There's this guy we were about to date when, his best friend confessed her love for him and then he had to choose between me and her. Well he chose her but we stayed friends. About 2 weeks after they started dating he kissed me, and we've been hooking up ever since. he keeps telling me that they won’t last forever, but he won’t dump her for me. He does like me, and his mom even likes me better…should I drop him now or wait for him?
2007-03-21 07:59:23 · 24 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,tough one bu if I were you I wouldn't allow him to say that I don't deserve all of his attention and he needs more.But if you believe that he will eventually let her and you love him much be patient and wait.....
2007-03-21 08:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Mom likes you ? How does that matter ?
He likes you ... well I am a guy and I like all pretty girls on the surface of this planet. Why did he kiss you ? Why did you let him ? Are you in love with him (serious love) - and ready to spend all your life with him ?
I ask this because you think his mom likes you- which means you are moving towards a commitment. If that is true, read on- if not just dump him.
If it is true that you are ready for a lifetime commitment, then you need to first think. You are about to be committed to a person who is going around with his best friend. What will it take for you to reach that position in his life ? A mate for life has to be your best friend. Even if he stays with you all life - will you be able to become his best friend ? If yes, then go for it - fight it out. Make him forget her - become his best friend. Perhaps this would be a way to know him better and then you would be able to take a more informed decision.
2007-03-21 15:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by con_cer_earned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him, he doesn't love u at all and if he won't break up with her for u then he's not interested in anything except the hooking up part. And even if he did break up with her for u i would just show that he would break up with u for someone else! One of my best friends just went through this and she made the wrong choice and lost her virginity to a guy who doesn't love her! Don't give him the chance to ruin u- get rid of him while u can!
2007-03-21 15:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, its not fair for you because you are the one who is gonna get hurt. I suggest that you dont stick around to find out whether he is gonna leave her for you.
Lets just say that they do break up and he hooks up with you. What makes you think that another woman or even his Best/Galfriend (Ex Galfriend) isnt gonna do the same thing you were doing when they were dating.
Im a firm believer of Karma and it is gonna be waiting to bite you in the a$$.
Good Luck
2007-03-21 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by ask n ye shall recieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not bothered about being second best, wait for him. Do you really want a guy you won't be able to trust after he cheated on his girl with you? This guy is eating his cake and having it, drop him now and find someone single and available.
2007-03-21 15:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, girl move on with your life, its not worth waiting for, he just trying to have his cake and it it too. I know you want more, and he is not ready to give you more. Show him that you are worth more than just one nighters. sometimes you just have to let go, if he comes back later on down the road then it was meant to be. Honestly enjoy your life, don't beat yourself up over a man who with another girl. Life is to sweet and its too many men out there to be focusing on one who is already taken.
2007-03-21 15:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by wanwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this guy is only using you. Ask yourself why he didn't choose you when he could have and that is your answer. They may or may not last but that should not concern you. Forget about him and get on with your life. Drop him!
2007-03-21 15:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dump him because he uses you. You want a person to share only a person, not two women, its wrong. If you really want to keep him then give him two choices, dump her or he will lose you for good. Be tough.
2007-03-21 15:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. The exact same thing happened to me. At first I stuck with him, but then he kept going back to the other girl. It won't work out the way it should (him being with you, not her). /Just drop him and find someone else. It'll all work out.
2007-03-21 15:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea.lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing with both of you.Ever heard the expression.Have your cake and eat it to.That is what he is doing.Having 2 is always better than 1.If it were me I would tell,him to beat it.
2007-03-21 15:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋