I have meet a alot of women off the net from Booty call sites. Then we talk on the to phone, they talk about sex, fantasies and all the things they want to do when we meet and etc. But when and if we meet up they all shy and timid like a school girl. I try to get it started but they don't won't to do anything..... Guys have this ever happen to you..... Ladies help me out.
2007-03-20 05:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by mferrell850 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a few ideas. well i have done this in the past. it could be a) shes being a tease and leading you into something and then not doing anything/pushing u back because shes playing games with u and wants something from you, b) shes really just shy and timid and scared because of lack of experience or some reason shedoesnt want to, but a girl can talk on and on forvere and a day but if she doestn actually do it, u see where her true feelings are, its the actions. she may be truthfully tempted and really want all that stuff and feel those dirty things and want u etc, but she could be scared when it comes to it really happening. i mean i did this with a few guys before, i really do have this dirty fantasy-full imaginative creative juicy imagination all inmy head that i really would love to expereicne and i DO, its jsut when it comes down to meeting them or following through, it either ends up awkward or not feeling right so its like i close up. or i just am scared to actually do it because of the serious risks involved and fear of getting hurt and used or just looking bad not being good enough for the other person. but it could be any of these things. im just telling from expereince. and from the other end of the spectrum, how does it feel for this to happen, and do the guys mind if shes not that expereiced even though it seems she is based on all her fantasies etc.?
2007-03-20 05:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by coatedwithroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happen to me before also. They scared of what people are go to say about them. I tell them its just me and you alone ain't nobody is going to know.
2007-03-20 15:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by darc_man_xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question here is why do guys talk dirty, but scared to do it?
2007-03-20 12:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋