Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

My boyfriend Pat asked me on Friday to marry him like a jokein kind of way. I just got my class ring and all in the little black case you know and he came down and he got on one knee and purposed to me. I love him. But is this real? I said no lol but i realy want to. I'm always with him. I always hang on him and kiss him. he always stays ver but what happens when he goes to college in the fall? Will i still love him?

2007-03-20 05:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i've agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, and have now backed out..she said she was naive 2 think friends would work

2007-03-20 05:59:00 · 15 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Singles & Dating

he was once married to Patrica Ann Johnston in 1972 they lived on rt.4 marshall mo.

2007-03-20 05:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by rita_g_r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY EX AND I SEPERATED A YEAR AND A HALF AGO AND WE HAVE 3 SMALL CHILDREN.WE NEVER WENT TO COURT TO SETTLE ANYTHING BUT HAD VERBAL AGREEMENTS ON THINGS FROM FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY TO VISITATION. ONE OF THE REASON WE SEPERATED WAS HER TOTAL LACK OF RESPONSIBILITY AND SHE WAS KNOWN TO DO SHADY THINGS(EX.OPENED A CREDIT LINE USING MY FATHERS INFO AND NOT PAYING)SHE ALSO WAS HOSPITALIZED FOR A TRYING TO COMMIT SUICIDE DURING OUR TIME TOGETHER.THESE IS JUST THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG WITH HER.SHE SEEMED TO BE ON THE RIGHT PATH WITH HER LIFE AND WAS GETTING COUSELING AFTER WE SEPERATED.SHE ASKED FOR THE KIDS AND I DIDNT PUT UP A FIGHT.(REALLY REGRET IT NOW) SHE SEEMS TO BE UP TO THE SAME THINGS NOW AND ACTUALLY IS SPREADING RUMORS ABOUT ME BEING A DEADBEAT AND SHES ALL ALONE IN TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS.THATS REALLY ALL A LIE.I RECENTLY FOUND OUT FROM MY OLDEST SON THAT SHE LEAVES THEM AT THERE GRANDMOTHERS FORM SUNDAY TIL THURSDAY AND PICKS THEM UP FOR THE WEEKEND.I WANT CUSTODY,CAN SOMEONE HELP

2007-03-20 05:58:41 · 19 answers · asked by chi_latin_daddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Her name as I new her was Carrie Kasselman ,she could be married now. She lived in Cincinnatti, Ohio I would really like to talk with her again Last time I saw we were in school together and I had to move away.Now its been years

2007-03-20 05:58:39 · 3 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Friends

2007-03-20 05:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met someone the other day - completely out of the blue - not at all planned. We spoke for about 3 hours, and at the end of the conversation, he initiated the email exchange. Which was great - he even noted down his last name, which seems like a good sign.

Now, living in the world we live in, with all the crazy crazies out there, I decided I should check him out on MySpace - just in case he's a crazy stalker guy who likes 12 year olds, or something. He wasn't on there by his name. So I decided to type in his email address to see if he was listed that way. And to my utter dismay, I actually hit send - as in to send a MySpace invite to some guy I just met.

Now who's the crazy stalker? (that'd be me, in case you were wondering.)

My question is - do i really have anything to fear- do i still have a chance? Am i making too big of a deal out of this?

2007-03-20 05:56:58 · 13 answers · asked by MSTiePup 2 in Singles & Dating

in year 7 i had a best mate but a girl began to take her away in to the popular group when we were there already so now im older im shoved out of the group and with the geekish people.
i still talk to my x best mate but i miss being her best m8. plz help x

2007-03-20 05:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs E Cullen 2 in Friends

2007-03-20 05:56:45 · 21 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 05:56:10 · 4 answers · asked by Thanh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a guy for 5 years. He is the love of my life. I just found, he has been seeing someone else longer then me, had a baby with her and just married her. He claims he married her because of the baby, wants to set an example of “at least I tried to make it work.” He claims he is so in love with me and that he didnt want to do it but he had to for his baby’s sake. He is currently on his honeymoon and is calling me non-stop saying how much he loves me and cant wait to come home. Im truly in love with this man, I know what I have to do but I don’t want to because of how much I love him.. Any advice?

2007-03-20 05:55:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has just told me she is on aint depressents n is really unhappy. Recently shes hardly been talking to me and she rarely says she loves me nemore. Is it my fault shes sad? What should i do? Is are relationship coming to an end?

2007-03-20 05:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by Superman2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the thing. Im 16. My friend from a school about 5 minutes away introduced me to a friend of hers from her school. He is 15. We have been talking on AIM everyday for 2 weeks and him, my friend and I all went to the movies and had a great time. We both like each other but we are not ready to date because we dont know each other well enough yet. We plan on waiting for at least another 3 months until we have summer vacation. I am a Christian and he is somewhat of a christian as well. I was talkin to him last night and i said how i was saving myself for marriage. I also said how most guys i know tell me its stupid and he told me its not and that its a good idea. He then told me he was waiting too. My mom likes him but she keeps saying he is younger than me. So my question is even though he is 15 and i am 16, and even though we are in different grades (im supposed to be in tenth but im in eleventh and he is in tenth.)would you go for him? and he is cute too =)

2007-03-20 05:55:42 · 15 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3 in Singles & Dating

do guys like straight'nd hair or naturaly wavey

2007-03-20 05:55:32 · 15 answers · asked by 2 a'da da dorable' 4 u 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it me? Maybe I'm boring? Or maybe he just doesn't like talking with me.. The reason I'm asking is because when he's with his pals, he's always talking and laughing.. But then when he’s with me, he’s just too quiet.. Ever just have the feeling that someone is not feeling comfortable with you? It’s sort of like that.. I've known him for almost two years now, so it’s not like I just met him, and he’s shy for example..

Any tips on how to make my conversations more interesting, funny etc? (One might say, HE should be the one showing more appreciation to what you have to say, rather than me trying to change myself) so I just don’t know..

I DO know that it's really bringing me down.. I'm not even sure how I should tell him about this..

2007-03-20 05:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this girl and yea she calls me over to study with her on weekends even tho there may be nothing to study really. Is this a good sign? I gave her flowers on vday and she has been acting normal around me even after i did that. Does she like me? If so, should i act or should i wait things out (its been almost two months since ive met her? If i should act, what should i do, should i just ask her if she likes me?

2007-03-20 05:54:42 · 3 answers · asked by Some B 2 in Singles & Dating

Now this is where I need some serious advice. Im in this group home for now so I can get my ghigh school diploma right. Well I been in here for 6 months goin on seven and I have these so called friends that I wrote hella letters too n barely got anyback. Is it me or is the so called friends who said they got my back jus forgot bout me cuz im locked up? When u in the situation that im here the one thing u depend on is a real friend to trust! Well I feel like I aint got one. N I hate hearing that I been busy or I forgot. That’s bullshit. A real friend doesn’t forget bout u.. basically it shouldn’t come to this. Im jus lookin for a real friend to have a koo relationship with. I shouldn’t have to come on net for that but I go through a lot of shie n talking to someone bout it helps if ya know what I mean. A real friend would make my life a lot easier in this program

2007-03-20 05:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by MAC ROY 1 in Friends

knowing that their values wouldn't let you otherwise.

2007-03-20 05:54:18 · 23 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been through so much this year and I thought it was supposed to be new year new start? My friend killed himself by slitting his wrists, my other friend died from a heart attack, my mum keeps having a go at me for nothing and other things, too many to mention. I feel there is nothing to live for any more and just want to end it all. I have hardly any friends anyway. I've tried talking to people but it's no use.

2007-03-20 05:53:20 · 36 answers · asked by sxcsam92 2 in Friends

i got bacy with my ex but i have move on but my new boyfriend is younger than me and it feels like i dating kids. my ex is older but he won't wait for me. see i'm not having sex. so should i go with my ex and work it out or stay wit my new boyfriend who respect my decision??

2007-03-20 05:52:43 · 17 answers · asked by Baby K 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, and we went on a sudo-date. and then we went skating with our families, (i am 16, he is 18) how do i let him know that i really like him, without being over the top?
we have been like hanging out like 3 times a week for like 5 weeks now. we know a lot about eachother........ a lot.
we are like friends, but i dont know if he "likes" me?
we are both saving sex for marriage, so there are no worries of the age thing, as him being an "adult" and i a "child".
i just dont want to push him away.
any ideas? if you were him, what would you ant me to do....... what should i do...............

2007-03-20 05:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband is constantly inviting his family to accompany us when we go somewhere. it doesnt bother me that they go, but what does bother me is that they expect him to pay for everything they want. How do I get him to stop paying? Like I said before, it doesnt bother me that they go. His family is his family and always will be, but I dont want them taking advantage.....

2007-03-20 05:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondering if any ladies have gotten it one more time from someone other then who you were going to marry on your wedding day or the night before.

2007-03-20 05:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2 in Weddings

If im trying to hit on them, what are good things 2 say 2 them? like ex. I go up 2 a girl i dont know, but then i wouldnt know what to say

2007-03-20 05:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by hispanicpower123 1 in Singles & Dating

What do I do my man is cheating on me and he currently cheated on me with my cousin when I was haven his baby and my other cousin told me about it and I asked them and they told me no, but 2 weeks later I caught them but I`m still with him so somebody tell me am I playing the fool because he`s still cheating so Ladies please tell me what 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-20 05:49:41 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved to chicago almost 10 months ago and i work full time. living in suburbs. I am getting bored out my mind because i left 100 friends at school and i am 1000 miles away and i dont know anyone here. I would want to go live in the city but its expensive right now and i am staying at my parents house right now. !!

2007-03-20 05:48:33 · 13 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family

I'm a really out-going girl with my friends but shy around blokes that i like. I'm at uni and I met this guy whilst he was working at the bar we were out at. I thought we were flirting quite a lot but I was a bit drunk. I kept seeing him around the student bar after that but was too shy to go up and say any thing. Then one night last week, my friends kept egging me on to go speak to him but he soon left . But then we all went out to the uni rocknight and he was there. I finally got the guts up to go and talk to him and we were talking for the rest of the night, although I couldn't really tell if he liked me - there were bits that were definately flirty tho. I added him on myspace but couldn't think of what to message him. Then a few nights later me and my mates ended up back at the bar that he works for and i was a bit of a drunken fool (tho I had fun). I waited a few days then messaged him on myspace in response to a bulletin, but no reply and bulletin gone today. Whats that about?

2007-03-20 05:48:31 · 9 answers · asked by Katie M 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems each time I am to begin to start a new relationship the other person is prevented from getting in touch with me. Am I doomed ?

2007-03-20 05:48:24 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Bo 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is going to be 16th on the 26. Any Ideas that I can do to surprise her, I was thinking of making a big poster and put it outside my office I work in front of the school. One of my friends in here is having her b-day the same day but she is going to be 59 any ideas for her.

2007-03-20 05:47:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-20 05:47:39 · 44 answers · asked by lau 1 in Singles & Dating