My bf won't talk to me a lot!!! Is something the matter?
2007-03-21 08:02:04 · 31 answers · asked by ♥miss liss♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him about the reason that he doesn't talk to you...try to discuss with him... maybe he has some problems with his family or a health problem, that he doesn't to share it with you....
And of course then tell him that the matter is serious and you are going ot leave (after a long period of not talking to you), because maybe he found another one or maybe he learned sth bad about you ......
2007-03-21 08:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cle@r Sky 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something is wrong. there might not be any chemistry between you too. To further evaluate the situation , try to talk to him where he is most comfortable (where he is not influenced by anyone) say at his house, a local cafe, restaurant etc. to get an idea of how he feels about you. If he wont open up give him some time then try to talk to him again. If he still wont talk to you, you should just call off the relationship and move on.
2007-03-21 15:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in, he doesn't call you or that he's naturally a quiet person? He may be under alot of pressure at this very moment, work, friends, family, and unfortunately, most men, tend to shut down.
BUT based on my previous experiences, if you have to ask the question to a group of strangers and feel that you can no longer discuss the situation with your boyfriend, perhaps you should take it as a sign to move on? Communication is the ultimate key to a strong relationship.
Good luck!
2007-03-21 15:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by ann c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us is something the matter? You should ask you bf is something wrong with him. And then you also have to take in consideration, how much are you talking to your bf?
2007-03-21 15:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask us, ask him. He's the only one who can tell you if something is wrong.
If he's naturally quiet or shy, then chances are he's not going to do much talking anyway. Maybe he just can't think of anything to say when he's with you because you leave him feeling flustered and shy? Or maybe you did something to annoy him? Or maybe he's hoping that if he ignores you, you'll take the hint and break up with him? You won't know until you ask him. Good luck!
2007-03-21 15:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maby he is really busy, im sure nothing is wrong lots of the ppl are really busy l8tly my bf iss doing the same thing so maby cut the talking short like 2 times a day morning and night and trust me everything will be back to normal
2007-03-21 15:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well was he not talking to you much to began with? If he is being more quiet than normal he could have something on his mind that has nothing to do with you. If he is quiet and has a bad attitude he could be cheating. So either way the only way you'll know is to try to talk to him and ask him what's wrong.
2007-03-21 15:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't talk to u that much anymore. Or maybe he just needed time for himself. Sometimes ur gf/bf can't tell u the situation. Maybe it's hard for them. Or maybe you worked too hard and don't have time to spend time w/him anymore. Or you mostly hangs out with ur friends and less to him and now he feels jealous?
2007-03-21 15:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by May Ann F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not hav a lot of expirience so he feels shy or isn t the talkin kind of guy
talk 2 him if u want 2 mak things work
2007-03-21 15:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by plzanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm guessing you haven't been in many relationships but guys DON'T like to talk alot to their girls. A good book to read would be "the difference between men and guys" it really makes sence.
2007-03-21 15:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by missi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋