Why women dump their boyfriends........?

Question

The ultimate sin is being boring. Why? Because the instant
you bore the girl, he or she is onto something else, and you've
lost her.

Keep in mind women love adventure and excitement; intrigue creates attraction. Open any romance novel and you'll find nothing but exciting (to women) event after exciting event.

One reason why many relationships go bad is that the guy who was exciting in the beginning now becomes boring because he stopped doing the things she found exciting. Remember, women view relationships as the ongoing process of attraction, men view them as an end in themselves. If you want to keep the attraction alive, you must keep doing the things she finds exciting.

This is not particularly difficult to do, and really, "variety" is
a better word than "exciting." Constantly changing up the places you go and the things you do is more than enough to keep her from getting bored with you.

Answer 1

I will explain the reason I dumped my most recent ex. First, he was immature and young(just turned 19, meanwhile I'm 24). Second, he started avoiding me. We would always hang out every weekend, and then he stopped calling me about plans, which was fine at first because I was working that weekend and wanted to catch up with my high school classmates at the bar instead(he's too young for bars). But then he started avoiding me and not answering his phone. I started suspecting that he was cheating. During the times that I was technically "still with him" but not out with him, my hot ex was hitting on me and trying to tempt me to do some fun-yet-unfaithful things. Then I went onto my now-ex's Myspace site and found comments on both his site, and on another girl's site, that pretty much proved that he was cheating on me.

I decided to dump him in the most passive-aggressive way possible...Myspace! LOL. I altered my profile to say "single" and wrote all kinds of stuff about my favorite exes' male anatomies on my profile. Then I wrote a sarcastic comment on my now-ex's site, saying "thanks" and to check out his profile. Problem is, he hadn't logged onto Myspace in a few days. Meanwhile, I tried calling him and he had his friends answer the phone, lying and saying that it was a "land line" to a busniess(how f-ing naive did he think I was??). Keep in mind that he played the games with the cell phone BEFORE he read that I'd dumped him.

Then I realized that he was even a bigger jerk than I'd thought earlier, and wondered if perhaps my Myspace comment was too subtle, so I decided to fight fire with fire by writing ANOTHER comment on his site, this time very explicit, taunting, and rubbing in the fact that I hooked up with my hot ex(the one who'd tempted me before) the night before. Well he didn't like this too much, because now he has removed me from his friends list, which was to be expected and/or desired. Oh and then I posted a bulletin about the whole break-up on Myspace so that my 450 friends could read it and laugh at him(I didn't specify any names though). I don't feel like I've done anything wrong, I think it was deserved.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well....of path I felt dangerous approximately dumping anybody. It is determined by the connection as to wether I'd take anybody again or no longer. If the connection simply is not running, not anything goes to difference that, no longer even time. Men can difference, and so can ladies. It's excellent that you just identified that your mood is a drawback and are running on it. It's additionally well to peer that you're seeking to transfer ahead by way of going to university. Right now I endorse that you just keep on with your plan of self advantage and fairly awareness on that. Maybe she'll come again to you....or probably the superb woman for you continues to be available in the market ready. You must have religion that the proper individual for you are going to come alongside, despite the fact that it isn't this specific woman.

Answer 4

I do not agree with you. Not all women want romantic excitement. It is not the mans responsibility to constantly entertain her. To me, that is fairytale mentality and any woman who expects that will find herself disappointed. I prefer staying in rather than going out. A perfect date for me would be to either cook something at home or order in, and watch a dvd while I snuggle on the couch with my date.

The ultimate sin, I think, is a man who feels sorry for himself and takes on a victim mentality. When a mans confidence level drops, unfortunately, most times the woman's interest will drop too.

Answer 5

I don't agree that all woman are like this. A woman can only be bored if she is a boring person and needs external stimulation to think and to feel. These are shallow women who are incapable of having a thought that is all their own.

Believe me, there are women of depth out there that don't expect to be constantly excited and entertained. It may be that they guys are attracted to someone who spends all the hours of their day working on what they are going to wear, how their hair looks, touching up their makeup and making sure their perfectly manicured nails don't get chips. They are Barbies, perfectly incapable of deep thought or any meaningful action.

Guys - if you like the Barbies, be prepared to constantly entertain them and feed their egos. If you don't want someone who is so high maintenance, financially and emotionally, look for someone of emotional and spiritual depth.

Answer 6

i couldn't agree more! you're a very smart man, & i'm sure you'll make some gal very happy some day, if you're not doing it already.

(have you thought about teaching classes on this? lol)

Answer 7

Because he probably cheat on her or hurt her feeling a lot. Or making her do what she doesn't want to do.

Answer 8

Are you giving us advice or asking a question?? Couldn't tell

Answer 9

One reason for breaking up...Pet Peeves.

Answer 10

I suppose you think your gonna get a simple answer.