This weekend he invited me to a dance concert and one of my guy friends tagged along that he does not like. Later the three of us went dancing and i ended up getting drunk and crying at home for 2 hours. Its not the first time ive been drunk in front of him. He ignored me for two days. Finally when he spoke he said he was trying to be patient and i am nice and he "likes my company". I kept pushing and finally he said that "its not what he thought" and "he is disappointed". After i pushed some more he said to be friends would be better. He ended up moving in about a month ago after his roomate kicked him out. I didnt want him here, it was too soon. I asked him to give me another chance, he didnt really say anything. He wont sleep with me. He said that i wouldnt want to sleep with him if he is just a friend. I want my boyfriend back, the sweet, caring guy. Is it too late? Do you think that if i go home for a week over spring break he will change his mind? He is 34! Im 25..
2007-03-21 07:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry No..are you hearing him? he has made it clear so you need to either stay as it is or tell him to find a place..
2007-03-21 07:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by derverger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being used--and not in the customary ways that young men use women. Men usually use women to get sex. He's using you for a place to crash. Boot his butt out.
If you have to wonder how he's going to react if you go home for a week, he doesn't deserve you OR your apartment. He doesn't want you as a girlfriend. Telling you he's "disappointed" in you is an attempt to control you. Is he your dad? Did he raise you better than that? Come on! You are free, a woman of legal age and entitled to cut loose and have fun once in a while.
He's just not that into you. If you didn't have your own place, he would have cut you out of his life all together.
2007-03-21 07:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by mrvid2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't change a thing. You already showed him what dating you is like, and it's not what he's looking for. Your too young for him and that's how he feels. Best for you both to move on. Oh yes, in the future, if you have a date with a boyfriend, don't bring another guy along. Especially if he doesn't like him.
2007-03-21 07:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a guy friend of yours tag around when your out with your dude and he doesn't like him on top of it! Nothing worse than a cry baby drunk! This guy is NOT trying to get into a serious relationship AND if his roommate kicked him out WHY is that your problem?
Sounds like you got enough problems of your own!
2007-03-21 09:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't want him back if you aren't going to be compatable. You should have him move out and you should move on, it will be for the better, or you will keep disappointing each other and it will only get worse.
2007-03-21 07:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by slustephi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of the guy that he doesn't like. Also, quit drinking so much. That is one of the problems of dating someone 9 years younger.
2007-03-21 07:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by ropman1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to grow up.
2007-03-21 07:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't if he love you then it shuldn't change him
2007-03-21 07:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2007-03-21 07:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋