i dated this guy for 4 months. and we were really close friends and still r. we broke up and he got another gf immediately after our relationship failed. anyways his and the other girls relationship didnt work out either...for a while we were talking about getting back together. i still have really strong feelings for him. he has now started saying that he doesnt want a relationship right now cuz its too stressing and he wants to meet other people and stuff. and i said ok cuz he did this b4 and he ended up coming back to me but now he says he doesnt want a relationship till hes out of college. and he says he doesnt know if we have another chance or not. i dont know if i should just move on and forget him or not . my dreams usually come true and i had a dream that i was gonna be getting married to someone and hes gonna object and we r gonna end up getting married is this my sign as to whether or not i should move on?
2007-03-20 05:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by wayy2hott4ublonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Regardless of your epiphanies, he has told you point blank he does not want a relationship. Take him for his word because that is really all you have to go on. Move on with your life, you are only going to drive him away by hanging around. If it is somehow meant to be in the great design of life, let him come and find you and then (and only then) waste more time considering whether he is the one of not. Best of luck to you, dear.
2007-03-20 05:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you describe sounds pretty 'wishy-washy' to me and has expressed reservations about whether or not he wants a relationship with you. You can't persuade someone that doesn't want to be involved. On the contrary, you should seek a guy that has strong feelings for you and knows without a doubt that you are the girl for him. Your dreams and imagination seem to have the best of you. It's time for a reality check. I think you need to move on and get this guy out of your head. He apparently finds it stressful to be involved with you and that's probably more his problem than yours, but it should be enough to tell you everything you need to know. He has also made it very clear he plans to keep his options open e.g. date others. You seem to want a committment. You have other options too--explore them.
2007-03-20 12:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him have his space, cause when he left you and got a gf immediately she was just a rebound. He is trying to figure out what he wants. As for giving up, and moving on, there's not a cut and dry answer. You may need some time alone to figure out what you really want also, get out with friends and try to just live life.
2007-03-20 12:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by mr_ginger_here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on don't take him back. You have a long time before you find the right man. He is just looking for some p----. Go on with your lessons in school, you never want to be the re-bound girl, Never! Tell him you need space don't have sex with him at all no matter what this is your weapon of gaining controll.
2007-03-20 12:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really move on because only dreaming and waiting on him will cost you valuable time that you could be doing something else.......like accomplishing your dream career or other ambitions. If you dwell to much in the past then your past becomes your present and your present becomes your future.
I know its hard but begin to focus on things that are important to you. When your guy is ready........(I mean serious about a relationship) he'll come to you......don't chase after him.
2007-03-20 12:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Skyborn09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your head out of the clouds and put your feet on the ground girlie... it is over...
he is skirting all your questions so he won't hurt your feelings.
It is kaput.done..finito.over....
Dreams are dreams....
Are you living in reality or fantasy???
You are trying to be with someone who doesn't want you!!!!!!!!
hello, don't you deserve the whole thing??????
Quit grovelling and get back your dignity here. stand tall and get moving towards your future.
An ex is an ex for a reason, you have outgrown each other in ways that shouldn't be experienced together. Leave it be.....
You need to get a grip and quit spending so much time in this place and get on with your life.
2007-03-20 12:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months isnt such a long time you need at least 7 or 8 to know the person very good
move on
2007-03-20 12:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He doesn't want a relationship with you.
2007-03-20 12:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. If it's meant to be, you two will meet up again later.
2007-03-20 12:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl!!! If he can't make up his mind now what makes you think he'll make up his mind later!
2007-03-20 12:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋