i really like this guy, and we went on a sudo-date. and then we went skating with our families, (i am 16, he is 18) how do i let him know that i really like him, without being over the top?
we have been like hanging out like 3 times a week for like 5 weeks now. we know a lot about eachother........ a lot.
we are like friends, but i dont know if he "likes" me?
we are both saving sex for marriage, so there are no worries of the age thing, as him being an "adult" and i a "child".
i just dont want to push him away.
any ideas? if you were him, what would you ant me to do....... what should i do...............
2007-03-20 05:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both saving sex for marriage, as christians. the idea is not what can i do, and not call it sex, it is what can i save for my spouse when i am married.
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2007-03-20 06:00:09 · update #1
As a guy who notoriously doesn't get "hints", I say, do something obvious.
2007-03-20 05:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would have to think he likes you. I personally would not hang out with a girl three times a week for five weeks unless I was interested in them. He may be wondering if you are interested in him as well. He may be nervous about making the first move. Next time you see him, give him a short kiss on the lips before you leave. This will let him know what you are thinking.
Most importantly, BE YOURSELF. He is interested in you for who you are, not what you think he wants you to be.
2007-03-20 05:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both young so if I were you I wouldnt tell him anything. Some guys would just jet and others would take advantage of the situation. However if you snagged a good one then he'll be sweet about it. Give it at least a couple more months before you say anything.
2007-03-20 05:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested and is serious about him, just tell him. It might be hard to tell the guy you care about how you feel. At least you're being honest to him and if he feels the same way, get ready to start a relationship!
2007-03-20 05:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by delrizo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your already doing what you need to do. Your spending time with him and that is the most important thing. I would venture to say he already likes you, if he didn't, he wouldn't agree to spend so much time with you.
A lot of guys aren't good with expressing their feelings in words, but they will show you with their actions. If he likes hanging with you and doing things with you, it's a pretty solid sign that he likes you.
2007-03-20 05:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue the relationship if you want and he will delve deeply into your soul for reassurance that he is truly yours.
At 16 you may be too young for real sex, but you can push the enevelope by oral and hands on feelings. If you engage in pentrating sex, he can be charged as a sexual predator and ruined for the rest of his life.
2007-03-20 05:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you think he is awsome and really want to get to know him better. Say we don't have to date exclusively but it would be nice to see each other more. Ask him what he thinks of that. Ask him if he would like to get to know you better. Touch him with your hands. Smile big. Wink. Look him straight in his eyes. Rub his shoulders, his legs, his chest.
2007-03-20 06:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things carry on the way they are. You are obviously not in a rush for at least two years.
2007-03-20 05:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act really flirty around him... and at the most random moment when ur standing next to him... just take his hand into yours and hold it. If he flinches or moves away, u have ur answer, however, if he continues to hold ur hand or moves closer, u kno h likes u
2007-03-20 05:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Some B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Pseudo"-date
LIKE hanging out
LIKE 5 weeks
LIKE friends
what would you ANT me do?
Maybe, and this is just a reaction to reading that message, maybe just comcentrate more on school and leave the dating to those who may be a bit more mature; or perhaps those with a greater grasp on language skills...
2007-03-20 06:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋