-03-21 07:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends...
(1) You want to date him: well the cat's out of the bag, literally. Don't make the mistake some women make and pretend you are seeing someone else. Guys don't like to expend the extra effort if they think that all the work may benefit another guy. Instead, simply be unavailable and when you are around him, charm him, tease him and then have to be somewhere else. After a week or two of you playing hard to get the chase is back on.
(2) You just want more booty: well this one is tougher, here you may actually want to try and make him jealous. Let him know that if you aren't getting it 24/7 you have other places you can find it. When a guy doesn't want to date a girl he is much more likely to play the GAME and you can mess with his head a little more. The result can be really intense sex.. but can also result in some really intense arguing as well.
2007-03-21 07:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you chasing the same guy if you already hooked up?
anyway sometimes you just gotta jump him right off the bat if you throw him the bait but ain't biting and other times you just need the thrill of being chased. but you gotta know hes a little interested before you jump him and you cant let him chase you for too long cause he might get tired
2007-03-21 07:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by KandiGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as I see it, u really have 2 viable choices:
1. play the game, and stop calling, and see if he will call you.
2. talk to him about how you are feeling, and find out how he truly feels about you. Let him know that you are hurt that he hasn't called and you just want to know where he stands.
I go back and forth on this issue, part of me believes that if he is into you, then he would be calling and this wouldn't even be a question.
Then there is the part of me that believes that it is instinctual for a man to go after someone that he has to work for. Survival of the fittest kind of thing.
So, my dear, best of luck to you. Sorry I couldnt be of more help. I do know that if he isn't calling you at all, you should just move on...he has.
2007-03-21 07:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not really that into you (you're not a challenge...he knows what you've got), so why waste your time? There should be no need to chase or be chased. If someone really digs you, they'll spend time with you, not play silly games (nor should you).
2007-03-21 07:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. I consider the hard to get game to be very lame. I don't play that.
But then some guys like it. You'll just have to feel it out.
2007-03-21 07:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never let a guy know how much you want him. Let him chase you then , play with him . Then you should see how much he wants you.
2007-03-21 07:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never run after a guy! guys wouldn't appreciate you if you keep giving it to them so easy! let them work to get it that way they will appreciate because they know they worked for it! it's like money... if you don't work for the money you don't appreciate it cuz you know you would get some more without working for it.... but if you work you're careful with how and how much you spend...
2007-03-21 07:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Wenke_91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alonre.He already got what he wanted and now wants to diss you.Next time be a littlew more reserved about who you give it up to.Im available by the way.
2007-03-21 06:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by rbrennum 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the next call. You keep busy in the meantime.
2007-03-21 06:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋