He is punishing me for kissing another man. I no longer speak to this man or have even thought about him(the stranger I kissed).
I was wrong for what I did(drinking is no excuse bit I was), but true love cannot possible punish me like this we were together and engaged.
Our wedding is cancelled and I have to pick up my gown. I am heatbroken. This man means so much to me. This happened in Sept. 06. He said he is still feeling betrayed. How do I just give up on him? Is it his evil Gemini punishing me.
We have seen a couselor (no help)
2007-03-21
07:39:38
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I dont believe in ALL the astrology crap but some of its pretty interesting???
2007-03-21
09:19:56 ·
update #1
Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. Maybe marriage wasn't the best thing for you at this time in your life. As for sun signs - when you grow up you'll realize that these have no baring on how well your relationship goes. You messed up by kissing some stranger. Drinking or no drinking, what were you thinking? Obviously not about your fiance.
2007-03-21 08:16:21
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answered by J F 6
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You really need to watch out for Gemini men, my ex was a Gemini.
Gemini guys don't usually do well in a monogamus relationship because they have a tendency to be very fickle and make sudden irrationial decisions.
The reason he is breaking up with you may actually be more to do with him than it is to do with you or your infidelity.
I was married to my ex for just over 1 year, he came home from work one day and decided he was leaving for some other girl.. this happened out of no where. I think all your ex is doing is using your infidelity as an excuse.
Don't worry about him, just return the dress and give him back the engagement ring (he is legally entitled to it) and find a guy that will love you unconditionally and for who you are.
2007-03-21 14:53:56
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answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6
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I would think by your age you would be mature enough to give up on the zodiac crap! To bad you ruined your plans, I would feel betrayed too!
2007-03-21 14:44:08
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answered by wish I were 6
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Regardless of your signs or ages it is definatly time to move on. This has been going on for serveral months. Quit beating the dead horse and move on with your life. Best wishes to you:)
2007-03-21 14:42:22
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answered by Jewells 5
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He's oversensitve and nuts... I say you're better off without him. This is just a preview of what marriage will be like. Problems happen, people disagree... we can't get so upset over some things.
2007-03-21 14:42:51
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answered by Anonymous
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i am a Gemini also, we hold grudges for a long time, for ever in some cases. he has a right to be mad at you regardless of his sign. if he moved on than so should you.
2007-03-21 15:10:40
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answered by Joey'sGirl<3 3
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Your man was born under the sign of FECES.....move one - he sounds like a real loser.....
Now, seriously, you do know that Astrology is all crap right?...RIGHT?!!
2007-03-21 16:03:39
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answered by Anonymous
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You showed lack of respect for him and your relationship. Respect is essential.
Hope you learned from this. Better luck with the next one.
2007-03-21 14:44:29
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answered by Anonymous
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