Is it me? Maybe I'm boring? Or maybe he just doesn't like talking with me.. The reason I'm asking is because when he's with his pals, he's always talking and laughing.. But then when he’s with me, he’s just too quiet.. Ever just have the feeling that someone is not feeling comfortable with you? It’s sort of like that.. I've known him for almost two years now, so it’s not like I just met him, and he’s shy for example..
Any tips on how to make my conversations more interesting, funny etc? (One might say, HE should be the one showing more appreciation to what you have to say, rather than me trying to change myself) so I just don’t know..
I DO know that it's really bringing me down.. I'm not even sure how I should tell him about this..
2007-03-20 05:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I should have been clear.. This guy is my BF actually.. Umm.. So now do you know why I feel like he's being weird?
2007-03-20 06:04:25 · update #1
Is any difference from beggining and now. If it is than maybe she isnt interested in you like he was. If it isnt than you and him dont belong together. Maybe too much differences.
>>One might say, HE should be the one showing more appreciation to what you have to say, rather than me trying to change myself
Oh, yeah! That is that.
2007-03-20 06:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just to comfortable around you to think that he has to do anything to keep the relationship going .When he acts like that walk away,don't say anything, just leave.If he doesn't notice you not paying attention to him, then tell him your going to find something to do because your bored.Then go find something to do without him.Make sure that it is something you enjoy doing!There is no reason to be miserable.I know this isn't the sort of answer you were looking for but if he doesn't love you enough to listen then you should find other ways to find fulfillment.
2007-03-20 06:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Robert C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him why he doesn't like to talk to you and that makes you feel when he doesn't open up. If he's shy, then he will
explain that to you. If he's not he may not be interested in you. Then you should find someone who you can talk to.
2007-03-20 06:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is problem
stay away from him and you will see, he will be wondering why is not talking to me any more and them he will pressure to talk to you and that's gona be the time you will have power over him.
2007-03-20 06:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he's shy, thats probably why. ask him questions about yourself or tell him about your day and ask how his day is
2007-03-20 05:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh he
s just a friend dont take it all serious
2007-03-20 06:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋