I was seeing this guy that I did not know how to call. he would show up now and then during the summer and we had sex. Then he had to leave for about 10 months. He did not call until he got back 10 months later. He says he was shy and did not know how I felt. In conversation I found out he had been in town Thanksgiving and Christmas but did not get in touch with me. The guy was 24 years old. But he tells me know that he loved me and should have been more agressive. Is this bull? I think I was dumped to be used again later.
2007-03-21 08:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its bull. go and find another guy! even if i left and came back on the holidays i would at least call even if i am shy. plus how shy can he be if he showed up at your place durring the summer and you had sex.
2007-03-21 08:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by barbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were a booty call.
And that whole "out of town for 10 months"--was he in jail?
He sounds like a real creep--throw a drink at him the next time you see him out.
2007-03-21 15:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were dumped and used. Get rid of this guy. You can do better. To my knowledge women need more attention than you described. Please...He has no interest in you at all. I would say you are single and free to date and see whom ever you want. It is much more fun to be single and unattached than to stifle yourself to jerks.
2007-03-21 15:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh Yes, You've been dumped. And yes, he will probably will call you if he needs you.
2007-03-21 15:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he only wants you around when he has nothing else to do. If he truely want to see you.. your phone would have rung.
2007-03-21 15:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was shy and did realize what he was missing out on. I say give him one more chance and let him know tha you are giving him one more chance.
2007-03-21 15:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ? and yes he kinda did dump you
2007-03-21 15:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh u were dumped =(
2007-03-21 15:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser dont even talk to him............
find someone better
2007-03-21 15:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋