My ex girlfriend wants to get back together. She is a terrible girlfriend but a cool friend. Every time we talk on the phone she tells me of how she messed up and how she much she wants to be with me. But I only want to be her friend. What should i do?
2007-03-21 07:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you just want to be friends. That you feel that you had your chance together and it just did not work out.
2007-03-21 07:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you guys are just friends and that it will move on from there. You guys might get closer and closer and maybe one day you'll wanna get back together. But until then, you guys are just friends.
But take my advice if you want. I've got no experience. I'm only eleven (going on twelve) and I've never had a boyfriend!
2007-03-21 14:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex (again ex) use to do that to me, and well now we just recently broke up after 6 months and it hurt all over again. We were diffenetly better off being friends. This time around I gained way more feelings for him and now I'm left crushed.
Just stick with you're gutt and be friends.
2007-03-21 14:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with her face to face and tell her how you feel. Tell her how important she is to you and that you don't want to loose the friendship. It might be hard at first but she'll come around if she cares about the friendship and you.
2007-03-21 14:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by InLuv2124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest and do not get her hopes up. Tell her firmly that you appreciate the fact that she recognized her actions were wrong but that you would rather have a friendship with her.
2007-03-21 14:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by MindGawker.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to be honest with her, tell her how you feel so she can stop having hope that yall will get back together. tellin her is better for the both of you
2007-03-21 14:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by KandiGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't want her as a girlfriend. That way, she doesn't think you are leading her on or that there is a chance for reunion.
2007-03-21 14:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that's all you want to be. She may take it hard at first, but one of you will end up getting hurt in the end if you're not honest.
2007-03-21 14:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you really fell about her and if she doesn'tlisten it's her falt not yours just be friends!
2007-03-21 14:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling her consistently, she'll get it sooner or later
2007-03-21 14:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋