Ok, I've decided not to stop the wedding of the man I love, even when I know he feels something for me after 5 years I left the country to study and of having ended our engament, but after that we are still being very good friends, so that's why he invited me to his wedding... now, if he gets married I will not attend to the wedding 'cause in reality the brides deserves all his atention, but that same day I'll leave for good and I'll my country, leave him alone, not even talk to him anymore and focus on my career.... should I?
2007-03-21 07:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by _Miss Sunshine_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know if it's the best... or should I just wait to see what happend....
2007-03-21 07:35:07 · update #1
I don't know if it's the best... or should I just wait to see what happend....
2007-03-21 07:38:56 · update #2
If you think it will cause a rift between him and his bride to be by you attending the wedding, then you should stay out of it. There is no reason to destroy the happiest day of her life. You should mov eon because he did. And you were the one who left the country and ended the engaement, so it's not fair for you to ruin the new life he's made for himself because you have regrets of ending what you two had together. You will find a new man and you will be happy moving on.
2007-03-21 07:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by slustephi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you could stop the wedding anyway?? He moved on with his life when you left the country.
Feelings for you ?As a friend ......maybe.
You're very wise not to attend the wedding and why would you want to anyway? Get on with your life.
Why would you leave the country because of him ? That's a very foolish idea and what about your family and friends?Do they not count for anything? You're being ridiculous in your thoughts.For someone who is supposed to be well educated it sounds as though you're not using your head at all girl.
You have to move on with your life and find someone who cares about you.He certainly doesn't anymore and why should he? You were apart for five yrs. and life goes on.
So yes.........focus on your career and your life and good luck to you.
2007-03-21 14:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt go. If you feel that strongly for him still, then you shouldnt go. Just remember... If you truly care for him, then you will want him to be happy. Let him find happiness and if being with her makes him happy... let him be. Focus on your career and you'll find romance again someday. Good luck
2007-03-21 14:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself...your ex may not feel as much for you as you think he does. Do not stop the wedding and for heaven's sake stop your drama.
2007-03-21 16:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thought that he had a chance to be with you and that you were the one of His dreams - He would never have asked someone else to marry him.
You need to leave this one alone.....
2007-03-21 14:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye Bye now
2007-03-21 14:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously moved on if he's getting married, you should to!
2007-03-21 15:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET YOUR OWN LIFE GIRL. RENT THE MOVIE " MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING"
2007-03-21 14:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by cindy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋