2007-03-20 05:32:31 · 24 answers · asked by lisa s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you allow it to keep hurting. It is in your hands now. You are in control of your destiny. My advice and this might sound cliche, but you only have ONE life. DON'T waste it on people that don't matter, and you DON'T hurt the people who do. Think about that... Hope I helped.
2007-03-20 05:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by ainsley0805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you're hurting. I wish I could give you some easy solutions or tips as to how to get past the hurt quickly, but you know that's not possible. There's no time-table and it's important that you take special care of yourself. Independence and freedom are valuable things that you will learn to treasure in time. It may take as long to get over the hurt as the relationship lasted, but you'll progress slowly until you have healed completely. Good Luck
2007-03-20 05:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time DOES help. My husband died 6 years ago tomorrow and I still miss him even though I have gone on with life and have a boyfriend. It's important that you not brood; it can eat at you like a cancer. Just remember; it is HIS loss and there is someone out there that will make you stop hurting. Good luck and God bless
2007-03-20 05:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by gmabell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take as long as it takes you to get over him. Once you have come to grips with the fact that it is over and isn't going to come back together and once you realize that there is nothing that you can do about it you will be fine. Of course you may still think about him from time to time but you won't be hurt anymore.
2007-03-20 06:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange,i've just split up with my boyfriend and we were together 2years.it hurts so much.he finished me through text though so that made it worse and im slightly angry about it.i cant wait to move on and get over it,cos it doesnt feel like he's missing me at the moment.good luck babe,i hope the pain eases,my thoughts go out to you.at least u no ur not alone.do things to take your mind off of him,it does get easier- i hope!!!
xxx
2007-03-20 05:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Honeybee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months
2007-03-20 05:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by grasshopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you dwell on losing him, the hurt will continue. Expand your horizons and get over it. Go to new places,a nd meet new people. the beauty of the human race is that most males and females can learn to love and experience the good of anybody if they only take that first step.
2007-03-20 05:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on so many things - the worse case scenario is that it's going to take a long time - best case scenario is that you either change your life and do new things you have been putting off or you could go out this weekend and meet someone new!
2007-03-20 05:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take as long as it takes I am afraid. Don't do anything rash in the mean time. A temporary relief to the agony will only postpone the hurt.
2007-03-20 05:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Barry Von Leotard III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about a year, theres this thing were it says that it takes half as long of the relationeship to get over them
ex. gone out for 2 years, takes a bout a year to get over them.
2007-03-20 05:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋