Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

i babysitt a 19 month old n a 12 yr old & i spend the nite ova there too!

2007-03-20 05:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, you guys might think it's disgusting or anything... i'm sorry.
he's a teacher & also my sister's ex-classmate.
he's 21. i'm 16.

what should i do??

2007-03-20 05:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by bluey 1 in Singles & Dating

From a high school girl going to graduate

2007-03-20 05:46:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost a year and its been nothing but hell.Before we got married he was good to me.Now he talks to me like a dog.He constantly puts me down.I've tryed counsuling but he lied through the whole thing even though I confronted him about it.He was trying to make me look bad.I'm tired of being mentaly abused daily but I'm 4 mo. pregnant with his baby and we have a 2 year old.I would always let him see his kids but he said he would kill me if I left.Hes been to prison befor and doesnt care if he goes back.I don't know if this is searous enough to go to a womans shelter for protection. I have no idea what to do.I used to love him untill he began treating me this way.I don't know anyone around where I live to go to for advice or help.any segestions

2007-03-20 05:46:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres the thing. Im 16. My friend from a school about 5 minutes away introduced me to a friend of hers from her school. He is 15. We have been talking on AIM everyday for 2 weeks and him, my friend and I all went to the movies and had a great time. We both like each other but we are not ready to date because we dont know each other well enough yet. We plan on waiting for at least another 3 months until we have summer vacation. I am a Christian and he is somewhat of a christian as well. I was talkin to him last night and i said how i was saving myself for marriage. I also said how most guys i know tell me its stupid and he told me its not and that its a good idea. He then told me he was waiting too. My mom likes him but she keeps saying he is younger than me. So my question is even though he is 15 and i am 16, and even though we are in different grades (im supposed to be in tenth but im in eleventh and he is in tenth.)would you go for him? and he is cute too =)

2007-03-20 05:45:53 · 1 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been with someone for a just over a month now. we were 'seeing eachother' for about 2 months before though. and We're been friends for about 6 months, and used to talk every night on the phone for hours.
We get on better than i ever have with anyone. Even my best friend. He's the most amazing person ive ever known. And i know i like him so so much. But ive never had this feeling before. Its strange. I know people say you 'just know' when you're in love. But i dont know f thats the case here. I feel so confused to if i am or not.
How can i tell?
Please help

2007-03-20 05:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he likes me but he doesn't give me any gifts or compliments unless someone else does. But he will give a women a compliemnt who is almost 300lbs. Yet he still flirts with me whats up with that?

2007-03-20 05:44:00 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that hits on me and he's attractive but he's married with kids (he's young though). Why do people do that when they are married? It's stupid.

2007-03-20 05:43:59 · 23 answers · asked by xfallendaysx 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I love her very much and I do not want to leave her. She used email me before and now she talk only phone whenever I call , she talks on phone nicely. I do not understand her behavior. Why she does not email regulary. Thats makes me worried that if she avoids me then she would not get visa. What Should I do?

2007-03-20 05:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by chickoo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you bought a wedding dress online how would you prefer to receive your dress? I mean what type of box do I put it in and where can i get such box (at the lowest price). Do I ship it in the bag it came in? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you. Oh and also, would you rather purchase the crinoline separate or with the dress. And if together, should I ship separatly? Keep in mind the crinoline looks like a sleeping bag all rolled up. The dress has a train but can be bustled up.

2007-03-20 05:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by Rae-Rae 2 in Weddings

My mom said when she was younger, there were boys she just didn't want to talk to anymore for no reason, just like the girl I fell in love with and can't seem to let go. She also said this boy told her how he felt about her and she still didn't want to talk to him. So I'm not going to tell this girl how I feel about her because I it won't work. It's just that today I saw her talking, touching and playing with other boys and even though it don't mean nothing except she likes them in a slightly-more-than-friends but-still-not-boyfriend kind of way, it still gets to me because I'm not one of the boys she's flirting with. I can't get her off my mind. I saw her sneak at least 2 looks in my direction though (and it's one of several times I've caught her on separate occasions). I keep asking myself "She never liked you like you liked her, she told you she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, why don't you just forget her? The answer keeps coming back, "Because I miss her and I love her."

2007-03-20 05:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I am invited to attend an old college friend's wedding reception on an upcoming Saturday afternoon. I have not kept in very good contact with this person since college - maybe seeing this person once per year. The same saturday afternoon, however, I am also invited to join a group of newer friends who are going to a yearly event which I have gone to before and always have had lots of fun. I have been doing things with these friends multiple times during the year for several years. There is no way for me to go to both events, as they are happening during the same time and in different cities. So, which do I choose (1) be loyal to my old friend from college, or (2) have tons of fun with my group of newer friends and just send the old college friend a wedding card?

2007-03-20 05:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by robodale1 2 in Friends

Tatyana Paketowa is a russian lady wanting to come to US on a tempotary work visa. She claims to need $1000 to complete her plans. Does thid sound familular to anyone? I really need to know!!!

2007-03-20 05:41:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i stole my dads credit card number so that i could go to this concert with my friends, but it got out of control and i ordered like band tshirts and cds and all and i think it all added up and cos about $500! now! i never thought it would go this far, i cant believe i did it! . and the bill hasnt come yet, i told my mom about it and she said its not the end of the world and they can pay it but my dad is not like my mom he will get very mad and he might even want to beat me up for this [which i totally understand though!] and i am scared, i feel so guilty and dont know how i can make it up to him, it is going to take me a long time to find a job, and i cant concentrate on my school work anymore these days i keep thinking what i am going to do. i feel very guilty and will never do this again but i dont know how i can fix my mistake!! i can send the stuff back maybe but on some of them it says they is no exchange or refund. i dont know what do do!! ='(

2007-03-20 05:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by yay 1 in Family

My fiance and I are having a hard time trying to figure out what to get his one groomsman. He is 20 years old, goes to college, he doesn't buy much of anything. He is my younger cousin that I haven't seen in 2 years. I tried asking his girlfriend but she doesn't have any ideas, nor does his mother. Any suggestions would be great. Thanks

2007-03-20 05:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i had a big fight with my parents about my future...
my parents are interested in maybe moving away to america but i am not and i have never been...
i would prefer to stay in england in university seeing as i am fully aware of how systems work, i have grown up here and i feel the part here...i like it here! i dont want to move agen. and i know the universities and how they work etc etc
i said that i wud be willing to stay here on my own in my university if they wud like to move to america and i sed that that is wat i want to do.
they started accusing me of being selfish and not caring or loving them just because i said that i want to stay here while they move away.... they said i obviously dont care about them if i am willing to do this.
i disagree and think that just because i want something different to wat they want doesnt mean i dont care. i love them dearly but they now think that because im willing to seperate from them for uni i dont care about them.
whose in the wrong?

2007-03-20 05:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So there is this guy and i really like him but the thing is I am 16 and he is 14!! i mean don't get me wrong he is very mature and he dosen't look 14! But like it feels so wierd having to go and pick him up and drive him around!! What do you think?

2007-03-20 05:41:22 · 11 answers · asked by Kayla_Marie:) 1 in Singles & Dating

A high school girl about to graduate

2007-03-20 05:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the guy i am talkin bout hates it when i don't text or talk to him everyday i'm wondering if i just ignore him or not text for a few days will it draw him closer or farther away

2007-03-20 05:40:48 · 35 answers · asked by MARY M 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex left me and my daughter,its been a terrible time over the years with one thing and other,but life goes on hes provided for my daughter over the years,and hes been around the block!all of a sudden he seems quite intrested in me?(ive been single long time)im so confused,i hate him for wat he did,and i cant forgive but ive got feelings but i dont know wat they are?
any good advise please(no jokes pleaseeeeeeeeee

2007-03-20 05:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 05:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

First, let me just say I love my bf more than anything so the "just leave him" responses aren't necessary. But this issue has come to a point where I am emotionally and even physically tired and worn out. My bf knows I dont like him looking at porn, so about 5 months ago he told me he would stop because it makes me upset. Well, yesterday I found out that he has been looking at it, even paying for it. When I go to confront him, he denied it then eventually said yes but he will stop again. So today, I looked at his email ( i know I shouldnt have but) and he requested those sites to change his info, which shows his intent to still look at it. I am so upset, hurt and worn out over this and he is just going to lie to my face about it. What is so great about porn he has to look at it then lie. Why lie? If he knew he couldnt stop, why not tell me that 5 months ago? Im tired of crying and staying up at night worrying about what else he could be lying about...any advice? Thanks.

2007-03-20 05:39:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf been together for a year now, but it feels like we've jus started goin out together..which is a good thing.. but i don't feel the same way i did when i first led eyes on him..now ever time he calls i don't feel like talkin to him.. he says i'm actin like a *****..is there something wrong with me r him ?..swat should we do to keep the love existing

2007-03-20 05:39:09 · 20 answers · asked by lillymila 1 in Singles & Dating

how was it?
are you still together?
and happy?

2007-03-20 05:38:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My father died on july 21 of 95 i was 6 now i am 17 and i don't remember what it said and now my mom is about to die and i would like to read it so i can remember what it said so please if you have any information of where i can get that at i would greatly appreacheate it

2007-03-20 05:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family

Has anyone been married in Cabo or Jamaica?? How much did you spend on just the wedding part (not including reception)? Which would most likely be more expensive?

2007-03-20 05:38:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-20 05:38:10 · 20 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

Can I get people's opinions on this wording? Any grammer errors or any suggestions are welcome! Thanks!

Together with our parents, we
Sandy Smith
and
John Black
ask you to join us for an intimate
ceremony to celebrate our Love
on Saturday, the eleventh of August
two thousand and seven
at ten-thirty in the morning
Location Name
Address
Town

Luncheon Reception
following the ceremony

2007-03-20 05:38:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i ve noticed that Most of the white guys i ve met prefer African to African American girls. I'm wondering why this is the case.I now realize that it's not the black thing but i don't understand. I ve African friends that i hung out with, all the african girls i know & i ve met are dating & some married to successful white American men.I don't mean to sound like a B but i'm beautiful & lighter in complexion than all my african friends. I do understand that African girls are good, thats why i prefer than as my friends but my do white guys always leave me out. whenever we go out as a group of friends, the white guys after talking to us will always ask for phone numbers of the african girls & leave us the african american girls out. I mean they do talk to us but thats it. they always seem to be more interested in the african girls.some African Americans say, you can bet that whenever you see a white man with a black woman, 90% of the time the woman is african.WHY.i'm attracted to white men

2007-03-20 05:36:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i've agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, and have now backed out..she said she was naive 2 think friends would work

2007-03-20 05:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Other - Family & Relationships