My girlfriend has just told me she is on aint depressents n is really unhappy. Recently shes hardly been talking to me and she rarely says she loves me nemore. Is it my fault shes sad? What should i do? Is are relationship coming to an end?
2007-03-20 05:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by Superman2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She has a recognised medical condition. You must be sympathetic and helpful. She is depressive, and needs help and support.
2007-03-20 05:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is some underlying factor that is to do with you that you havent mentioned, then dont think its your fault. What you can do is be supportive. For her to be on anti-depressants it must be something pretty serious. You should try talking to her... dont pressure her .. wait for her to be comfortable enough to open up to you but you have to be patient and be willing to listen. If you are sincere, show her, let her know she can trust you and that you want to find a way to help her. And most importantly educate yourself on the condition or whatever the problem it is that she has. If you have knowledge you maybe able to help her alot more. Communication is the key, alot of people think its over rated, but you'd be amazed. Good Luck!!
2007-03-20 13:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by chiccigyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault. Depression is a medical condition. Give her some time - time for the medicine to start working. It's going to be a long, bumpy ride. Stay in the relationship only until you begin to suffer mentally. You have to take care of yourself before you can be there for someone else.
2007-03-20 13:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start its not your fault, there could be any number of issues going through her head at the min, maybe something else thats on her mind that she is not telling you, for what ever reason.
Try be supportive loving, taking the blame is not going to solve anything. She probably needs time
2007-03-20 13:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it's your fault unless you harmed her physically.
If she is sad and mad at you for a number of reasons, talk to her, and if the situation gets more complicated I would prepare yourself for a break up.
I'm really sorry to hear that your girlfriend isn't happy anymore, just keep on wishing though that everything will be just fine.
Kristine
2007-03-20 13:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you men have to realize that the world doesnt revovle around you,i dont mean that horrible,depression comes in lots of forms and most of the time there isnt an exact reason,just be there for her and give her space if she needs it,its going to be tuff but if you try to talk to her then im sure things will work out in the end.good luck
2007-03-20 13:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by lainaloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is caused by many things. Your girlfriend needs your love and support - I know how difficult it is. Please don't take her mood personally. Read up about her condition so that you can better help her. Encourage her to talk about her feelings - to a professional if necessary. Imagine how she is feeling - depression really isn't pleasant so don't make her feel worse by thinking it is all about you. She will get better - but she needs help to achieve that goal.
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2007-03-20 13:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dee Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not your fault she is depressed. That is a mental illness that thousands of people have. If she is not getting any better encourage her to go back to the Dr. and maybe he can change her anti-depressants.
2007-03-20 13:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Vergie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not your fault, many things can trigger depression, just tell her your there for her if she ever needs you, if she doesn't improve with the anti depressants that's she's on maybe she should go to her docs to try to get a dose that suits her better
2007-03-20 13:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship is definitely not coming to an end and it is not your fault.Find the right moment to sit down with her and ask her how you can help.There are also some really good websites that you can check out
2007-03-20 14:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋