2007-03-20 05:56:45 · 21 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I am not tempted, I am divorced, just wondering how many would
2007-03-20 06:03:15 · update #1
Let me rephrase your question to confirm comprehension. You are asking, "Would you date a liar?" What are the chances of that relationship working out when dishonesty is a factor?
2007-03-20 06:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Undisputed Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, people can tell you yes or no all they want. Here is my theory on this. If you been knew a person and had no idea they were married, or even if you knew a person for a minute, loved this person then they got married, its not right but the heart is a tricky thing to play with. You cant deceive your heart or make decisions for your heart. Your situation depends on how you knew this person, how long you knew this person, did you know them before they were married or found out they were married after you developed feelings for this person. All this determines a successful answer
2007-03-20 13:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Its only me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
If she couldn't be honest with me about the most important things, like that, then I don't know how you'd know what you can trust them with.
Plus, I don't want my door being kicked in by an enraged husband when he finds out.
Or worse...having the whole thing landed on me - my best mate was dating a married lady for a while - and when it flopped, she went home to her husband and told him my friend, CM, had been stalking her and harrasing her - so CM got a nasty visit he doesn't want again!
Not worth the hassle...if someone is married, then to me, they're out of the playing field.
2007-03-20 20:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bert from Oz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god no!! That is just asking for more trouble than it's worth. Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ever think of the other person you could destroy? (The wife or husband who is married to that person)What about the kids? Stay away. If they are that miserable in there marriage then that person should get a divorce.
2007-03-20 13:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by terri2003anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! There are usually little white lies in every relationship- but this is simply dreadful. This is intentionally misleading and not just someone trying to seem smarter or nicer than they are. If they aren't bothered by cheating on their spouse, they certainly aren't going to treat you well. And no, they aren't different than anyone else you have ever met. You have to respect someone to love them, and I can guarantee that you will not be left respecting them.
2007-03-20 13:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, pesonally I will not go into that relationship based on my Religious upbring. first they lied, secondly it is obvious its not going to work out, because the foundation of the whole affiar is being or working on the first foundation of lie. in a nearby future, it is going to burst out and split like vomits. just tell yourself the honest trust and stay kool, dont make a second term mistake.
2007-03-20 13:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Child of God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not. he is lying to you right off the bat... and the fact that you know that makes you look dumb. why would you put youself in a relationship with a liar... not to mention a cheater as well. if hes lying to you about not having a wife, then he is lying to not only his wife but probaly other girls as well.
find a real man that isn't going to lie and cheat.
2007-03-20 13:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they lied to you about being married, what else might they lie to you about?
Personally, I wouldn't date them.
The decision is yours to make, but I would seriously consider if I wanted a relationship that started on a lie.
2007-03-20 13:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because your setting yourself up for heartache. Believe me being in love with a married man, is not fun. You always come second, and he'll never leave her for you, no matter how much he says he's going to and how much you wish and pray he does. Please don't do that to yourself. It's not worth it, believe me i know, i'm speaking from experience, and i know friends who have gone through this also.
2007-03-20 13:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by sweetstlouis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no I wouldn't . You just don't date a married person especially if they are still with there spouse, if they will cheat on them they would cheat on you and by lying to you that's not good either.
2007-03-20 13:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Angelina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋