I'm 30 and a woman I tried it all can someone help
2007-03-21 07:37:29 · 20 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i probably can help!!!
2007-03-21 07:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by woody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sick and tired of all these stupid "I'll help you babe" answers!
If you have tried it all, I will avoid the obvious advice.
The best thing I can think of is... does it feel like you need to pee at anytime while you are masturbating or having sex? If so, read the following:
It is a normal feeling for many women (the pee feeling). The lucky women known when and orgasm is coming, but the unlucky women confuse it with the 'pee feeling' and out of fear of wetting themselves they stop, thus keeping themselves from having an orgasm.
Not too long ago women didn't have any places to go and get advice.
Remember, the 'pee feeling' is actually the 'orgasm-feeling'. You may release a bit of fluid, but this isn't pee. More likely than not you will just have a really good orgasm. But you first need to let go, allow the feeling to envelope you.
If you are afraid to do this while having sex, you can try it by yourself in the bath-tub or shower, just so that you will know what will happen and what it feels like. When you are in the shower, their is no need to worry about accidentally peeing.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 05:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by quizzical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy....do you know that many woman can't have orgasms through penetration alone? I hope you've tried rubbing your clit..because that's most likely the way. You can try a vibrating bullet on it or buy this cream that makes the blood rush to your clit and help you orgasm. You need to figure out how to orgasm before anybody else tries, because you know your body best. Then when you figure it out, make sure you tell the person your with exactly what you like and to take their time and have patience.
2007-03-21 14:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first relax if you have tried everything for toys to boys then you need to look into yourself and find the fantasy or the feeling inside that make you feel horny from there you embrace it . if you still having a problem find a good romance naval and read it and when the down an dirty parts come place your self there and move your body fav parts and then you will reach the O you are looking for. then if that dose not work find a man that know what his doing and ask him to work you until you get it. I hope this helps
2007-03-21 14:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor about the new meds out there. I left a message like this for another couple earlier. There is a new drug out there that is similar to Viagra, but it's for women. My guess though, is that you are thinking about it too much. Try having some wine and relaxing. Watch something that gets you hot and then give it a try. Most of the time it is just nervousness and a lack of knowledge or experience. I knew a woman who didn't have her first until she was nearly 40. Turns out she was just too inhibited. She got a little tipsy then we fooled around a little and Whoa!!! It was fun to see. I thought she was going to pass out.
2007-03-21 14:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you've tried it?
check out articles on the net about this topic. some even come with detailed instructions & pictures.
bottomline, achieving orgasm is not about age nor gender. what you need is to have a partner who knows you & is willing to work on this with you. trust can be the issue here...
2007-03-21 14:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by wednesday's child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you mean by "tried it all"?
Depending on your answer I think you might need professional help.
I honestly do not know how to answer because it is all about feeling.
Have you tried doing it with someone you love very much? Do you feel nothing at all?
2007-03-21 14:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by chilanga26lasvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a MAGIC WAND, made by Hitachi. I guarantee you it will get you an orgasm in a hurry. You can buy them on-line for about $40.
2007-03-21 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lady bug im sorry to hear that
just remember u r not the only one with this unique situation
i have been studying this for about a month now
and if u care to chat
and lets discuss email me peterfl999@yahoo.com
2007-03-21 14:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to consult an OB/GYN and have them look at your "parts". You may have a sensativity problem down there, plus you might be trying too hard and tensing up.
2007-03-21 14:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by chad_zortman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to STOP sleeping with WIMP'S and find a real man that knows how to knock the BOTTOM out of that thing.
2007-03-21 14:50:17 · answer #11 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋