I met someone the other day - completely out of the blue - not at all planned. We spoke for about 3 hours, and at the end of the conversation, he initiated the email exchange. Which was great - he even noted down his last name, which seems like a good sign.
Now, living in the world we live in, with all the crazy crazies out there, I decided I should check him out on MySpace - just in case he's a crazy stalker guy who likes 12 year olds, or something. He wasn't on there by his name. So I decided to type in his email address to see if he was listed that way. And to my utter dismay, I actually hit send - as in to send a MySpace invite to some guy I just met.
Now who's the crazy stalker? (that'd be me, in case you were wondering.)
My question is - do i really have anything to fear- do i still have a chance? Am i making too big of a deal out of this?
2007-03-20 05:56:58 · 13 answers · asked by MSTiePup 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As for scaring people - yeah, i tend to think of that as part of my charm. I just needed some reassurance of my own self worth...sometimes you just need to hear it from a random select few...Thanks!
2007-03-20 06:08:14 · update #1
You are making waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too big a deal out of this. He gave you his info, so he had to know there was the chance you'd check him out online.
No sweat.
2007-03-20 06:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, really i reckon you have nothing to worry about. I mean even if he asks you "why the **** did you send me a myspace invite?" you just say you did it by accident. I had a case like this once, i typed in my girlfriends mail adress to send a mail forgot about it and thought i was typing to someone else and my girlfriend was like " What the hell?". So i suggest that you don't mention it if he doesn't but if he does say it was an accident.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 13:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Reddevil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making a big deal out of nothing.
If he asks, just say that you like MySpace and were wondering if he had a page. And if not, did he ever think of getting one?
Or you could tell him the truth. Laugh about it. Say, "OMG I'm such a ditz! I was trying to see if you were on MySpace and I accidentally invited you."
2007-03-20 13:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given an explanation of what happened any honest man would think you were pretty smart to be protecting yourself. However, am concerned that you spoke with a virtual stranger for three hours and are concerned that he might think you are smart enough to protect yourself. If you feel that might endanger the potential relationship. Rethink what you call a relationship and rethink your personal value.
2007-03-20 13:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervious about this. you shouldn't be scared. If he is worth anything then he won't think thats creepy. You can just casually say that you just wanted to add him on myspace it isn't creepy at all people add random people all the time. don't worry too much about it. If he is as nice as you claim him to be then her won't care
2007-03-20 13:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by ursolastsummer! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i think you're just over reacting. I wouldn't think anything of it if someone sent me their website, unless it was nudey pictures, b/c i have a website and it's like a bragging page. Just play it off and tell him that you wanted him to see your page and give his opinion. No biggie. At least you didn't post 50 million comments on his page.
2007-03-20 13:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Jo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You making too much out of it. You never know - he may turn out to be a great friend.
2007-03-20 13:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, its not worth it. as the first answerer said "mountains out of molehills"
2007-03-20 13:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well watch your step as you maintain your friendship try going out in group dates as it will help you to understand him more
2007-03-20 13:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you have nothing to fear. its ok, people get those invite things all the time
2007-03-20 13:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋