Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

9 months and 3 weeks ago i slept with my friends sister,shes 19 and i'm 17.we wrote it off as a one night stand,then 7 months after we slept together she told me she was pregnant with my child.1 month and 2 weeks later she had a baby girl.her brother who is my best friend knew she was pregnant but never knew who the father was.i have since then asked her out,to be my girlfriend.i have fallen in love with her,hard to believe since i have only ever seen her as my friends sister,never even saw her as a friend.but seeing her with our child,its hard to describe really.but i have fallen for her in a big way.my friend,her brother,is very protective of his sister.how can we tell him that i am the father and that we are also a couple now?

2007-03-20 05:36:18 · 18 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, not the real R-Kelly but someone who acts like him - loves women, how do I beat him at his game

2007-03-20 05:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have meet a alot of women off the net from Booty call sites. Then we talk on the to phone, they talk about sex, fantasies and all the things they want to do when we meet and etc. But when and if we meet up they all shy and timid like a school girl. I try to get it started but they don't won't to do anything..... Guys have this ever happen to you..... Ladies help me out.

2007-03-20 05:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by mferrell850 2 in Singles & Dating

Im goin to flordia for the week over spring break. My GF is worried sick that ill do somethin with another girl to hurt our relationship? How can I prove to her that I can be trusted...

2007-03-20 05:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I are usually really close. We never really fight at all. But lately she has been seeing this guy and she has just started to be a huge b****. I dont really know what to do about it. I have tryed talkein to her about it but when i do she just laughs at me n says she isnt changing at all. But i know she has. Im getting all stressed out and am so confused. Any advice?

2007-03-20 05:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by **~!~**Court**~!~** <3 1 in Friends

2007-03-20 05:35:11 · 32 answers · asked by Elsie 3 in Singles & Dating

how could you trust someone with out knowing them, a boyfriend when you had being plaid at be for, a a friend when they could back stab you or your own family ?

2007-03-20 05:35:00 · 7 answers · asked by Gu3r@ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a young brother. He's in eight grade right now and I really dont think he's going in the right track. He lies about trivial things such as playing on the computer, TV, etc. etc. He's getting C's in his classes. But, he's such a genius as in he has so much potential in fields of science and math...but he just won't try, or listen. I tried talking to him but he doesnt care and always gets really angry. I feel like I am not doing my job as a sister. We used to get along so well but now we are drifting apart. My dad doesnt really pay attention to my brother and my mom tries so hard to create a positive environment and all that. I don't even think he will pass school or whatever. What should I do? Or Am i overreacting....im scared to death. I dont want him to fall into a wrong path and suffer his entire life.. any answers will be appreciated. thank you

2007-03-20 05:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by Beatrice Russo 1 in Family

The problem is it was with his ex, but he has not contacted her since and i found out by chance a few weeks later. We have an 11 month old daughter and i want to forgive him but i am finding it so hard to get the thoughts of the betrayal out of my mind.

2007-03-20 05:33:39 · 107 answers · asked by Miss Fit!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated a guy for about 8 years. He doesn't make me feel good or special anymore. It seems like everything I do for him is never good enough, he sometimes acts appreciative. But he doesn't consider my feelings or thoughts on anything. When we get into an arguement he's ready to leave. Is there anyway to help us out? or anything I can do to help?

2007-03-20 05:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by padros 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 05:32:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with my fiancee, his 11 yr old son, & his mother. Recently I was cooking I left the room briefly to get my clothes to begin ironing. I stayed away a few minutes too long and the chicken began to burn. I run into the kitchen and the chicken is burning. My in law is sitting on the sofa just watching TV. She glance up and says sorry that she didn't realize. There is no real seperation between the kitchen & living room. There is smoke all over. Then she proceeeds to make a joke about how we can have BBQ chicken for dinner. (I was cooking the day before for the next day because of a school function at our child's school). I work full time, come home and cook 2 separate meals - 1 for my fiancee, child, & me and another for my in law because she suffers from high blood pressure. I feel she did this with mal intent. Almost like she enjoyed watching me mess up...like she got off on it. Am I right or blinded by my own emotions?

2007-03-20 05:32:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate to think about what I did to her because I loved her very much. But I was a cheat of a husband and her mother left me because I got someone else pregnant when I was drunk. My wife was an adorable petite fun burnette and I had no right to cheat on her and the women I cheated with is a 6ft heavy set, controlling, & exteremly jealous. When my wife left I ended up marrying her as she was threatening to sue me for child support she was PG with twins and did not want me to ever speak to my daughter let alone my ex-wife. This has been eating me up for over 10 years. I want to contact my daughter and my ex wife and make ammends. What do you think?

2007-03-20 05:32:34 · 45 answers · asked by Mr.N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 05:32:31 · 24 answers · asked by lisa s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 05:32:09 · 1 answers · asked by Lonely Bàstard 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 05:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by zaier z 1 in Singles & Dating

A week ago she kept staring at me but I din't pay attention to that.But now she has stopped.Ive realised that i am interested in her.How do I approach her and get to know her?Ive never even said HI to her.I cant cauz I am afraid my teacher will make a nasty comment considering the fact that i suck at her subject.

2007-03-20 05:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 9 years. We have a 4 year old and a six year old. After the 6 year old, sex diminished after the 4 year old, we have only had sex twice. She expects me to rub her foot or rub her back, but doesn't want to do anything for me. I even had a vasectomy to help things. She says she loves me, but I sometimes think she just says that. What should I do?

2007-03-20 05:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by J Rock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ears and my feet isnt that different??

2007-03-20 05:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by shortdarkandBEAUtiful 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a few months ago and get on really well with her, she has a boyfriend and i have told her i really like her. i thought this might be the end of it but was hoping it wouldnt be. She sent me through an email today out of the blue that said "alooo..x im soooo bored at skl, i would ryte on MySpace but its blocked :( how r ya?? hows ur day goin?? ryte bkkkkkk xxx" im confuesed, what does she want?

2007-03-20 05:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by chaffers231 2 in Singles & Dating

umm..I use vaseline for umm...you know "blush" and when i run out i go to the local pharmancy to buy. there alwasy a female cashier which is embarasing, do females know whats going on? do they know what guys use it for?

2007-03-20 05:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by A J 1 in Singles & Dating

i was deeply in love wid dis guy and we decided to get married when my girlfriend told me dat i should break up wid him..she said that he was flirting wid her..so i decided to believe her..i knew her for more than 4 yrs and i totally trusted her..so i broke up wid him..although he denied it all..but i couldn't believe him.. it's been 2 months since then...he left the country coz he said dat he was disappointed wid wat had happened..he emailed me a couple of days ago..he said that he's still in love wid me and that he wants me back...i'm not over him yet..i still love him but i can't go pass the idea that he cheated on me with my best friend..although she could be lying..what should i do..im really confused..i'd be really grateful for your answers

2007-03-20 05:28:51 · 24 answers · asked by leema 1 in Singles & Dating

If you liked someone would you talk to them alot, stare at them alot...
or would u "try" to talk to them and pretend not to look at them?
Because i am really confused by this one guy who i kinda shy its like he only looks at me if his hair is in his face and he says little things when were around people to try to get my attention and he comes over to my group sometimes and says hi to my freinds but is looking at me.
whats going on?????????????????

2007-03-20 05:28:13 · 2 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Singles & Dating

and they left it at home by mistake, would you look in it?

2007-03-20 05:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, and we went on a sudo-date. and then we went skating with our families, (i am 16, he is 18) how do i let him know that i really like him, without being over the top?

2007-03-20 05:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Singles & Dating

ok you know the story about the world's youngest mother and how she was like 5 years old when she had her son, well... who was the father? was it her dad or what?

2007-03-20 05:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i dated this guy for 4 months. and we were really close friends and still r. we broke up and he got another gf immediately after our relationship failed. anyways his and the other girls relationship didnt work out either...for a while we were talking about getting back together. i still have really strong feelings for him. he has now started saying that he doesnt want a relationship right now cuz its too stressing and he wants to meet other people and stuff. and i said ok cuz he did this b4 and he ended up coming back to me but now he says he doesnt want a relationship till hes out of college. and he says he doesnt know if we have another chance or not. i dont know if i should just move on and forget him or not . my dreams usually come true and i had a dream that i was gonna be getting married to someone and hes gonna object and we r gonna end up getting married is this my sign as to whether or not i should move on?

2007-03-20 05:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by wayy2hott4ublonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I have only a history class with him...
I never really talked him...
I want to tell him but how?

2007-03-20 05:25:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idkk just wonderingg.. they seem to at my school

2007-03-20 05:25:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My great-grandmother was admitted to the hospital Mon. morning. We have just recently discovered that she has congestive heart failure. She is 96 years old. My family is all located in Michigan, I live in Georgia, it is a 13 hr. drive. I want to be there to say goodbye. My family is concerned with the unexpected cost of me coming up there and are trying not to worry me. They're all taking this hard and I wish so bad I could be there with them. I do not work but my husband does and we only have one car, I can't afford to fly. My husband is leaving his job soon for another, the Navy. The doctor offered to send my great-grandmother home with a diuretic, but she keeps falling and my grandparents cannot lift her. After learning this the doctor said well than let's keep her here and take it one day at a time. They're doing an ultrasound today to see how serious the condition is. They do know she has fluid in her lungs. Should I rush to MI or wait here in GA? What would you do?

2007-03-20 05:24:25 · 21 answers · asked by seriously2sweet4u 2 in Family