is my friend being fair?

Question

I came across her xanga accidently because she visited mine. Well the xanga is a big secret. Well the xanga talked about her anorexic lifestyle. She also blogged about how much she hates herself and her life...and she's constantly putting herself down in her entries. The whole things was disturbing for me to see.

i called her and said So I told her what i saw and now she's really mad at me. I was like "i'm really worried, do i need to tell someone?"...and she called me immature and said she really is disliking me right now and doesn't want to talk to me for a while. How is this fair to me? She says the fact that i made a big deal about it is childish. said i was being immature. she's also my ex and now she doesn't want to talk to me ever again.

Answer 1

That is her illness talking...not her. It is very likely that she is scared and confused about what she is doing. Although she may not want help, she needs help. Please talk to someone. It is better that she gets help for a deadly illness. She may be mad for a while, but she will eventually thank you.

Try not to hold it against her either. She is ill.

Good luck. A good website to check out is www.something-fishy.org They have links along the left side for how to help a loved one.

Answer 2

if you care about her you need to tell someone. yeah she'll be super pissed at you. would you rather her be super-pissed or dead? this kinda thing stems from mental illness and has a lot to do with depression and ocd. she needs professional help. tell her parents and hopefully she will accept you guys concern as love and not an attack.